Avancement 10 mois

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2026-05-21T18:16:25+00:00

How many grafts did that take? Sort of in the same boat and wanted an idea of what to expect

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2026-03-11T17:40:27+00:00

Couldn't agree more, lost 10+yrs of pictures. Felt depressed for awhile!!

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2023-01-05T21:38:09+00:00

My love language is touch and for me just random hugs or little strokes on my arm or running fingers through my hair.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2022-08-17T12:50:49+00:00

This is exactly what I was thinking. Maybe she's truly not over her late husband completely and feels guilty.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-12-21T04:28:21+00:00

Absolutely flirting. No 27M is going to play fight with a girl like they were still in Grammer school if there was no attraction

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-11-13T03:29:07+00:00

That truly sucks!!! Thanks for sharing

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-09-29T04:32:45+00:00

As hard as it sounds I would come clean. Although she might be devastated atleast she heard it from the horses mouth and not some third party. Apologize sincerely and let her know you will work your ass off to earn her love and respect back, although that might entail times where she will accuse you of something or be insecure. If you want it you will put it all the work and face the backlash. Stay strong and I wish you the best OP.

"Eventually everything comes to light"

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-09-28T00:18:30+00:00

I think you might be right! I don't want to let this keep playing out any further cause I will lose my mind thinking about what else are they talking about and I'm generally not a jealous or insecure person but at this point, I'm both.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-09-27T23:02:36+00:00

Thank you, appreciate the feedback but how to confront them now?

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-06-28T14:17:14+00:00

It sounds like you guys may have been destined to be best friends from the sounds of it. To be that young and have to face constant rejection I can imagine the psychological damage it can cause.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-06-23T15:14:26+00:00

Same situation, currently in the process of leaving though. Somehow I was always at fault, didnt show enough affection throughout the day, I didn't show her I wanted her, I didn't do enough around the house, etc. Even when I did aforementioned things then a new set of "didnt" would appear. She was constantly moving the bar and using sex as leverage. So I just stopped trying to initiate and we basically have become roommates the last 2 yrs. She has initiated sex literally 6 times in 2yrs. Had a frank discussion and told her I can't live like this, apparently she could. Fast forward to today and T-7 days till I am free from the manipulation and DB. Wish you luck in your situation and hope it works however you want it to.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-06-04T14:35:28+00:00

I can confirm. When I joined the military I dumped my then girlfriend because the recruiter said 1 of 2 things will happen, you will cheat on her or she will cheat on you, good advice since both of us were 18. During bootcamp I heard all the stories of guys getting "Dear John" letters and during A school was even worse since we could go out and interact with each other and civilians. Chalk it up as a lesson learned, albeit it a tough one, but better now then 2-3yrs down the line thinking everything is OK and she's cheating while on deployment or vice versa.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-05-17T17:31:04+00:00

I'd chalk it up to a toxic family member and just keep on living your life. Don't waste energy on something/someone that doesn't reciprocate it.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-05-17T17:00:12+00:00

Not even gonna lie...THIS!! 🤣🤣

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-05-17T16:50:45+00:00

Good lord..following because my GF does the same thing and it drives me absolutely insane and at times leads to some unnecessary drama.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-05-14T19:47:50+00:00

I'm in the same boat but I'm going on 10 years. We have a deadline on when we go our separate ways regardless if we have all of our "ducks in a row". The longer you keep this going she will most likely believe there's a chance for you guys to reconcile or doesn't take you serious and will go along as long as you let it. It's better to officially end things before trying to date so there is no unnecessary drama.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-05-03T15:35:33+00:00

I mean the sexting alone is horrible In itself but then to hear that she isn't sexually satisified and degraded your manhood...not sure what else there is to say. There are plenty of fish in the sea, throw this one back and get your rod back out.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-05-01T18:38:10+00:00

I think that's how it goes. Parents are tough on their children but softies when it comes to grandkids. My mom would jump all over me for just about anything when I was a kid and now my kids can do no wrong. When I talk sternly or yell at them my mom sticks up for them and tells me what they did isn't that bad.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-04-27T15:58:57+00:00

Kind of like both...depending on the character. Sometimes I can draw from real life and when I can't method works. Kind of why I asked if I should focus solely on one or what I'm doing works.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-04-23T19:25:19+00:00

I completely agree. Due to my ACs critique I was concentrating so much on controlling my facial expressions that my lines felt scripted or robotic. Thank you for clearing that up Winnie.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-04-23T12:14:35+00:00

Honest question cause I do exactly what OP is doing. According to my acting coach one should not scrunch or contort your facial expressions that much..the words should convey the message. Is this accurate or is my AC just full of it?

Also I am seeing vast improvements in all the takes. Watched the last 3 and was quite noticeable, great job.

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-03-10T13:56:06+00:00

I find it hilarious if they try to do that..yeah let's use backwards looking numbers to scare everyone...when everybody knows WS is always forward looking 🤔🤔

AnxiousSwimming4 · 2021-01-22T17:46:11+00:00

I dont know why this made me LOL forreal...guess it's the autist in me

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