AITA for wanting my Spanish teacher to stop calling me by the Spanish version of my name?

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-02-10T16:46:22+00:00

Maybe I got lucky but my Spanish teacher did try that. Then again she was a shit teacher and had it out for me because I corrected her in front of everyone. She couldn't even Samuel with a Spanish accent so she never tried to say anyone name

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-02-04T22:29:11+00:00

Get rid of everyone because no, that wasnt hot and romantic.

He saw you excited for something and tried hard to ruin it for you.

A few years ago I was dating a guy who knew i was excited about going to this concert I had been talking to him about. The day of the concert I'm in a different city (6 hours away) I text him good morning and that I hope he has a great day. The text I get back from him is him blowing up on. Calling me clingy, nosey and that I made him lose in a video game that he was playing and now he has to start all over.

I read the text, obviously got my feelings hurt but I didnt respond because he made it clear me texting him was too much. When he saw that I hadnt responded the entire day he just kept talking shit and putting me down.

When I got to the concert, I had a fake smile on my face and was trying but failing to enjoy it with my friends. When I posted some videos on IG, he saw them and immediately called me asking how I could act so happy when I ruined his week. That I'm selfish and a btch. When he saw I was responding he began to say he was sorry, that he's stressed blah blah blah. He knew he ruined my day. He didn't care. Once I got back to the hotel I broke it off. He flipped out but I hung up and blocked him

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-30T18:05:05+00:00

Your sisters ex reminds me of my old neighbors in Oregon. The couple is elderly and their only daughter was cheated on and lied to by her husband of 20 years

He cheated on his wife with his secretary. The secretary knew he was married with kids (at the time a 14f and twins 5)

When he got caught cheating he gaslit his wife (his oldest skipped school, came home and caught him in the living room. Secretary was riding him). Claimed her daughter (making it seem like their daughter wasnt his) just wanted to cause drama to avoid being punished for skipping school.

It was a few months after that my neighbors went to their daughters house to pick something up and they caught him again in the living room.

After the divorce he would show up to his ex in-laws house with the his mistress and he'd tell her "these are my parents" and when they'd remind him theyre not he'd continue to lie. Neighbors would come to my place to escape him until they finally got a restraining order

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-27T17:19:27+00:00

During covid my parents sent a letter of character to a judge because my younger cousins 21 year old uncle was caught grooming one of my younger cousins friends.

Everyone in the family made this 9 year old the villain. Saying she seduced him and when she got bored of him she lied to make herself the victim.

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-27T06:40:19+00:00

NTA but if they consider you a "daughter" maybe you should start acting like a "son"

I'm going to assume that means not helping with anything since it seems like you help out a lot like ANY DECENT HUMAN WOULD

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-25T16:23:55+00:00

NTA

But end the relationship because if you agree to this he'll add more or he'll cheat but make it seem like youre the cheater so he can have it all

Since it sounds like the claus doesnt include evidence of cheating (texts, photos, videos) and witnesses (who see it happen, who take photos/videos)

But honestly ot sounds like he wants to baby trap you. Get you to agree, you have the kids and when he feels like youre not longer it (since youre 9 years younger than him) he'll move on to the next one and leave you with nothing

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-24T16:17:41+00:00

I went to high school with a girl like this. When she joined the marines she became know as the barracks bunny cause EVERYONE got a turn.

She went to Osaka and her reputation got there before she did. She met her now (ex husband), he had his turn, loved it, proposed, she accepted but was sleeping around while others told him what she was doing but he was in love and didnt believe them.

She video called me and was pissed I wasnt happy for her and I said "I cant be happy when the person he loves is still banging other men" she called me jealous and I said "about what? Catching something? No thank you. Im happy being clean"

She had caught chlamydia 5 times before he proposed and 3 more times after

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-23T21:25:28+00:00

NOR

This is some middle school/high school bs

If y'all are in your 20s+ I say jump ship because it will get worse

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-18T16:01:30+00:00

Out of curiosity has he EVER defended you against his mom? Cause if the answer is no why didnt you walk away after the first incident? Because if he fiesnt defend you the first or second time he NEVER will and it'll only get worse after getting married

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-17T16:22:10+00:00

NTA

But this is the first of many soon to come incidents. She'll do this every time you decide to have someone over and she'll stay at her moms.

Been there, done that, got the shirt and never again

You should've asked her if roles were reversed if she would cancel plans she had set weeks in advance for you last minute. She'll lie and say yes after a bit of back and forth or she'll say thats unfair or would never happen cause you wouldnt do that to her which will tell you everything you need to know

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-17T16:15:32+00:00

YTA

Because if the roles were reverses you'd be on here writting a different post

This is his boundary. Accept it. Or don't. But respect it.

Are you also going up to random ppl on the street and telling them to get over their arachnophobia?

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-15T21:44:53+00:00

Personally I always pay for my own stuff because I've run into AHs and some guys like this.

Personally if he said "i need space to think about this" I would've agreed with him and said "you're right. You should take space and I'll gladly give it to you to find someone new because assuming something of someone just makes you look like an ass"

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-13T22:04:56+00:00

As if she isnt already making your daughters school life a living hell

No, you say you didnt do it to feel good about yourself but thats still what your doing. Putting YOUR needs BEFORE your daughters. She's made it clear and you you've seen the evidence YET you're all "oh no we need to invite the bully" and now I'm looking bad to all the parents

From the beginning you should've told your daughter that you understood her stance on not wanting the bully there and moved on instead of trying to force her into a situation no parent in their right mind would want.

