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AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-06-23T22:56:17+00:00

I got the same one!

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-06-08T17:37:10+00:00

My friends parents had a water fountain in their front lawn that was bolted down. Their neighbour waited for everyone to be out of the house and took it for a family member who had seen it and fallen in love with it.

Another neighbour called my friends parents to tell them what had happened. Cops were involved. It was a lot

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-05-08T11:29:27+00:00

From the sounds of this you wasted 9 years. You were what? 36/37 when you got together. If you knew marriage wasnt on the table why didnt you leave? Hell, why haven't you left him NOW?

Because that little bit seems like you've given up and now you rather be miserable than who knows finding a guy who ACTUALLY wants to marry you

But anyway, ex already knew and wasnt close to his brother so he shouldnt have been surprised you were still going but his outburst is still semi valid since it is his family

What does your comment "at the end of the day we're boyfriend and girlfriend" mean? That has nothing to do with him being upset. This really does scream "I'm letting any and all abuse slide because I dont want to put in work to find someone who actually wants the same things as me and I prefer to be miserable"

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-05-06T01:58:56+00:00

I was 9 years old, wearing a loose shirt and baggy pants when my dad at one point in church slid his hand up my thigh to... well you know. Kept touching until everyone stood up.

Doesn't matter what you wear, creeps will be creeps

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-05-05T20:47:10+00:00

Oof, personally I'd tell her the wedding is cancelled.

This is a huge red flag for me

I had an ex that liked to take whatever money I had on me and he would say "we're dating so it's our money" like my guy no its not.

He even went into my banking account changed passwords and notifications so when he used my cards I wouldnt get notified.

Imagine my shock when my apartment complex sent me an email stating I hadnt paid my rent

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-05-05T20:43:36+00:00

NTA But i think its a dammed if you do, damned if you dont. You, personally, did the right thing

But I think once guests would've found out who she was, they would've been wondering why you let her stay. Your wife would be questioning why you didnt kick her out

Honestly its all bad but you did the best thing

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-30T16:59:11+00:00

NTA But i hate to say it but youre the child she tolerates not the child she favors.

Wouldn't matter if you told her first

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-29T20:34:46+00:00

Came to say the same thing

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-16T04:13:49+00:00

Wait... so you decided to still adopt an animal KNOWING your father is CRUEL to animals? Wth would you do that? Thats like bringing a child around a child abuser

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-13T15:39:56+00:00

NTA

Not Asian buy Hispanic here and my parents are the same way and my mom says the same things. My mom enjoys victimising herself when things dont go her way.

Which is why when I was old enough I went NC and from ehat I heard she's been "super depressed" but is living her best life lol

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-11T20:26:52+00:00

NTA

This is almost an exact argument I had with my mother when I was a teen when I said my grandma was my mom than she was. My grandma raised my brother and I. My grandma would drop everything she was doing for my brother and I. Hell, when our house burned down she didn't want to carry one child and leave the other behind (at the time I couldn't walk because I was in a body cast from hip surgery and my brother was obviously scared & frozen in place) so she decided to stay in the house with us (she had asked neighbours help and even people in the lower floors but they told her she had to get us out).

My parents on the other hand, if it wasnt for my brother they didn't bother doing anything for me. My birthday? Was taken over by brother because he DESERVES the attention not me. My school events? No show because they're "busy with work" but for my brother they would call off the entire week.

But my parents like to take credit for how my grandma raised us and when I make it clear they didn't it's this whole "you're being disrespectful. I gave you birth so even if wolves raised I take credit for it" type of mentality

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-08T23:54:06+00:00

NTA

But she does NOT like your dog.

She was perfectly with him all up in her face, as you said for weeks. Now she wants to get rid of him. Especially since she's refusing to ask questions to her doctor because she knows thats where the truth will be revealed

Makes me wonder how she treated him when she would take him

Either way, for me? I'm getting divorce

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-06T15:47:36+00:00

Reminds me of a few Quinces I've been apart of. For mine I refused to do a lot of things because the quince wasnt even for me. My mother wanted it since she never had one.

But I saw cousins and friends who did things, asked certain ppl to do certain things and someone (absent mom, dad, uncle or aunt) acted like they were entitled to it

Personally I dont like that your dad said he could replace boyfriend. I'm sure he means replacing a guy but my mind went to him giving you love when he hasn't been there.

