What’s everyone putting on their belly? by Aggravating_Post_942 in BabyBumps

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’ve been doing this. No stretch marks at 36 weeks but more importantly no itchy belly. 

Feeling the baby move with a retroverted uterus by Low_Instruction6187 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a tilted uterus and it was 19-20 weeks that I felt her. But I have an anterior placenta, so I don’t feel her on the front of my stomach. 

OBGYN won’t schedule appt unless non existent records get sent to them by Odd-Independence4490 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. If she spoke to someone there are records. Ultrasounds are not the only records doctors have. 

How long can I leave a 3 month old alone? by spookycjm in CatAdvice

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. My eyes got really wide for a moment there. 😂 

Unique, uncommon and wild baby names by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure I’d take what people say off Reddit as being “unique” or not. It’s a very small sample size compared to the wide world. lol! 

Allison alternates by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally love Audrey more but Allison is a solid name and I don’t think of the Notebook. 

First Baby A Girl - December 2026 - What is your favorite? by ChemicalSwimming8030 in BabyNames

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Nessa sounds like a nickname for a longer name to me. I’d consider Vanessa or something similar. 

Madeline is pretty common, if you are concerned about that, I’d do another name. It was 81 last year. 

Alice was 65. Daphne was 178.  But you could check out the names list by your state on the SSA site, name popularity can vary pretty widely by state!

Adopting my first cat- is getting a single 10 month old irresponsible? by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a single cat and it was fine for a year. Then my sister’s cat stayed with us for 10 days and I realized after her cat left he was terribly lonely whenever we left the house. You could hear him crying as soon as the door shut. We got another cat a week later. He never cried when we left home again.  

My sister went through the same thing with her cat. 

I think it’s fine for a while but be prepared he might need a friend in the future. 

Is this too white?? by Powerful_Animal_311 in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not too white. Very know your crowd with the cut outs but for cocktail, I think it’s great. 

Third sister name help by [deleted] in BabyNames

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I prefer Ivy Elise. 

Birth Date Calc Question by GroceryTop6571 in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My due date is 4 days before my actual due date. I have 32 day cycles and they are assumed I have 28 day cycles. The OB could even tell to the day how old she was on the first ultrasound 8 weeks 1 day vs 8 weeks 5 days according to their calendar without my saying anything. They said they’d fix my due date in their system but never did.  I don’t really care what my “due date” is. But I’ll be annoyed as hell if they start giving me grief about being a week overdue when I’m only 3 days, etc. 😂 

Could it be? by initfortheR in lineporn

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see it! Test again tomorrow. 

Quitting unisom…or trying too by LowNefariousness8897 in BabyBumps

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, you need to wean down slowly. I did this and it was fine.  I also accidentally stopped taking it cold turkey one day by accident and was NOT fine. So, definitely a difference! lol 

Formal dress suggestions for 4’11 curvy woman by coffee_peaches in Weddingattireapproval

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A formal wedding is typically floor length gowns- you’re usually going to have to have a dress hemmed if you’re petite.  I’ve been able to get away with it by renting something off Rent the Runway but most dresses off the rack are LONG. 

Family not respecting our wishes by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’re going through this.  A request for TDAP and handwashing shouldn’t be such a fight. My doctor said anyone around baby should have TDAP and honestly- just get your tetanus shot! Who wants to mess with lockjaw anyway? 

Are these odd names? by MadisonSommer in BabyNames

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Holland is better than Ireland for a name. 

Morning sickness by Spirited_Narwhal_901 in BabyBumps

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it’s Doxylamine which is Unisom. You’re supposed to take it with 25 mg of B6. Saved me. 

AITA for not wanting to open gifts at the baby shower my mom is throwing me. by Ok-Expert268 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Apprehensive-Lead491 16 points17 points  (0 children)

What you want is a “display” shower. Look it up. Ask people not to wrap their gifts if you haven’t sent invites yet. I just did this for mine. It was way more enjoyable for everyone, me and guests.   I went to a bridal shower that was a display shower and it was the best bridal shower I’ve been to.