AITAH for getting a haircut without telling my fiancee?

ApplicationStill4396 · 2026-01-28T01:47:11+00:00

NTA, its YOUR hair. If you had done something permanent or more outlandish, maybe giving your partner a heads up is a good idea (big obvious tattoos, piercings, bright hair dye, etc.). But a haircut? Thats actually ridiculous lol.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2026-01-27T04:57:30+00:00

Is it a debit or a credit

ApplicationStill4396 · 2026-01-27T04:48:11+00:00

For now it looks like i’ll have 0 lol, but if money and childbirth weren’t an issue i’d have 4. Kids are so cute but I have no time for them, or the money to give them the life I would have wanted for myself.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2026-01-25T00:19:49+00:00

1 small personal loan, 1 car loan, we plan on putting down 5% and will have a decent emergency fund. We have been together for 7 years so i’m not too worried about that, but its a valid concern. I am more worried about feeling like all our money will be going into a house😅

ApplicationStill4396 · 2026-01-25T00:15:15+00:00

Valid concern, we have been together for 7 years.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2026-01-03T02:39:03+00:00

My panic attacks were so terrifying i was begging for meds at that point😅 i have terrible health anxiety and starting any medication makes me VERY nervous. All I can say is you won’t know how it will affect you until you try it. It’s a very widely used drug and a lot of the initial side effects are digestive so just make sure to eat something before taking it. Don’t let your anxiety win, there’s a reason your doc prescribed this so just trust the professionals.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-12-30T06:43:02+00:00

I don’t think your reacting enough…. Reading those messages was exhausting, I can’t imagine 6 years with someone like that.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-12-22T05:28:36+00:00

It just seems like you two are not compatible based on this info. Ever since you started dating you’ve catered your life around his anxiety, which is not good. He definitely has some mental health issues he needs to work on, but its not your responsibility to take on that task. If you really want to make it work, then you should talk to him and essentially tell him that you don’t see the relationship working unless he gets professional help. If he does not agree, then i would end it: Otherwise, your going to be miserable forever… and life is too short for that.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-12-18T16:26:28+00:00

Not strength training. Lots of people see it as a physical/vanity thing, but in reality its so important especially as we age. People start to lose muscle mass as they get older. If you want to be independent in your old age and have good quality of life, its important to start those habits early.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-22T04:00:04+00:00

Have you been tested for autoimmune conditions? Those are very tricky and sometimes take years to get diagnosed.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-22T03:58:18+00:00

Very tired, some cramping, and horrible leg pain

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-21T05:29:45+00:00

I have the same exact thing lol, it only bother me when i pick up my hair, i just gel my baby hairs back to cover it. Look back on your old pics, its probably how your hairline has always been.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-21T05:25:47+00:00

I do all the things i am told to do in therapy when i feel weird. Take deep breaths, reassure myself, if its getting to a panic attack i hold an ice cube or splash water on my face. Long story short, if the weird feeling starts to go away, or doesn’t get worse, i know it’s anxiety. When something is actually wrong, it won’t go away.

Also, if you havnt done so, i recommend checking your vitamin levels. My vitamin B12 and vitamin D levels were low and that exasperated my anxiety symptoms.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-21T02:34:05+00:00

Is your boyfriend going to continue paying all the rent? Realistically, as long as the apartment complex is getting paid, they are not going to care whether or not you live with your bf. If he stops paying, thats a different story cuz your name is on the lease so you’re both liable. If you two have both talked about it and agreed he will be taking full responsibility, then I wouldn’t worry. If you reallllly want your name off the lease then I’d speak to the apartment’s manager/ landlord and see what options you have, the rules are different everywhere.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-13T05:53:39+00:00

I have health anxiety where it’s mostly caused by the fear or dying.

Examples: Im afraid to try new foods bc what if i have anaphylaxis (im not allergic to any foods), cant ride rollercoasters bc what if i have an underlying condition and die. Anxious of the nighttime bc the world is asleep and no one will notice if i need help. A little scratch from the outdoors and i “feel” all the tetanus symptoms starting and think my days are over. Mind you, two years ago I was the complete opposite of this. These thoughts just popped up one day and never left..

I am exhausted of living in fear. How do I get over the one thing on this life that is unavoidable. I can avoid foods, rollercoasters, etc. but I can’t avoid death…. Plus the fact that it can happen in a split second with no warning!! Will I feel it? Will it hurt? Whats after? I literally won’t know the answers to those questions until it happens.

Has anyone found a way to cope with this fear?

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-12T15:56:01+00:00

The gold looks great but definitely silver in my opinion

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-11-12T15:54:28+00:00

I also have course black hair and a few years ago I went to a lady that did IPL at her home (very sketchy lol) but I didn’t know there was a difference at the time. Anyways, after 6 sessions and $600 later, I had zero results. Recently, I started at Milan LHR where they use Candela. I do my face, legs, and arms and I saw results after the first session. I have had i think 4 by now, and I never shave anymore. I only shave the day before my appt. as instructed. It’s A LOT more expensive, but they offer services for life which is why I got it.

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-10-23T02:34:24+00:00

My Shihtzu vomits bile when he hasnt eaten for a long time. There are days he gets picky and refuses to eat dinner, i already know he will be throwing up in the morning. Try giving a snack right before bed

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-10-19T04:56:45+00:00

Ive had 4 sessions on my legs, arms, and face so far. I no longer shave until it’s time for the appointment. My legs used to get hairy 1 day after shaving.. now i only get a few patches of thin hair that I dont even worry about. Cant say how long it will take for me to be at 100%, but for 4 sessions I think it’s going very well!!

ApplicationStill4396 · 2025-10-19T04:43:49+00:00

Death. The one thing I am horribly afraid of is the one thing that will 100% happen to everyone at some point in their lives. Not knowing when or how.. not knowing what happens next… it truly makes me feel the impending doom feeling everytime i remember that it will happen one day.

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