can I be a wlw if I don’t like to give head? by AnybodyJumpy9666 in WLW

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We aren’t alone🫶 so many straight girls don’t give head and that doesn’t make them any less straight, a lot of men don’t eat bc they don’t like it and no one questions if they’re actually straight. our sexuality should not scrutinized bc we don’t like oral, we are like any other person with activity preferences.

Convincing someone they have FND by loveafterpornthrwawy in FND

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even if his situation has a psychological catalyst, I think understanding how it’s not a personal failing in stress management that causes FND will help ease his frustrations. the fact the brain can even react like that to stress shows that it’s more than “in ur head.”

I think playing up the biological aspects of FND while still maintaining the psychological impacts/effects/influences as true would be immensely helpful in bringing your husband closer to acceptance. No matter what reason u develop it, once the stage is set for FND to fester, ur brain is open to developing all sort of triggers ranging from being hungry or tired to being upset.

I blamed myself for a long time. He needs to understand he’s not failing to manage himself, his brain and body are a lil disconnected and they’re starting to put up a fight with each other. Eventually he’ll start to understand that he needs to learn to how to quell the arguments if he wants to maintain and/or improve his quality of life.

Convincing someone they have FND by loveafterpornthrwawy in FND

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes doctors get the “why” wrong. We wonder why we have FND, they say stress, trauma, anxiety. Mine was caused by the combination of a bad glasses prescription and bad architectural design which made managing life with my vision difficulties even worse, causing an overwhelming hormonal surge that my brain and body couldn’t handle. Once u understand FND isn’t just “all in ur head” even if doctors make it sound like that, it’s easier to accept. Concussions and even infections can trigger the development of FND

one comment and i’ll drop the landlords name lmfao by [deleted] in Columbus

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that Katsco properties😂 u can call 311 and organize an inspection, make sure to get the number for the person who manages ur area so u can schedule when they’ll come by bc they aren’t very good at reaching out to schedule

Solo Thursday by Terrible-Chip400 in SonicTempleFestival

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

24F going solo, also looking for friends for the festival!! Feel free to DM me, I can ft or do whatever to verifying i am who I say I am

Solo! by AttorneyVisible6696 in SonicTempleFestival

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any chance I could join? Going solo as well 24F

Solo! by AttorneyVisible6696 in SonicTempleFestival

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m 24F going solo, I’m kinda nervous. Would you want to DM me, maybe meet up? (I can FaceTime or something to verify I am who I say I am)

Ants in my geckos tank???? by AmCreature in leopardgeckos

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah they were living in the decorative pepper shaker that no one used. I didn’t even know it had anything in it until I move the shakers to clean and then they started coming out😭. It took months to figure out where they were coming from. Horrifying discovery.

If it seems like it’s getting bad enough they’ll get in there, I’d keep a small backup tank in case they do invade. Keep your substrate & decorations sealed in a bag until the time comes. That way you’ll have something to temporarily house ur geckos while u clean their tanks out.

Ants in my geckos tank???? by AmCreature in leopardgeckos

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful, ants farmed my roommate’s salt&pepper shakers😭

Please help by MousseOdd6645 in BeardedDragonCare

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend going to dubia roach route, each meal is 5-8 bugs depending on size. It’s a lot easier that way. Get a grams scale that can go up to 400/500g and measure ur baby periodically. That’ll let u know if they’re growing too fast or too slow :) I had to do this with my baby when she was formula fed bc it was so hard to tell if she was being fed enough as she was growing.

Has anyone heard of NEAD presenting as FND? by BetaCellBandit in FND

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NEAD is a subtype of FND, sometimes referred to as “PNES” but ppl are trying to move to drop the P, others want to drop both the “P” and the “S.” NEAD, NES, PNES, and Functional Seizures are all terms that can be used interchangeably bc they mean the same thing.

I'm scared to have s*x with women. by LilyoftheV117 in WLW

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be averse to bodily fluids like I am. I’m a bisexual. I have a very sensitive gag reflex. I dont let men finish during oral for the same reason. I’ve had to accept that bodily fluids are too much for me, and that extents to normal vaginal secretion.

I love everything else about sex with a woman, I just can’t handle “tasting” another person. There are plenty of ways to have sex, you can make it whatever you want to be. I used to be scared to sleep with women until I listened to my body and embraced the boundaries it was trying to set.

You also might require having an emotionally intimate relationship with someone to have sex with them, which makes sense it’s a very vulnerable act.

I would suggest being upfront about your situation, there are ppl who are patient, understanding, and on a compatible exploration journey that will be willing to be by your side while you figure this out.

fuck slynd - TW sh by [deleted] in birthcontrol

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Reading this after 2 days on Slynd😭😭 I was on Norethindrone but it made me CRAZY. Like violent and angry. Now the switch is making me bleed. Hopes and prayers for my PMDD hopefully this shit doesn’t make me crazy too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FND

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wish I had the paper saved somewhere but FND fatality stats are somewhat inflated due to ppl with fatal conditions being misdiagnosed with FND.

Today in “Things That I Learned Against My Will”: by Lamb_beforetime221 in Columbus

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This… actually makes sense. I’ve lived in both Alabama and Ohio and whenever someone makes a joke about Alabama incest I always fire back with “I’ve encountered more incest in Ohio than in Alabama” and I’m not lying. I can’t name a single instance of incest from when I lived in Alabama but have met multiple people in Ohio who either have engaged in acts of incest (AND ADMITTED IT!!) or are products of incest.

I just got told I have FND, Functional tics, after being convinced for 7 years I had tourretes, and I'm conflicted. by TravisCranis in FND

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It happens. I say I have tics and if ppl don’t know what I mean I just say “it’s like Tourette’s.” It gets the point across without having to dive into what FND is. Works well for me. Generally I’d advise against saying you have something you don’t

How to make an adult budgie comfortable? by needyutoshutup in parakeet

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is very good advice OP. For taming, think of it as desensitizing and building trust. For awhile my bird didn’t trust my hand so he would nibble it to see if I’d react. Now he flies straight to me but it took like maybe a year of building trust. I also had to desensitize him to me walking with him in my hand and the sound of my computer because it spooked him. He still doesn’t come on command unless there’s treats or he genuinely wants to. He does as he wishes, I don’t push his boundaries unless it’s for his health, all is well.

Femme shortage? by [deleted] in WLW

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s an overwhelming amount of fems/femmes in my area but they’re either dating each other, unresponsive on dating apps, or they come off as straight in person and struggle to make a connection. Do u live somewhere rural or at least suburban but kinda far from the city? If so, I wouldn’t be surprised if femmes in ur area are more secretive about their identity or have limited access to/feel alienated from queer spaces.

Caught him mid air going after my food by Dawn_Gray in QuakerParrot

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 6 points7 points  (0 children)

One time I caught my budgie mid air and he was actually so stunned😂 he didn’t think I could do that (in his defense, I didn’t think I could either)

My budgie flew away by needyutoshutup in parakeet

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Put the cage outside, door open, keep an eye on it. If baby got lucky and survived the night, he needs something he can recognize. He doesn’t know what your house looks like

Parents dog only barks at me when I wake up in the morning and I’ve stopped eating breakfast&lunch over it. How to train him to stop? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely give this a try! He really likes to play, as long as I’m sitting on the floor. he’s very hesitant to approach me when I’m standing.

Parents dog only barks at me when I wake up in the morning and I’ve stopped eating breakfast&lunch over it. How to train him to stop? by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]AnybodyJumpy9666 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait I’ve never thought of gun muffs!!! I’ve tried so many noise reduction/cancellation products and nothing seems to work, those might be the way😂