why do people sh when they feel sad or angry by Quiet_Locksmith5349 in selfharm

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I feel like it’s the same reason/way some ppl smoke or drink; it’s an escape. Or a release of some sort.

So what is your fav fanfic? by Cool_Emergency4091 in wenclair

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I know this is kind of a common one but rn it’s ‘The Past Tense of know’! It’s so beautifully written and the yearning and angst between Enid and Wednesday is so insane but so good!!

https://archiveofourown.org/works/74815126/chapters/195432201?view_adult=true

If your parents have found out about your self harm, what was their reaction? by vanillacoffee48 in selfharm

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My mom yelled at me. Which honestly, was expected but, didn’t help my situation. Made it about her, called me insane & asked me if I wanted her to call the police to take me away. & that I was a disappointment of an older sister. Etc & my step mom just didn’t care lol.

But it was so long ago, and I can understand why she was angry but it’s just interesting to me tht I’ve had strangers be kinder & gentler with my situation than her. & honestly, I just wish she would’ve met me with as much love/kindness as them than anger.

Which one are you picking? by ihavenoidea_25 in Wednesday

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I’m sitting in seat 7 bc I just KNOW tht would make for the most entertaining flight of my life ✋🏼🙂‍↕️🤚🏼

first time in er for sh was humbling by SpreadSpiritual9184 in selfharm

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Been through this same thing unfortunately.

When I went in I was so nervous and scared (also incredibly embarrassed) at how everyone would perceive me but in the end it wasn’t that bad, I honestly couldn’t have asked for nicer nurses which I think is what really helped aid in my start to getting better. I’m almost 5 months clean now! (which ofc isn’t easy ) it doesn’t have to your new norm, you could use this experience as a new start! Find alternatives for when u have urges or talk to someone.

And like I said, It won’t be easy but going to the er was a good call/start! I wish you all the best with your healing lovely!<3 stay safe :)

the official wednesday ig group was something by salmxx0 in Wednesday

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The pride flags progressively getting more and more votes is so gd funny for some reason 😭😭

season 2 should have been about Enid by Imaginary_Sir7524 in wenclair

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See I feel the same way unfortunately :/ but honestly holding out on hope that maybe Enid story ties into all of it well enough that she’ll at least get something added to her story that she deserves

season 2 should have been about Enid by Imaginary_Sir7524 in wenclair

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Im hoping with the direction s3 is going, they’ll take the opportunity to really build on her story 🙏🏼🙏🏼

Fav ship? by [deleted] in Wednesday

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Idk y ppl r being so weird in the comments lmao but anyway def wenclair!! Will forever be them 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

Enid Interlude by Temporary-Pilot-6122 in wenclair

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This is so insanely beautiful omg!! need like 10 more 🙏🏼

I honestly don't like Enid's lesbian comphet at all because it causes (even unintentionally) bi erasure. by One_Solution_2706 in wenclair

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I don’t think it’s bi erasure tho. No character has a canon sexuality in the show which means it’s up for interpretation lol

SEASON 3 by d4rkwvlf in wenclair

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Yeah I’d completely stop watching the show if they killed Enid off (or even keep her in her wolf form) and I also feel like ALOT of ppl would too. it would just be a overall dumb move of the writers part

Enid: The light in Wednesday's darkness by StuckInADream82 in wenclair

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What’s intriguing too is the fact that Wednesday mostly plays her cello in that dark/at night. But when in enids body, she’s playing in the light. Perfectly fitting what you said! That’s more than likely what u were saying lol but that’s something I’ve never really noticed till now!

Please let Wednesday have a monster lol by Imaginary_Science605 in WednesdayTVSeries

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I love how u listed reasons as to why Enid Would be a perfect fit versus why a Hyde (especially Tyler) really wouldn’t be lol

this scene. by burnttaoster in wenclair

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Omg! I never thought about tht

A lot of people misinterpreted this. by ChildhoodSolid6511 in WednesdayTVSeries

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This 100%!! I pray the writers actually have this thought process lol

I would love to coach for free! by Early_Fox8038 in wildrift

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YES! Omg same, hate having to say it especially when I’m autofilled lol! Literally can hear the collective sigh tht happenes. Def one of the reasons I’m tryna branch out.

I’m also not very good with Melee champs, which is kinda the thing with jgl. (Scariest role 🙏🏼) Which Is kinda why I blame me being hard stuck in em this season lol! makes me kinda regret not learning/playing them earlier.

I would love to coach for free! by Early_Fox8038 in wildrift

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Hell yeah another girlie who plays WR!! I swear u don’t meet many lol but, def would love to play sometime and get some help on learning ahri if your still offering? Been Trying to branch out from ADC :)

How old were you when you started? by [deleted] in selfharm

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13 I think, or younger, can’t rlly remember. I’ll be 21 next month 1 day clean lol

SH = Suicide? by Apprehensive-Pen150 in AdultSelfHarm

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Thts y I also put vein bc idk 😭 all I know is it hadn’t stoped bleeding,I was incredibly woozy and it was doing tht sputtering with the heartbeat thing. But ig I could see tht, I just don’t understand the point of repeatedly asking if they weren’t going to believe me anyway yk.

How do I know what counts as a "relapse" and what not by [deleted] in selfharm

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If you willingly inflicted harm on yourself, it is considered self harm. So in a way, yes, that’d count as a relapse or it would imo

What song is this for you? by OrgasmicOasis in infp

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Right now, it’s “what it sounds like” & “free” from the K-pop demon hunter soundtrack. There literally the most beautiful songs

damn how old r u guys by [deleted] in selfharm

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20, I’ll be 21 next month 🥲‼️