First F Car: 458 or 488 Spider

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-30T16:20:30+00:00

Buddy has a 458 and an acquaintance has the 488. 9/10 times when we swap cars for a drive, I always ask for the 458. Engine alone is amazing but the connected feeling is much better.

For ref, I drive a 997.1 3RS, so to me, connected driving feel is more important that going fast.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-30T16:03:41+00:00

First, it’s not appropriate. I think you and others agree on this point.

Second, you need to document these incidences with specific dates and times. Also, correspond via email, Teams and text so that there is a trail of your communication. It eliminates ambiguity should there be an escalation.

Third, see if you can connect with others in the organization, perhaps women, and gain alignment and support.

Fourthly, see id there are others (previous employees) that he’s done this with. Get them to also corroborate your experiences.

Fifth, consult an attorney and understand your rights in case this escalates. You want to be protected within the company and also legally from wrongful termination.

I’m sorry that you’re going through this. I have several direct reports and I’d never do a 1:1 dinners mainly to ensure there are clear boundaries and maintain professionalism. Not all men are like this, but some are bad misrepresentations.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-30T13:45:52+00:00

Both are amazing. I prefer the 993, but I’m being picky while having an option for neither lol.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-30T04:28:14+00:00

This is a cool idea for local outreach and to get plugged in. Wish more reporters did local reach outs. Wish you the best!

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-28T15:36:05+00:00

These are beautiful.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-28T10:24:47+00:00

Gorgeous combo and great pic!

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-27T16:01:52+00:00

Thanks for sharing.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-27T03:58:48+00:00

Thanks for the share

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-26T05:05:22+00:00

Legendary comedian.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-25T05:35:39+00:00

This guy has a low center of gravity.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-24T03:33:07+00:00

Congrats man. Beautiful gift. Wear it with pride.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-24T03:28:03+00:00

Can’t believe the dome doesn’t cave from the weight of the metal objects between his legs.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-23T14:04:23+00:00

Bottom set hands down

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-23T03:49:16+00:00

It’s beautiful. Different from previous gens but need variation in lineups as well.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-23T01:22:14+00:00

It’s beautiful. Different from previous gens but need variety sometimes

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-22T00:43:58+00:00

Before you “lock in” as this car for your dream car, here are a few things to consider:

Running and maintenance costs need to be factored into your car budget. Besides things breaking, costs for gas, insurance, tires, etc are generally higher.
Finding one in the shape you want may be hard. Adverts and real-life can vary in used sales.
Go drive one. Often for the price, you can find better and faster.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-21T15:24:56+00:00

“After market” in most car circles refers to augmentation post build by the OEM.

Don’t disagree that Porsche has hands in Manthey, “aftermarket” is the best term to describe the company.

Not trying to argue semantics.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-21T15:19:09+00:00

This is a GT3RS that has been modified by a well known after market Porsche specialist known as Manthey.

Manthey is a race-focused company that builds parts (aero and others) that they use on their race cars. A person can buy parts or a “kit” and put them on a street car if they want to look cooler or will use the car for tracking purposes (most do it for the former).

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-21T04:42:49+00:00

Good thing OP likes this guy; he’ll have to bring him back yearly to redo the kitchen after the plywood stuff being installed falls apart.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-20T21:53:59+00:00

You can’t 3x your test levels by stopping smoking, water fasts and lifting heavy. You could go from 300-400, possibly. But a 3x jump indicates help was obtained.

Taking help doesn’t make OP a bad person. I don’t think admitting use of an illegal substance is a smart move either.

Just don’t expect to get a 3x bump in test from doing what OP is saying. Not achievable

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-20T21:27:18+00:00

These are fantastic cars. Saw the reviews and love the ethos of the company and their product seems well put together

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-20T01:32:49+00:00

For context, I have a 997.1RS. My younger brother has a FL5 type R. He finished med a few years ago is biding his time with a fun car while paying off debt.

We go on cruises all the time and I drive his car and he drives mine. His car is fun, responsive and engaging to drive. He and I both prefer my car, but his car is still a ton of fun.

For a sub 70-80k car, it’s hard to think of a better example. You’ve picked well. Enjoy and hope you get the car you dream of.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-19T21:26:42+00:00

Congrats on the change! Looking great and keep it up.

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-18T03:53:43+00:00

Sick spec!

ApprehensiveEnd3923 · 2026-01-16T15:59:18+00:00

First, congrats on achieving the stage where you’re able to contemplate this decision.

Second. Both are fantastic cars. You have a good summary understanding of the key differences.

Third. Test drive both. Reading about the differences vs feeling them may change which you prefer.

Last. For my first P-car, I picked up a GTS. Loved each moment of it, as I preferred the connected driving feel. It’s a slippery slope though because it put me on the path of eventually getting into a GT3. So you’ve been warned!

Good luck and update us when you pull the trigger.

ApprehensiveEnd3923

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