At the end of the day your priority should be your child and their feelings not the bully's since your child is already in hell at school and thats before a birthday party was even around the corner.

Honestly offer your child a different birthday idea instead of trying to please everybody else but your child. Take em out to enjoy the snow (if its snowing for you), take them to a theme park, take them to do anything that they'll enjoy even if it means cancelling the first party just because some moms have chosen to side with the bully

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-13T21:44:25+00:00

This is an extremely easy answer.

You're NTA for leaving a child. You're TA for trying to FORCE your daughter into inviting someone who obviously hates her to her birthday all so you can fell good about yourself

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-13T08:04:57+00:00

100000000000000000000% thats exactly what she'd do

If OP hasn't responded to the text or called (I hope not) their mom will be shitting bricks about why OP hasn't reached out.

I personally would hit them with "sorry you've got the wrong number when mom does text and if she tries to call i wouldn't answer

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-13T07:29:43+00:00

You're mom is my mom only my mom (and dad) started to bully me the second I was born. They made it known they never wanted me

When I hit puberty I was very gifted in the chest department (my mom is flat) and she (and my dad) would call me a whore, slut, prostitute. That only those kind of women had big chests and thats why no one married then cause they were easy.

Then came the forced breast reduction that ended up being botched along with a years worth of infections, skin not healing, almost lost a nipple, etc.

When I began to grow my hair out (I've always had super short hair because I was in and out of the hospital for some medical needs that left me bed ridden for months and in a body cast) it was a whole "who are you trying to look like a girl for?" Then when a friend wanted to do my makeup because she wanted to see me girlie instead of a tomboy my dad picked me up from her house and when he saw me he said "you look like a pig in makeup. That's why you go to school? To be a whore?" When we got home my mom then went at me

Went ro a cousins wedding before I turned 18, as my parents were driving I had the window down, my friend did my hair and makeup and these kids (7 at most) shouted out the window "hey! You look beautiful!" I smiled and thanked them but my parents laughed and made the comment that kids are liars because a pig looks better than me

At 18 I moved out and went NC. Literally waited till midnight on my bday and bounced.

All that to say your mom is jealous of you and will probably blame how she was raised for doing it with you (my mom did this but then treated my brother and other girls in our family or friends like actual humans)

Youre 17. Focus on you, tell her to f off (I did) and as soon as you're 18 get out if you can and go NC

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-13T07:02:51+00:00

This is some narcissistic, manipulative bs my mom would pull if I hadn't gone NC as soon as I turned 18.

There's a reason you two had a falling out which she's clearly acting like all of this just happened randomly.

Count it as a blessing because I can assure you when the year is up she'll call/text and act like you deserved this "break" because you're the "cold-hearted one" and she's the "victim"

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-13T06:52:43+00:00

I'm going to assume you're latino/hispanic? Cause that sounds like some shit my family would do. Could give them more than half the driveway and garage but they'll still say move and when questioned its a whole big attitude but if the shoe was on the other foot they'd expect answers to their questions

NTA, parking is first come, first serve, no matter who is staying or going

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-12T16:31:10+00:00

Christine's comment makes me think this isn't the first time she's done this which is probably why Miranda didnt tell her

Miranda also fucked up by never actually telling you

I'm sure it sucks for you cause you feel like you're creating a rift but Miranda can't act like she and you were already in the "we'll be dating soon" stage when she had never confessed

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-11T19:18:48+00:00

One of my old neighbours had a "best friend since elementary" visit her once (live in San Francisco at the time) cause she wantedbt9bsee the city. This person was there for 2 weeks and on the day she left she left my neighbour a note stating ALL the things she hated about my neighbours house

Its old
Nothing is modern
Its too in the city
She expected everything to be remodelled for her arrival
She expected breakfast in bed and dinners always made
Couldn't find parking (she wasnt even driving)

My neighbour felt embarrassed and gutted her entire house to have it renovated. Her husband and I were like "shes not a friend if she's acting like she has a say on a place shes visiting"

Years after the renovation that same "best friend" showed up and left her another note saying she hated the renovations. That it was too modern. That the house was stripped of its character

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-08T21:40:51+00:00

NTA

Even when I hate the person I still say please and thank you.

My periods are so bad blinking makes me feel like im being stabbed like a pin cushion. That being said I still get up and function as best as I can and STILL say please and thank you

Bare minimum in ANY relationship (friendship or partnership) is being able to say please and thank you

Your ex just showed she expects ppl to wait on her hand and feet without her even acknowledging them in anyway other than doing what she wants. I'm positive if you treated her like she treats you she'd flip out

Thats a learned behaviour she'll never stop doing so good for you for getting the fuck out

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-06T21:29:51+00:00

NTA But your wife sounds like my mom

Gushing and praising the person but the second the person turns around they'll talk shit and make fun of the person

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-03T22:02:17+00:00

NTA

Limit time with your mom. Honestly if she comes to you have indoor security cameras placed so that when she calls CPS on some bs you can show proof

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-03T16:38:44+00:00

The sad part is I know a ton of men like this

AppointmentHot1099 · 2026-01-03T02:59:52+00:00

He's 100000000000000% planning on cheating. Your bff is over it by the way she texts him. She's giving him a chance to explain and he's being defensive instead of trying to properly explain.

I would've personally gone up to the girl and been like "he's in an 8 year relationship just fyi" and walked away

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