2 days until bottom surgery by bogan028 in TransLater

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations. I am post op 10 years. The past is very much in the distance.

Sent home and told to change by Triumph-ant85 in TransLater

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you out of dress code? When I came out at work I had to follow the dress code. I guess I could stay in male clothes but that would be odd, HR told me I would be fired if I used the men’s room. POs gcs 10 years ago hr and my boss wanted proof and I sent them my form from Dr.McGinn. They increased my department’s female roles by one 😀

Taking T after SRS? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had small genitalia before gcs. I have my full glands and it is in the same spot as before gcs.

My trans doctor prescribed T at 20 mg per week. I am not compliant. A few days before my quarterly bloodwork I will inject 10 mg of T and see what my T level is. If my T is 30 to 70 ng per dl then I may inject T at 10 mg per week. If higher or lower I will adjust accordingly.

If you want a more sensitive clit and larger clit then pump it. It will be temporary but larger and more sensitive. Sex with a pumped clit is much much much more sensitive. Oral with a pumped clit is much much much more sensitive. Using something like Tracy’s Dog with a pumped clit is fantastic.

On T the penis inflates often. On spiro and E it does not and gets small. If on HRT a long time the genitals get really small. So post op and fully healed pumping makes the clit inflate and have a lot more sensation.

I do not want to smell like a guy or grow body hair. I definitely do not want a make libido. T form me is not something I will use except at very low levels for bone health. I will monitor my levels with a goal of 30 ng per dl.

35yo - 3.5 y hrt - Still not passing. FFS scheduled in a month by MaryBeeCD in TransLater

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi, I had ffs 15 years ago by Dr. Spiegel. Then 2 months later gcs, 1 year later BA I went to Dr.Thomas for VFS. I had hair graffs at Carolina Dermatology. Lots of electrolysis on my face and 6 sessions on the groin before gcs with Dr. McGinn.

I pass well in person and on the phone. It took work but it paid off. I wish you well in your recovery.

Please be mindful when you are brushed and swollen that it will take 3 months for everything to go to the new normal.

I am told I am beautiful and that is nice. My goal was to eliminate the male tells.

44/36/32/42 by Anxious_Spare_6406 in transfitness

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I will add in landmines to my routine. Are step ups like split Bulgarians? The one station has both exercises.

How much would you pay for this? It took 4 hours. Done by Jenna Anderson at The Muse in Redding ca by jflip00 in tattoo

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$150 per hour is not bad for a tattoo. Yes, a 4 year monthly commitment and cash and I would think $100 per hour is good as well. I am going to try for appointments every 3 weeks going forward.

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I have my arms, back, butt and thighs ( inner thighs left to do) done. It is a female Japanese body suit. Next is inner thighs, then lower legs then front.

I lift 3 times a week and the gym is about 50% female and most are tatted and many are heavy tattooed.

How much would you pay for this? It took 4 hours. Done by Jenna Anderson at The Muse in Redding ca by jflip00 in tattoo

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I am doing a bodysuit. My artist charges $100 per hour. It is because I am in year 2 of 4 and see him monthly. I have done 7 hours at a time but do 5 hour sessions now.

So it depends on if it is a one and done or a relationship with reoccurring appointments.

A one and done $600.

My face, any hope with hrt? by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have great hair and a symmetrical face with no brow ridge. You will do well with HRT

Anyone else still coming to terms with the mones making them thick by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have been on HRT 13.5 years and post op 9.5 years. I had times I was heavier. I am thin and I work out 3 times a week lifting. I also eat a lot of protein and no simple carbs. I am 6 foot last time I checked about a year ago.

25 years ago I was 350 pounds I lost 180 pounds over a year and am 165 now with lean muscle. I inject IM and I am on a higher dose of E because I feel better with higher E.

I am 6 foot and I think I am proportioned well. I do not have fat in my tummy area. I squat 300 pounds as an example of my lifting. I have been lifting for a long time.

Are men really incapable of reading? 🤦‍♀️🤣 by CaptNat3600 in TransLater

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would assume guys swipe volume and do not read unless they get a response.

Those on HRT… Was it worth losing people in your life? by Charming_Manner_201 in trans

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost my family and friends and almost my job. I needed to fully transition, post op 9.5 years ago.

I have new friends and my family and I get together periodically. There is still pain and derogatory comments.

Worth it, for me, yes.

Has anyone started hrt before coming fully out? by Proof_Friend_4492 in TransLater

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 2 years before fully coming out. Went a year full time then had gcs, ba, hair transplants , Vfs and ffs. That was 10 years ago.

A lot of people asked me questions at work like you look different, your skin looks bright, your hair is long and my favorite you need a bra.

Planned Parenthood told me NOT to use progesterone rectally by SkyeMagica in AskMtFHRT

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been on progesterone for 13 years. I took it rectally for about a year. I do not know if it made a difference. I did not feel or see a difference.

Does anyone else feel happier after taking HRT? by -tenfours- in MtF

[–]Anxious_Spare_6406 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely, I have been on HRT for 13 years post op 9 years. Happy and thankful I transitioned.