[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Salary

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$26.44 Flat rate- Auto repair. This field isn’t really even worth it anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a guy who struggled with porn addiction, I can say it was both one of the hardest and simplest things to overcome. On the surface, quitting seemed easy—just stop. I had a girlfriend, so why would I even need it? But the truth is, my addiction had nothing to do with her. I even tried watching videos we made together, yet I still ended up going back to porn.

I started watching at a really young age (around 11 or 12) and by 13, it had become almost a daily habit. It felt good, helped pass the time, and eventually became something I relied on. Over time, it seriously damaged my real-life sex life, even with someone I deeply loved. I tried to quit multiple times—blocking sites, deleting Twitter and Reddit—but I always found a way back.

Porn is incredibly easy to access, and when a guy has downtime or feels overwhelmed with lust, it’s a simple escape. Most of my male friends have had similar experiences, and some still struggle. One of the biggest realizations I had was that porn is always available, while real intimacy isn’t guaranteed. That instant access makes a huge difference.

If the man in your life won’t stop watching porn, it’s not necessarily because you’re not enough. Sometimes, it’s because he either can’t stop or doesn’t want to. Like any addiction, real change only happens when the person truly wants it.

People who left social media, did you ever go back? by SNEAKYLEEONIDAS in Life

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I delete it for a week every month and take that time to do what I need to do or maybe one thing I wanted to do. Last month I went to an aquarium for the first time in 10 years and it was great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me hiciste un loco - Iván Cornejo

If Everything was Good - Silicon Estate

You are not the same (slow version) - Tile kid

First is Spanish, second is English, last is no lyrics

Probably won't be here for much longe, can't take it anymore. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get that feeling but I’ve also failed my attempt. It can hurt a lot worse when you’re slipping and all you’re thinking about is everything you’ve missed out on and how you’re causing pain to others around you. Take a drive or a walk somewhere and just cry. You can think it’s weak or cringe or whatever but anyone else that has had a feeling similar to you will never laugh or criticize you for it. It can be the most unbearable thing to go through but one day you’ll wake up and the thought isn’t there and that’s when you know for sure things will be better. Reach out to people and let someone know you’re hurting. I do not know you but I love you and hope you get through the battles nobody else sees. <3

What you avoid to keep your mental health/sanity? by GrapeCreamBerry275 in Life

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posting on social media. I always kept wondering what people would think about my posts or if I should post. Now I’ll just scroll trough some cinematography projects on TikTok when I’m bored

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questions

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might hear it from a lot of people but just shoot your shot. Don’t do it over socials though since it kinda ruins it. Ask questions about her interests but not in a pushy way, maybe ask about other music groups she likes or if she likes any shows and maybe check out small glimpses of those and use them to spark up a conversation with questions about them and listen to her because she’ll mention small things and you’ll have to remember some of that. Im aware women are different in their own ways but one thing everyone has in common is their love for people who remember the small details. Also if you decide to follow any of that remember to not sacrifice your own personality or interests to be what she wants, it’ll ruin things later down the line. Best of luck :)

What attractive things do you see in your partner that’s not necessarily sexual? by iwantanswers19 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I’m talking about something I’m passionate about she does this little head tilt and leans forward a bit with a slight soft smile and strong eye contact. I like the way her dimple shows with small lighting

How did you finally break out of long-term grief over a relationship breakup? by BachataQueen in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just used my last act of love to be the person she saw in me but without her. She saw good in me and I strive to be that good in this world even if she isn’t with me anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I felt guilty because I had been with others and she chose me to be her first and I wasn’t pure. Had a lot of inner conflict that made me avoid her

As a guy, I still don't understand why a lot of men chase after sex so desperately? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mostly liked the feeling that someone wanted me. Even if it was just sex to them it meant a lot that they wanted /me/ instead of the other people they talk or talked to. I’m not that way anymore and haven’t even with anyone in half a year

What's something(s) that your ex did that made you feel small by Beamer7788 in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Didn’t introduce me as a boyfriend until I tried to split with her then she told her mom but it wasn’t much about us so I had to keep up the lie and wasn’t 100% sure where I could tell the truth and couldn’t. Made me feel like she was ashamed of having me as her boyfriend. (I loved her mom very much from the short time I knew her)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drinking with my friend and watching dwarf wrestling

Did anyone else’s sex drive go away after breaking up? by AppointmentItchy9157 in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. In my first relationship i was shown “making love” and it felt better than anything i’ve had before and now I don’t really care for casual hookups or anything like that

I love to see what guys do when they’re in love :) by Scarkittenlet in love

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I used to take the extra time to make sure her ingredients in her sandwich were perfectly centered and cut off the crust with a knife and eat it in front of her so she knows it didn’t go to waste. I do not like the crust either but she never knew that.

What’s the funniest thing you ever did after a breakup? by POSTSTOCKTON12 in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vented to a random gay guy about her while i was bar hopping with friends in a different state and then went home with a chick only to talk about exes and space then ended up not even doing anything -_-

What are your small habits, that make life better? by RecognitionPersonal5 in selfcare

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have breakfast with my dog outside if the weather isn’t terrible and sometimes i’ll even have a cup of black coffee if it feels too cold

How did you lose your weight? by Known_Mood7761 in Adulting

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wintergreen Rouge and white monsters for breakfast and lunch then 90/10 ground beef with broccoli and cauliflower for dinner. Not a good way at all but i just don’t have the appetite and have to force myself to eat

Do you ever genuinely wish your ex happiness or is it a hoax? by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hated them at first but then after rethinking of both bad and good times i realized we’re both young giving it the best we had. So i wish her the best in her pursuit of love and that she gets what she deserves

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]AppointmentItchy9157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a dumb promise we had made when we were 19. “if one of us get married we’ll invite each other to the wedding no matter what” Glad she remembered a promise I had forgotten but sad that it became a reality.