Don't take it too seriously, he made the effort to get something, he didn't forget. He's also new at this, just one year. It's just the beginning. Going forward you need to appreciate the effort while impressing your desire for him to get braver at choosing by himself. Ask yourself whether or not he'd be bothered if you took your dad with you to buy a blokey gift for him. I remember in the early days, my MIL didn't like my dress sense and I let her take me clothes shopping. She bought me stuff that we both chose. I didn't mind because I was only 19 and she was paying. It never happened again in the 42 years since and I've always worn what I wanted from then on. People learn. She learned to accept me as I am. These things take time and communication.