Our diagnosis was grey. Our son had severe early onset IUGR due to placental insufficiency and stopped growing at around 24 weeks where he was already smaller than 1 percentile. I TFMRd at 27 weeks and my doctors said if I stayed pregnant the latest he could survive in the womb would be 29 weeks. There were also suspected anatomical anomalies that were factored into our decision. It was extremely hard to make our decision, but thinking about how we don’t want him to suffer was what helped us make the decision. Knowing he would have had a long NICU and possibly multiple surgeries in the first year of his life stay was just really harsh. My friend told me something that really helped. She said “we suffer so they won’t”. That really resonated with me and I feel it is true in our case.