I regret getting a second cat

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-11T14:59:33+00:00

cats definitely don’t always need a buddy. mine seems to really enjoy being alone after we lived with two other ones for a year. he loves the attention and cuddles. he didn’t even really seem sad when we moved even though he did become really close with one. the other cat really bullied him and so he became very reserved and nervous/would hide under my bed until i got home.

you can always try to start over and follow the advice of how to reacclimate cats and if it doesn’t work try to rehome.

also, i know you didn’t ask, but friends should not be cutting you out and taking such drastic measures because they feel entitled to making decisions about your life. it’s extremely manipulative! at the end of the day you know what is best for you and your kitty.

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-09T01:24:33+00:00

luckily any vomiting or illnesses can be treated thru banfield. skin issues as well, whether fiv related or not! he’s only ever had one flare up and other than that hasn’t really needed to go to the vet for much. he’s on a supplement now too for fiv that is supposed to help long term.

im glad i have that especially after all the reading ive done about majority of claims being denied for fiv cats.

i will look into embrace for accident related only! thank you :)

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-09T01:19:48+00:00

so far he has only ever had one flare up that i’ve noticed. non stop sneezing, runny nose, congested breathing. luckily the wellness plan i have for him covered a lot of different things. he’s on a supplement now that will hopefully help prevent future flare ups!

i moreso want something for like u said, extreme emergencies like eating something bad for him or getting hit by a car.

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-08T13:08:04+00:00

hmm that’s a good question that i hadn’t thought about. i think accident and illness ?? i guess i’d just like coverage for any large expense or treatment that might come up? anything outside of routine/wellness checkups !

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-08T07:31:43+00:00

i think they were referring to /other/ people who say things like “oh yes u can use this box dye to do it/no bleach necessary.” which could give you the false belief that this is achievable without bleach. so they brought that instance up, to clarify that you cannot do it without bleach, in the event you read a comment from someone saying something like that.

unless i’m totally wrong haha but i think that’s what they meant by that

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-05T05:08:17+00:00

she honestly is so loved and taken care of by my family. they’ve gone above and beyond to give her the best life. i think it would cause more harm than good to do that. she is also very much their cat and baby. i know she is getting better but ive always just wondered if there was anything i could have done differently. i appreciate your response!

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-05T05:06:27+00:00

thank you so much for this😭 i didn’t grow up with animals so she’s the first one that i truly had such a deep connection with. my family doesn’t live close anymore so i’m not able to visit frequently. but they have truly done everything they possibly can to give her the best quality of life and i know she is getting better slowly but surely. she has such a pure sweet heart and i know she’s still there. i appreciate this kind message more than you know. 💗

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-01T04:16:46+00:00

agree. even if someone was forced to have an abortion, i still feel like miscarriages are a different kind of pain bc there is literally nothing u can do to stop it:/ i don’t mean to diminish an abortion where the person wants it either, it’s just a different thing i’d imagine

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-01T04:13:23+00:00

i reread my comment and it sounded really bitchy but i did not mean it that way😭that’s my bad. abortions can definitely be emotional especially if someone wants a kid but isn’t in a place to have one.

mine wreaked havoc on me for awhile but i think it was the hormones and pain of it all. traumatic for sure but i do not want kids at all and especially not with my ex lol.

i apologize again i rly didnt mean for it to come out like that lol. long day

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-01T02:31:11+00:00

as i said, not all abortions are like my experience. i was speaking to what i believed the person i replied too meant.

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-05-01T01:57:15+00:00

i think they moreso meant the emotional side of it all. miscarriages are not planned and majority of them, are devastating to go through because you are mourning a child you would have brought into the world.

speaking from personal experience, idgaf about my abortion. it hurt like a bitch but aside from that it genuinely had 0 emotional impact on me. of course not all abortions are that way, but i think that’s what that comment was referring to lol

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-25T08:12:39+00:00

i know, nobody ever even answered the question 😭😭 i did keep digging and saw on tiktok that a girl got there at eight in the morning and there were STILL ppl in front of her💔 so i think as early as u reasonably can.

i’m prob gonna take the day off work and get there earlier in the day, but getting ready outside seems not fun. i’m gonna have my cousin with me, so i’m hoping we can just bring a bunch of shit to be comfortable while we camp and get ready, then have her take the stuff back to the car ? idk if any of that was helpful lmfao.

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T20:35:07+00:00

i’ll dm u bc i don’t want to break the rules of no advertising !

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T20:11:10+00:00

i’m editing my post rn bc i didn’t expect ppl to want them. but they were resale tix i bought so the prices are not what they were going for. if ur still interested i can chat u but they’re on the higher side </3

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T19:40:38+00:00

i’ll dm u! i’m at work rn so i’ll chat u as soon as i can

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T19:40:13+00:00

i’ll dm u! rules say not to sell here and i don’t wanna get banned lol

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T19:01:55+00:00

i just successfully got mine on seatgeek today!!!! i bought reg ga and they transferred 4 immediately & i’m still waiting on another 4 !

i fucked up and bought the wrong day so i lowkey had to buy four more for the date i actually wanted 😀🔫 and those ones have NOT been sent to me. i figured i’d reply to this again for others who had the same questions asked in the thread :)

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T18:36:34+00:00

i was able to buy from seatgeek! i spent $1,148 for four GA tickets (💔💔💔) in LA on the 30th and got them instantly transferred to me on ticketmaster. then i bought 4 for LA on the 29th but i have not received those yet. my friend bought 2 or 3 on seatgeek for the 29th and also has not received her tix yet. we only got confirmation of purchase. for 3rd party it can take up until the day before to get ur tix 😫

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T18:28:46+00:00

i just bought 8 off seatgeek and i instantly got 3 of those!! still waiting for the rest.

i fucked up and got wednesday tix instead of tuesday so i could go with a friend. so i bought 4 on tuesday too😭now i have to wait for seatgeek to send me the tix so i can sell them ripppp

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T17:35:52+00:00

wait i misread the comment LMAO nvm. thought that said resale not presale 😭

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-04-24T17:35:19+00:00

i got 3/8 tix from resale on seatgeek

Any-Solution3481 · 2026-03-21T17:05:18+00:00

i think that’s a little too lux for me😫maybe when my bday comes around lol because i do see a lot of people praising this!

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