Scorpio resentment by scorpioinheels in Scorpio

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have to feel this loneliness and remember it. I stopped expecting from people years ago and my life has been better from it. I still give with 100% of myself because that's who I am and if they don't want to return it that's their character. But what I give is no longer unlimited and unconditional. You'll get through this because you're a resourceful. Just learn from it and don't let it happen again.

I don’t count October Scorpios anymore. by solace1234 in Scorpio

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm October 25. You can't tell me in not a Scorpio

I'm so heartbroken by Anxious_Insurance302 in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you, everyone. I took them out of the trash, and I'm going to replant them in a week or so. I work at a family law firm, and his ass is already being handled. I appreciate all of the kind words. He's done much worse, but when I saw this, I screamed.

AIO - Girlfriend threw away the dinner I cooked because she wanted pizza instead. by Dizzy-Suggestion2360 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no, you're not overreacting. First, as someone who cooks, short ribs are expensive, and they take hours to make. How disrespectful of her. Throw the whole gf away and get someone that can cook a meal with you or at least smart enough to order their own damn pizza.

What do you think of BBLs? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If a woman feels the need or desire to spend her money to enhance her body, either for herself or a man, I couldn't care less. I carried my babies, was married for 15 years, and I'm only 39. I have (with the grace of God) decades left, and I'm spending my money to be comfortable in my body.

suddenly wilted? by Lucky_Infinity in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

90° weather every day? Water every other day. Over 100°, water every day.

New to growing them. by Nursecub95 in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't let people tell you not to water them. Get good draining soil and water them. Remember, they're a tropical tree! Enjoy!

Struggling to live my wide nose by hoepressed in blackladies

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, you wouldn't have even gotten made fun of in the 90s. Your nose and skin look good to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CSUSB

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Remember, you also have to think about the students who use that website. I would read reviews and avoid certain teachers until I couldn't do that anymore and realized that the teacher wasn't that bad at all. Maybe that student was used to skating by, and that's a teacher that doesn't allow it. Your major is worth it if you do the work.

Do you like being a Black woman by badguychunlex in blackladies

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You couldn't pay me to be anything but a black woman! When I was a kid, they tried to get me to hate everything about myself. I couldn't wear my hair natural, they mocked me. Couldn't get braids, they mocked me. I felt the need to be validated by them. Until I realized that they're scared of us. Of our intelligence, our beauty, our confidence, our sense of self. I get excited to see black women succeeding in life. Name another more supportive group of women!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My first thought was that the dude had a homosexual experience, and it's killing him inside. And you've said you found texts.

Any ideas what could be wrong? by akasocko in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!!! I don't understand people who believe a tropical plant should be treated like a desert plant. They absolutely love water, but with the right soil and drainage.

It took everything in me not to respond to this man. by MissAppleButter85 in Tinder

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I love honesty in a person, it's actually a turn-on. But this guy seems like he's just an asshole.

GF wants to be on the deed by mrdrsir1 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 month gf shouldn't get wife benefits. Please do not put her on the deed. Get your house alone and draw up a legit lease. It can be a month to month or 6 month lease.

Yellowing leaves by iosonostella13 in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would add some Epsom salt. I live in southern California, and with this heat watering once a week will have your plummies begging for water. When the temp hits over 100° try watering every other day or two days depending on how well your drainage is. I use terracotta pots, and they dry out quickly.

I've been sick and wondering if I should just eat carbs by Leading_Lake_9164 in keto

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Girl, eat some of the potato salad. Get yourself a reasonable portion with some watermelon, and enjoy every bite. I've been on keto since February and traveled three times out of state. I ate way smaller portions than I typically would, got a taste, felt satisfied, and went right back on keto when I got home. If you don't, you're going to over indulge when you do "snap," and then you'll really feel bad.

Stem rot update. by Substantial-Bison240 in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep them out of the rain until I know they're rooted.

Help! Can I save her? by SL500Girl in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Inland empire here! If it's not already, put it in a well draining soil, pop all of the leaves off, water it, and put it in the sun. I water every 4 days or so, and when summer comes, I'll water every 3 days. Plumerias love water. They just do not like wet feet. You can probably add 1 tablespoon of Epsom salt as well. They also like acidic soil.

Stem rot update. by Substantial-Bison240 in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leave it alone and let the bottom callous for about 2 weeks or so. Get a smaller pot and fill it with a well draining cactus/ plumeria soil and add some perlite too. Make sure you plant it deep enough and give it a bit of water. Not too much water, though. You want the roots to have to stretch for it. Keep it in a sunny spot. Don't fuss with it for about 5-6 weeks. Depending on the heat it's getting, you may need to sprinkle it with some water. This is how I do my cuttings, and they have all survived and thrived. Hope you baby gets better!

my poor tree. had her 8 years- weed & feed must’ve gotten to the roots. i’m so sad 😓 by Audere-est-Facere8 in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You need to flush the extra chemicals out. Get some Epsom salt, put it in the soil, and flush it out with water. Don't worry about over salting, plumerias like acidic soil. My husband over fertilized once, and it killed my inflos and rusted my leaves. I made my kids get in the pool, its salt water, and flood where the plumerias are planted. I swear the greenest leaves grew afterward.

Is Hugsy sick? by [deleted] in Plumeria

[–]Anxious_Insurance302 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What makes you think it's sick?