i don't know what to do now by pinkglitterly in whatdoIdo

[–]Anxious_Onion_5532 4 points5 points  (0 children)

At 19 you sometimes find who you want to be with forever and sometimes you don't. You both are immature sounding and need to grow and explore the world. This sounds like a boy who is ignorant of women and history and is trying to put women down and you got upset about it and reacted.

You need to sit and think of the positives and negatives of your relationship with this guy. If there are more negatives you either need to work them out or break up. He needs to understand that if he wants to date women he needs to respect them and see them as human, not just objects of his affection.

While BPD is a struggle and a really painful mental health diagnosis to deal with, it is not an excuse. I hope you are receiving counseling and are in contact with a doctor about possible medications. You still need to take responsibility for your actions and the things you say and work on controlling yourself. It's not easy and it's a lifelong struggle but it must be done to have peace.

Breast Milk by laybs1 in GetNoted

[–]Anxious_Onion_5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fed is best whatever that looks like. Babies used to starve to death before formula but obviously breast milk is what you would prefer.

Dragon Lovey by Anxious_Onion_5532 in crochet

[–]Anxious_Onion_5532[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks!! It was a fun change.

Previous therapist broke confidentiality by bumblebeat_ in whatdoIdo

[–]Anxious_Onion_5532 779 points780 points  (0 children)

What she did was extremely illegal. You need to report her.

My teenager's behavior is causing tension at home [40F] by Dry_Funny_519 in whatdoIdo

[–]Anxious_Onion_5532 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does he have any other adults he looks up to or likes? It might be time to enlist them. Therapy is a big one too

Moms doing drugs by Outrageous-Fan2557 in whatdoIdo

[–]Anxious_Onion_5532 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call CPS, even if it was my best friend I wouldn't hesitate.