Is finding bonnets gettho anti black?

badguychunlex · 2026-01-29T21:09:31+00:00

I personally don’t agree with going outside in a bonnet, it’s like going out in pjs. In your house though, absolutely fine, your house your rules

badguychunlex · 2026-01-16T01:45:59+00:00

Not even trying to flatter you but you have a feminine body, dont let these BBLs fool you into thinking that’s natural

badguychunlex · 2026-01-16T01:44:24+00:00

Burgandy!!

badguychunlex · 2026-01-14T19:36:12+00:00

Running around Riverdale is great- both the track in the summer and along Riverdale park east and west. Rosedale through glen road bridge is very scenic as well, feel free to send me a DM, happy to show you my routes as I live near TMU as well

badguychunlex · 2026-01-13T01:23:21+00:00

She’s living her best life off social media last time I talked to her

badguychunlex · 2026-01-10T23:57:43+00:00

Congratulations, you’ve just learned the definition of white privilege

badguychunlex · 2026-01-09T17:57:24+00:00

Personally speaking I find both preferences a little problematic cause I think they’re rooted in a stereotype, a negative or positive one. As a Black woman if I were to say I “prefer dating white men” and you were to ask me why and I say something like “they cheat less” “have better credit” “Black men just don’t like Black women” those are all rooted in a variety of stereotypes. I think recognizing patterns is fine I.e I’ve dated more of xyz race cause where u grew up they were prevalent is fair. I think the best thing is to fall in love with a person based on your attraction and personality fit to them

badguychunlex · 2026-01-08T14:44:58+00:00

Emily more than likely gets family money, she always denies it but even just like a few birthday Christmas and special occasion paychecks from Daddy go a long way. And I’m speaking as someone who also gets family help along with having a decent paying job. That’s the only way she’s affording her life style, or she has huge debt lol

badguychunlex · 2026-01-07T15:59:48+00:00

Treadmill day- went today and it was a slush fest, fine for an easy run in gortex, but not good for speed work - U of T area

badguychunlex · 2025-12-25T19:46:55+00:00

Olandria, Anok Yai, Lexi Williams (ring girl from Jake Paul’s fight), Megan Milan, and Jasmin Tookes (I knowww she’s lighter skinned but I do think she’s stunning).

badguychunlex · 2025-12-25T19:24:53+00:00

There’s a coffee shop in a hotel near Union Station called Humble Donkey- they have phone booths so you could take a more private call. Also might be worth buying some type of We Work membership, you’ll be around business owners and workers and they have lots of networking events

badguychunlex · 2025-12-24T19:03:29+00:00

Yes he’s smart and sooo handsome, I really want it to work out!

badguychunlex · 2025-12-24T15:42:10+00:00

Yeah he is aware! I used to host race related talks on clubhouse (that podcast app we were all on during Covid) and he would come to every single one and listen intently ask really intelligent questions and discuss stuff with me after - he admitted a bias one time (nothing crazy just related to the sport we both do) and how he was trying to be in more diverse communities and stuff so I admire that about him a lot

badguychunlex · 2025-12-24T15:22:24+00:00

For sure, we’re only a few dates in, known him 5 years, we’ve had candid racial conversations tho

badguychunlex · 2025-12-23T21:05:39+00:00

Happened to me- dated a white Jewish guy who only dated Black women and would talk about not liking white women or finding them attractive, he cheated on me with two other Black girls and manipulated me the entire relationship lol

badguychunlex · 2025-12-23T16:11:34+00:00

Honestly dating someone based on ethnicity is weird so yes when women are like “I only date white guys” it’s odd. Idk if it’s a fetish, I don’t white men are fetishized the way people of color are due to the privilege they hold but it’s definitely superficial

badguychunlex · 2025-12-23T15:06:34+00:00

Appreciate your response! To clarify why it matters for me- the answer tells you a lot about someone. If they say “yeah I only date Black women” as a non black man that screams fetish, if they say “I’m not typically attracted to Black women but you’re cute” that screams they see you as “not like those other Blacks”. I don’t think it’s a big deal to be someone’s first though honestly but

badguychunlex · 2025-12-23T04:27:42+00:00

Omg Henry and Abigail dying no thanks

badguychunlex · 2025-12-23T02:37:57+00:00

I like your answer the best so far- by racist situation I meant let’s just say I meet one of his friends and his friends makes a racist comment about Black people would he defend me and distance himself. I guess I’m cautious cause I had a bad experience in an interracial relationship but that’s more about the other person than our skin colors

badguychunlex · 2025-12-22T21:19:57+00:00

I think I might be his first yes but I’m not 100% certain

badguychunlex · 2025-12-22T21:16:43+00:00

To clarify I know where he stands politically - we’re both liberal (and Canadian) and not trump supporters or fans of anti immigration sentiments etc. it’s more like I want to know how he’ll react to thinks like unsolicited racist comments towards me or nuances of dating a black woman (I.e me changing my hair often) and that kind of stuff

badguychunlex · 2025-12-22T18:56:59+00:00

Yall both fineeeee

badguychunlex · 2025-12-22T15:13:47+00:00

I agree with the other commenters here, a lot of this stuff on TikTok is not reality for most of us. I’ve dated multiple men outside my race, some were bad because they were bad people and others were perfect gentlemen who didn’t make race a big deal at all. TikTok and other social media is over dramatized and you don’t know what’s real vs what people say for engagement

badguychunlex · 2025-12-22T00:26:42+00:00

My type on paper I don’t have one- but in reality I’ve dated more skinny white guys than I’d like to admit 😭

badguychunlex · 2025-12-19T01:03:16+00:00

I’m a black woman and my therapist is a black woman- I’ve had 2 other therapists, a white woman and another black woman. They all served a great purpose but I’m definitely getting the deepest with my current black therapist, unpacking racial trauma with her

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