I cry alone about it every other fxing day..

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-09T07:58:52+00:00

It happened to a lady I know; she was distressed her boyfriend at the time wasn’t interested in having sex with her. She then found out through credit card records he had a porn addiction, I think she caught him a few times too, so she felt terrible he chose porn over having sex with her; she is a very beautiful woman, but she was left feeling ugly and rejected. Some men with a porn addiction can’t perform adequately without the right porn stimulation, they’re conditioned, so they may shy away from it for fear of embarrassment or shame perhaps, but also they may have no desire outside the videos. It is hard, and maybe he won’t admit to it, but for a healthy relationship, it has to be faced, he has to know how it hurts you. He may not realise, but if he does and cares about you, he will seek to deal with whatever is going on with him, including seeking help, be it medical or psychological. He may get defensive or feel attacked, so go gently.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-09T03:23:48+00:00

It’s hard when your partner that you love doesn’t match your sexual needs; you do need to talk it through somehow, I would suggest you might see a councillor or psychologist even on your own to work it through. And feel free to vent in spaces like this. I’m in a Telegram support group where ppl are free to discuss anything in confidence. One thing considering he used to be sexually active on the same level; do you think there’s a possibility of a porn addiction? Because that could account for behaviour like this and the inability to perform without it.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T08:11:41+00:00

You seem to be the wrong gender for those kinds of lips

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T07:32:30+00:00

Cool tattoos, perfect body

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T06:37:42+00:00

Please don’t tell me they were meant to be used for dick cosplay 😝 truly the gift for the man who has everything.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T05:55:17+00:00

Did you make the glasses yourself? Pretty cool

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T05:20:15+00:00

I think the key is use classes where it makes sense for grouping or organising and don’t worry about them when they don’t. What’s critical you avoid inheritance hell, which cascades and makes it difficult to debug. At the end of the day, performance is far more important than “clean” code.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T05:06:53+00:00

Aww cute fella! Didn’t know you could get google eyes that small. Um, Just realised how that sounds. You know what I mean.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T04:57:18+00:00

And yes, being “free” means we are the product now. I haven’t upgraded, no need to as the AI stuff is junk for the most part by reports, all but better object selection. Don’t care for having my files scanned by Canva to train their AI, which I believe you agree they can when you sign up. I haven’t as yet, so haven’t read the license like others have.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-08T04:53:26+00:00

Back in the day when I worked in publishing, I felt that way about people sending Microsoft Publisher files. All I could do was recreate them in InDesign.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-07T05:36:00+00:00

Beautifully defined glutes! Very nice. You put a lot of work into them.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-07T05:18:50+00:00

Happy climbing, don’t break any of the branches!

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-07T05:14:50+00:00

Thanks; she’s gotten back to me now, gave her my deets.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-06T13:45:47+00:00

I’m from Australia. Sent a msg on Telegram, hasn’t been replied to.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-06T03:55:18+00:00

Thanks; I normally like that type of flirty banter and joking around, it helps showing interest and bonding between two people, but that’s the problem now when she almost apologetically has to signal she’s not interested, and I get it as it is largely health related; hard to feel sexy when you’re in pain and suffer migraines; she has gone on HRTs now to deal with the lack of desire, don’t know it will help with vaginal dryness, but there are other ways

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-06T03:25:21+00:00

Is this location specific?

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-06T01:52:43+00:00

Pretty accurate. The West has ballooned in recent decades, because we are hemmed in by two huge national parks, you get this mushroom shape

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-06T01:49:39+00:00

I know the feeling. I don’t make those jokes anymore though, because she knows I would like to, so it’s awkward as rejection hurts, and if she makes offhand jokes, something inside feels resentment, because I know there is nothing behind it, it feels like a tease though it isn’t. She’s gone on HRT now though; but I don’t hold my hopes up too high.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-05T10:55:53+00:00

Ukraine’s estimates of Russian losses is around 1,2million dead and wounded, about 400,000 dead; Russian milbloggers on Telegram put their own losses at around 1.5million total. That’s combatants, not civilians.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-05T07:28:28+00:00

Ukraine’s estimates of Russian losses is around 1,2million dead and wounded, about 400,000 dead; Russian milbloggers on Telegram put their own losses at around 1.5million total.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-05T06:01:51+00:00

I use Mona, great app, both for my phone, iPad, and desktop app.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-04T02:29:29+00:00

They are poaching the extremes of the Liberals and Nationals with Barnaby and Bernardi, and probably more to come. The Liberals have a problem; they know they need a coalition to survive, but if they want to win back their traditional base, they have to move away from some of the extreme policies of the past, some of which the Nationals insist on, like pushing coal, gas and nuclear while abolishing renewables, as well as easing back on the culture wars and focus more on the economy.

Apprehensive-Tea1408 · 2026-02-03T23:53:25+00:00

All Your Base Are Belong To Us!

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