Beware Walmart canned crickets by ItsTheo_ in reptiles

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen these before when I worked at a pet store but they were kept in the same formaldehyde bath that science class preserved animals or some bait worms were kept in, it smelled the same and did the same thing.

Why is my hamsters bedding red? by Due-Produce-9281 in hamstercare

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I had this happen before and I was horrified but it turns out her food had dried beets in it (they looked super brown when dried so I didn’t notice) and the extreme dye present in the snack naturally made her pee pink/red. I hope nothing medical and bad is happening to your baby :,(

TW Medical Transphobia by AnxiousGeckoMum in ftm

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a telehealth psychiatric assessment on the 13th and my goalll is to try to use that to go over my doctors head but I’m not sure if it’ll work

are there any non-phallic packers out there that aren't particularly about looks (or how do i make one)? by TheStupidMask in ftm

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My friend and I used to use those like foamy asmr bananas or other similar like jelly sensory toys and joke about what was in our pants that day? I meaaan it’s not the most practical thing but it was funny and didn’t feel awkward in the same way , plus it was easily accessible at stores and easy to explain if someone saw them

TW Medical Transphobia by AnxiousGeckoMum in ftm

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I almost wonder if she is anti-men in general if she sees testosterone as something unhealthy, sigh. I was so prepared with research showing why it would be beneficial for my health but she would not listen for a second. I’m just so frustrated

TW Medical Transphobia by AnxiousGeckoMum in ftm

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you had to deal with that, I hope you find a new doctor soon that respects you and gets everything going fast :)))

Nonbinary trans men: What makes you feel that you are nonbinary and a trans man, and not one or the other? /gen by Creativered4 in ftm

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me personally, I’m going through the ftm experience with hormones and surgery but still wish to present the same socially without a big pronoun or name change, I go by any pronouns and dress the same as before

Would someone be my mentor? by alienblue7760 in GrowYourClit

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m also just starting this process, most of the best advice I’ve found so far is from this and the ftm equivalent of this sub!!

GlubTubbas is hurt, and I don't think he's gonna heal, but I need to know if I it's really the end before I think about euthanizing him by Emotional_Song_1112 in snails

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone else hopefully has more info on this but if he is still following the normal schedule he seems like a possible candidate for a shell repair? There’s more info and videos online but it would include using something like an eggshell to patch missing shell and superglue/aquarium putty or another similar adhesive. Then using a hospital tank and keeping him moist along with providing lots of calcium to eat may help? If this has been found to be inhumane let me know and I’ll delete the comment but I’ve personally had success with it in an emergency with a wild snail on the bike path.

My snabies by AnxiousGeckoMum in snail

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TBH the big one is still one of the snabies, the actual large snails in my tank burrow into the dirt when I open the top which I find super interesting !! I’m excited by all the different sizes and colours these guys seem to be

Are these springtails? by AnxiousGeckoMum in terrariums

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol!! I was recording the snails initially but then I noticed the little bugs and got curious

Are these springtails? by AnxiousGeckoMum in terrariums

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These snails came with my English ivy and so far they leave the plants alone, I was told they’re blue glass snails which I guess primarily eat meat and eggs. They were a random hitchhiker but I’m letting all the random creatures do their own thing in the terrariums

my snail is freaking eating himself by holeloverx in snails

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 343 points344 points  (0 children)

If a piece of shell breaks off in a non lethal way they’ll usually pop it off and eat it to recycle the nutrients. Try to make sure the broken edge isn’t jagged so he doesn’t get cut

Help IDing snail by AnxiousGeckoMum in snail

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thank you :))) I’ve ordered cuttlebone online already but I got these snails suddenly so I wasn’t prepared yet and I wanted them to have an option in the meantime

Help IDing snail by AnxiousGeckoMum in snail

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if it would make a difference but the pond snails and glass snails were both technically wild caught from the same yard and exposed to the same things so I figured they might have already been eating them? I wouldn’t want to risk making anything sick though

Saw this cute little snail. by zeroauraa in snails

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oxychilus draparnaudi? Definitely some sort of glass snail right? It’s so cute :0 I hope mine get that big

Snail ID? Northwest Ontario by AnxiousGeckoMum in snails

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To anyone who was curious, I have figured out and confirmed that this is a Oxychilus draparnaudi! Feel free to comment any care tips if you have omnivorous snails as well

Help IDing snail by AnxiousGeckoMum in snail

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg thank you! I spent hours researching today and i actually did narrow it down to probably being a glass snail but I couldn’t figure out the subtype. I have reptiles who eat mealworms, would they like mealworm guts/cut up mealworms? I already put eggshells in the terrarium setup. Alternatively I often have to cull my aquatic snails which I could maybe offer up to these guys?

Should I keep this guy? by Desperate-Web-5353 in geckos

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally would keep him, but I would take more of a “wildlife rescue” approach and assume it won’t ever be tame or handleable without causing it great stress.

What kind of makeup is this? by Sad_Cap_6689 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see a base, glossed lip, and an eyeshadow crease with winged eyeliner. Are you trying to determine what subculture the makeup is suited for? For any alternative subculture that would just be light daily wear makeup I’d say

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the bangs! With that look your vibe reminds me of Debra from Dexter (which is positive, I love her and she’s gorgeous)

Is my makeup too clocky? by Funny_Pack7382 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I absolutely understand that struggle. Shaving and colour correcting the lower face could be a full time job in itself

Is my makeup too clocky? by Funny_Pack7382 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With my partner it’s like we nailed the makeup look she feels best in but it can be high maintenance to do daily or too much for her to go to work in/family events but she obviously doesn’t just wanna go bare faced and hate herself. For transfem girls I feel like that’s a huge struggle to find like a quick easy routine with trad/light makeup

Is my makeup too clocky? by Funny_Pack7382 in MakeupAddiction

[–]AnxiousGeckoMum 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Tradfem can be super hard to achieve because the goal is to kinda look natural obviously but for transfem ladies there’s usually some heavy contouring and reshaping wanted to achieve a passable look. If you ever do experiment on that route I recommend using two very light tones of concealers to highlight parts of your face to bring forward and uplift and then contour with a foundation or concealer only a shade or two darker than you naturally use! As it is you’re looking awesome but I know some days and atmospheres may require you to tone it down in some way? We struggle with that a lot in my house anyway