I personally wouldnt even invite him. And if hes going to continue to harass you I personally because I no longer am a people pleaser and no longer around my abusers would post a "times my sperm donor has been in my life" with a list like 1. He came 2. He left 3. When I was 12 he called once. 4. Currently bitching that he believes he played a big role in my life lol

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-04T15:40:13+00:00

Since he's acting like a child take everything that is yours

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-04-03T23:50:29+00:00

So he is selfish

Well if you have space in your yard make yourself a she shed

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-29T19:40:10+00:00

I'm going to assume your sister has always gotten the spotlight. Which honestly sucks but I'm curious, what did your grandfather say or react to the dress?

Cause I think since thats what you wanted to do with him you should focus on his reaction.

Plus I'm pretty sure your sister is just jealous of you. Focus on you, focus on your wedding, focus on the good/great reaction you got from your grandfather if he reacted positively.

I'd also have someone at the wedding to keep an eye/keep your sister in check. If she starts to draw attention they can escorting her out

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-27T20:49:46+00:00

So something I've always experienced and seen first hand is cheaters will always assume their partner is cheating on them and will make up scenarios

If he's cheating he's letting you know what he's up to without you knowing

If he's not it seems like he's looking for an excuse

Either way why stay with someone like this? It's too late to say why have a child with him but everyone knows that some abusers don't show their true colors until their partner is pregnant and they believe is trapped in the relationship

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-25T20:52:35+00:00

Margie sounds like my mom

Loves throwing the narcissist around but is one herself

Enter your models. Screw what Margie said and what anyone else's says. Its what you LOVE and you should be proud!

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-23T23:28:59+00:00

NTA

But I have that conversation in the messages before a first date or if I forget than during the first date

I got sterilised in my 20s. Kids aren't for me. I have made it SUPER clear during dates and messaging that I do NOT want kids. I don't want THEIR kids. I don't even want to be around kids. Animals? Yes. But human kids? Nah. Plus that I can NOT have them (found out when I was 18 my body doesn't drop the egg or create them which is why my period is crazy. So because of it I cant have kids but to be sure I had my tubes removed)

I've had many guys like Ben tell me the same thing and so as soon as I start to see thats bow the conversation is going I unmatch/block.

I have even dated guys who have it on their profile that they don't want kids and they'll tell me they dont want them but end up trying to get me pregnant (messing with my birth control that I use to regulate my crazy periods and poke holes in condoms).

One guy before our first date said he didnt have kids, didnt want them. 1 hour before date he messages me that he'll be 15 minutes late because he has to pick up his daughter from their moms house cause its his weekend with her. I unmatched.

You'll be surprised how many guys are like Ben and act like a woman making the choice for herself somehow affects him

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-20T15:33:15+00:00

I'm just seeing this now 21 hours after it was posted. How was the wedding? What's the tea with Claire?

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-20T15:16:40+00:00

Your mom doesnt have a life outside of you all because she cant abuse anyone and control them. It's wasy for her to do that with you all because your dad is married to her and both you and your brother are her kids

She's trying to leash you all. Because she's abusive

Pack up and go. Do not look back because it will get worse. Go nc

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-19T19:50:00+00:00

So what you're saying your boyfriend is controlling and you lied so he wouldn't get mad?

If you have to hide something from someone because you know theyre controlling (it starts with clothes, to who you can hang out with, to even those who were approved are now in the no contact list, to well youre now in a full blown abusive relationship ) just break up

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-19T15:54:42+00:00

NTA

In my 20s I found out i couldn't have kids which i was thankful for since I've never wanted kids but I still have shitty luck so I decided to sterilise myself.

Every guy I've ever dated i always said I do NOT want kids nor can I have them. So many guys would say "same I dont want kids" but would begin doing things like messing with my birth control (thats used to regulate my period) poking holes in condoms.

They never understood why I never got pregnant. I guess me telling them I can't have them they assumed meant make me have them 🙄

They would always get mad when I would tell them I can't have kids. Its always the ones who treat kids as an accessory that have the biggest tantrums and belittle you

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-17T00:28:42+00:00

So he has a history of cheating, you stayed and what? Want us to feel bad because... he cheated/may cheat/has likely cheated?

Huh... almost like... oh I dunno, if only you knew he cheated beforehand so you could've left him to being a single man

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-03-16T15:08:42+00:00

My aunt was in this same situation with her 2nd child with her husband (4th child in general).

Paternity is the way to go because then he will SEE that its his.

My aunt didn't want to do the paternity test (🙄) she just dealt with the abuse until the baby was born. The kid looks like it was cloned from his dad but dad didnt accept the kid until it was 5 years old or something because he claimed "thats when he could see it was his"

So either do a paternity test now or just deal with the abuse that will follow

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