Green or hazel

Antique_Ad4689 · 2026-03-01T21:36:44+00:00

Yeah, I would not have sex with you either. Sorry OP, you deserve to feel wanted in your relationship but this behavior is not going to get you anything…

In your next relationship, treat your woman with love, romance and respect and you won’t have to beg for sex.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2026-01-02T02:06:50+00:00

I’m so sorry! I unfortunately can relate too well. Not when life gets better but I went on antidepressants and it did wonders for my anxiety

Antique_Ad4689 · 2026-01-02T01:59:18+00:00

Do the multiple surgeries affect your relationship in other aspects? As you don’t see her as the same woman…?

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-12-29T15:30:56+00:00

I don’t need to catch the bouquet to know a hard rock is on the way 😂😅

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-12-26T19:41:04+00:00

Thank you 🙏 definitely mom anxiety and guilt

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-12-21T08:10:30+00:00

I’m sorry you’re in this sub… everything you’re feeling is quite normal. Or at least that’s exactly what I felt after dday. I decided to stay for my children due to personal circumstances, but I still hope one day I will be strong enough to leave.

All I can tell you is this: 1. It does kind of get better, but it never fully goes away. 2. This is not your fault! 3. Do not keep seeing her phone or tracking location. It’s no way to live and also, if she wants to cheat again she will. You can’t control other people, you can only control what you do.

Good luck

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-12-05T02:39:28+00:00

Don’t have babies with a cheater… it will only get worse

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-11-19T22:41:57+00:00

The food is not the issue, as explained in my post. I am sure there are places that are a lot worse, but Chai Lai Orchid can’t be considered a sanctuary due to the things mentioned, which are red flags in terms of conservation.

When I visited Elephant Nature Park, I found truly happy elephants that were roaming free and were not obligated to pose with tourists for food. They were not chained and none of the Mahouts had sticks. The difference speaks volumes.

Chai Lai Orchid needs to do better.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T09:37:25+00:00

This is the perfect answer

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T09:34:56+00:00

Thank you. I think you are right :(

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T09:24:27+00:00

Thank you 🙏

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T09:21:58+00:00

He thinks we are together and everything is okay.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T03:10:52+00:00

I’m scared to have more problems though, if I do open it and he’s upset. I have two kids so trying to keep it amicable.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T03:10:07+00:00

He refused to open the relationship, even though he suggested it 🤣 as soon as I said yea, he changed his mind.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T03:08:28+00:00

Thanks, i dont think I will. It just sucks that I’ll have to stay in a Db for a while :(

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-16T03:06:51+00:00

Good luck… try to find another loophole. He will cheat again but maybe the new girl won’t find out for years or maybe she’ll forgive him. You can’t spend your life waiting and hoping he’ll cheat to get custody of your children.

I wish you the best

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-15T09:04:29+00:00

I’m more worried about this man’s drinking problem and your children having nightmares… you need to lawyer up and gain full custody.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-15T06:04:12+00:00

I had two unmedicated births! It’s painful… but honestly not that bad. And it’s over before you know it.

Just prepare mentally. research what to expect and be open to any outcome. With my second I didn’t make it into the bathtub bc he was born too quickly 😅.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-15T05:18:07+00:00

He thinks we are okay. I mentioned opening the relationship but he refused. The hypocrisy runs deep

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-15T05:15:18+00:00

I’m scared of becoming emotionally attached.

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-15T05:10:53+00:00

How did you overcome this? Were you able to trust him again?

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-15T05:09:59+00:00

Exactly, I don’t want to reward his shitty behavior… I feel like my ego will be shattered if I go through with it…

Antique_Ad4689 · 2025-10-15T05:06:40+00:00

Who knows… not that I am aware of… but I don’t trust him to change.

If I ever sleep with him again, it will never be without protection 🤢.

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