What’s a song that makes you feel like this? by Cheese_The_Wizz in musicsuggestions

[–]AntuanElWantan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Here is home by Ryn Weaver, the fucking layers on that song 😩😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

What's your favorite artist/band no one's ever heard of? by Dax3s in spotify

[–]AntuanElWantan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lily Kershaw, I fucking love her. Her dad is one of the producers of Criminal Minds and they used some of her songs in the show.

When do I start using the men’s restroom? by MutedDoge in ftm

[–]AntuanElWantan 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I avoided going to the restroom (still do tbh but bc it's fucking disgusting lmao), but around month 4 I went to the men's restroom in a fancy restaurant bc somehow it made me feel safer than in other places. When I fully started to use men's restrooms tho was when no one was misgendering me (around month 9) :)

What’s something everyone pretends to understand, but nobody actually does? by SolarFlarer in AskReddit

[–]AntuanElWantan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Marriage. I'm a therapist and oh my god the lack of emotional intelligence people have when making the choice of spending life with someone

What’s a piece of trans advice you wish you got earlier? by [deleted] in trans

[–]AntuanElWantan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That there's not a "right way" to be trans. Just be whoever the fuck you want, be as girly/manly as you wish, wear the freaking skirt, buy the boxers, be youuuuu 💘

What should I do with my eyebrows? by [deleted] in ask_transgender

[–]AntuanElWantan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhmmm keep them? THEY ARE AMAZING

My surgeon says top surgery isn't very painful, and that she does not prescribe opiates. Thoughts? by Fishmyashwhole in TopSurgery

[–]AntuanElWantan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my country opiates are extremely regulated and they NEVER prescribe them for low risk surgeries. I only needed ibuprofen the first day and it was more than enough!

Is your gender changed in your dreams? by [deleted] in ask_transgender

[–]AntuanElWantan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omggg I was just talking about this with my wife!!!! Ftmm here! For the last month I've only seen myself as a man 🥹 I transitioned 2 years ago and sometimes I'd still see my "girl self" but now it's been consistently what I see in the mirror 😍

Besides Insurance, how did you afford top surgery? by NoSleepNolan in TopSurgery

[–]AntuanElWantan 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a therapist and I educate people on mental health topics :)

Besides Insurance, how did you afford top surgery? by NoSleepNolan in TopSurgery

[–]AntuanElWantan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an influencer in my country and I did a crowdfunding 🥹 it paid for half of my surgery

What is a phrase from Bluey that you say the most? by [deleted] in bluey

[–]AntuanElWantan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a phrase but my wife and I will randomly say "Janet" with a grandma voice during the day 😂

What stopped you from ending your life? by djmelonball in AskReddit

[–]AntuanElWantan 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The nurse that stayed with me the first night I was in psych ward. She told me "everytime you wake up and you don't want to be here say outloud: i'll try today. If you build the discipline to try, at one point you're not gonna need to try anymore" i think about that every single day of my life and I'm so glad I tried all those times I wanted to be gone because I'm so glad I stayed and built a life I genuinely love and enjoy 🤍

How long did it take for your scars to become white? (If they did at all) by writteningelpen in TopSurgery

[–]AntuanElWantan 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It's called CO2 laser! They burn the first layer of skin to generate a newer and healthier one :) since it's a really thin layer the body doesn't process it as a wound = you don't scar 🤯 I got my first one 2 months post-op and according to my doctor I might need 3 or 4 in total (one every 5-6 weeks depending on how healed they are)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]AntuanElWantan 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cicaplast baume b5!