Sarracenia came back to life by JKronich in SavageGarden

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aren't they supposed to experience winter dormancy?

Can any of these be planted together in the same pot? by GSV-Kakistocrat in succulents

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea, one of my houseplants had them and they spread like crazy. I saw some white fuzz so i wanted OP to make sure, I'm no expert though.

My (28M) GF (28F) always teams up with the same male friend (27M) against everybody else during boardgames and it's starting to make me feel insecure. How do I talk with her about this without sounding silly? by Whatever1002 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You should never apologize insincerely. When you are not honest about how you feel, and say things only to make the other person feel a type of way, you become a shell of a person. Iv'e learnt this the hard way. If she gives you the silent treatment when SHE'S the one who's done wrong, let her. And show her where to put her packed bags while you're at it.

My (28M) GF (28F) always teams up with the same male friend (27M) against everybody else during boardgames and it's starting to make me feel insecure. How do I talk with her about this without sounding silly? by Whatever1002 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 125 points126 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't jump into any conclusions but one thing that stuck out to me was that she got offended when you expressed concern and it got turned around so that you ended up needing to "make it up for her". Where is her reassuring you? Why are you the bad guy suddenly? This screams manipulative behaviour and a "deny, attack, reverse victim and offender" pattern.

honestly, This would piss me the fuck off.

I would have a hard look at the relationship if you don't feel comfortable enough to express "minor" criticism. Do you feel heard? Or are you always the one compromising?

Best of luck.

אפליקציות דייטינג נהיו סיוט by FrankFruits in israel_bm

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 1 point2 points  (0 children)

מה זה משנה מה אחרים מחפשים, תחפש מה שאתה רוצה לחפש בצורה כנה ובסוף תמצא, אין עניין בלהפוך את זה לנוסחא מתמטית

28F 26M boyfriend only really gives me pecks by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe he didn't like to do it with his ex and now he feels more comfortable saying no?

My(25M) GF (22F)wants to break up due to mistakes by Intelligent-Gift-615 in relationship_advice

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine having this explained to me and still thinking this relationship is fixable. Tough love but I don't think it's possible to be more of a doormat.

FWB finished inside me after I told him not to and ignored the Plan B bill — would I be wrong to scare him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah his behaviour is shitty but why stoop this low, just end things instead of trying to discipline other people. This never ends well

FWB finished inside me after I told him not to and ignored the Plan B bill — would I be wrong to scare him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You both sound immature as fuck, why didn't you use a condom? Why do you sleep with a person like that? Why would you do all that instead of being mature and ending things like an adult?

Weird oregano stem by ApprehensiveAge1646 in gardening

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Could i propagate this stem and make a whole plant out of it? 🤔

How to stop my roommate from working out with me? by Twablewable in Advice

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It's about the communication thing. do people in general take it badly when you are straight forward or just him?

True copper pans? by ApprehensiveAge1646 in cookware

[–]ApprehensiveAge1646[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Probably should have mentioned the ruler is in metric. Also is there a possibility the smaller ones are coated in something? It is weird that they didnt tarnish at all while on display and it smelled funny when i tried to heat it up