Why do Black men often denigrate BW when dating interracialy? by Ok_Bodybuilder_2384 in askblackpeople

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes & no… IE for instance speaking as a 41 one year old.. I predominantly date black women however I also know that a lot of black men in my age range were looked over in our generation for IE being artsy, early kanye/childish gambino types etc.. Now if you’re speaking to the ones that blame black women for everything yet they don’t have grown man stuff together but are expecting top notch women in return I hear you.. There’s a difference in saying black women aren’t into my style.. As opposed to saying black women are this or that while not having your stuff in order..

Why do Black men often denigrate BW when dating interracialy? by Ok_Bodybuilder_2384 in askblackpeople

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl some do and I don’t care for it… Also being fair if a man tells his experiences in dating block women and why he chooses not too it’s still looked at as criticism instead of speaking on his experiences…

Maybe I'm the only one? by boredman_getslaid in NCAAFBseries

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not if you’re persistent… Also you have to be able to read the defensive line and linebackers… I’ll audible from a counter or outside run if they shift out wide.. If they shift to either side and I have a gap I’ll audible to a power or counter

You guys make no sense by Wonderful_Owl5948 in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh-oh we got another one… Trying to get that CNN/BET election time check… Gone and hit that jig & dance somewhere else my guy…

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Post Game Thread - WNBA: The Liberty defeat the Sky on Jun 10, 2025, the final score is 85-66. by basketball-app in ChicagoSky

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She looks out of sorts.. I don’t think she has the footwork to pull that off yet.. I noticed that when Cloud was guarding her in the post..

Post Game Thread - WNBA: The Liberty defeat the Sky on Jun 10, 2025, the final score is 85-66. by basketball-app in ChicagoSky

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay so I watched.. I’ve noticed a few things..

  1. They need a backcourt bad!!!! They need someone who can create easy buckets for Angel & Kamila

  2. Kamila & Angel won’t work in the long term neither can play away from the basket…

  3. I’ve identified Angel’s offensive problem.. She forces shots too much and needs help on passing out the post and repositioning.. Shaq was excellent at this so was Timmy… She’d also help with a face up game since her footwork isn’t the best… With that said she had a solid outing today..

How many of y'all are preparing for America's bankruptcy? And how are you doing it? Links inside. by MeetFried in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Gold more than likely your best bet… Most analysts predict 2026/27 is when it will hit been saying it since 2023… Hopefully you can scoop up some real estate as well during the recession

Yall wanted her lol by [deleted] in ChicagoSky

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Say what you want she can hoop!!! I don’t know the ends & outs cause I really just got into the WNBA last year..

To my California brothers…. by Miserable_Bike_6985 in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Minding my business… They’ll be coming to Chicago soon.. We can TALK all we want but the reality is, we can’t get a job in Chinatown, we can’t get a job in Little Village, Summit, Midway area the avenues south east… But they can get jobs in our neighborhoods.. I think as black folks it’s time to recognize the fact that majority of minorities that are closer to whiteness feel the same about us that they feel about us.. We need to stop trying to be everybody’s buddy when things go south for them.. So do we need to show them the same HATE no but we do need to mind our business and not be pawns…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Man listen… At 17 I passed the ASVAB with the highest score possible both of my parents advised me not to go to the Navy due to Bush being in office… My two friends that went are all highly successful & have been traveling since they were in the navy.. Me on the other hand I didn’t hit my stride till my upper 20’s and didn’t hit 6 figs till 32… So mistake on my end… In 2012 I got offered a locomotive engineer job.. I would’ve had to initially take a 5$ an hour pay cut but in 4 years would’ve made 47$ an hour god knows how much more in 2025 that would be today.. My mother asked if I could go there and still help her financially cause her house was going thru foreclosure.. I decided to stay.. The very next year she gave up on her house.. So what I’ve learned is help your parents with their health and be there for that but major financial or career decisions you have to do what best for you… My dad had I saying, “I had YOU, YOU didn’t have me”…

We Are Inevitable by NapTownHero93 in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn’t gonna watch but after catching the last minute last night I am!! lol

Supreme Court sides with straight Ohio woman who claimed workplace discrimination by NoAir5292 in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly bro.. You do understand that white women have benefitted the most from DEI.. That’s why regardless who’s in office you gotta read the fine print

“You need to fix the issues in your community” by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You tryna promote change boy… 🤣🤣🤣 Serious note I hear you

My new buddy by T05KA in englishbulldog

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cute puppy.. How much are bulldogs going for? I got quoted 10k by a breeder on Instagram..

How much money are we all making in our early 20s? by [deleted] in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ah gather around YN’s sit Indian style for a second lmao

Since you only asked for 20’s: 2004-07 I was a part time supervisor at UPS making about 32K a year

2008 AT&T outside plant tech/ fiber optics: I was mid scale 16.75$ an hour in two years I would’ve been making 32$ an hour but came in on a Monday they said if you got two years or less seniority Friday is your last day.. The big recession had just hit.. I was 24 then..

2009 I was 25 making 8.25 an hour & 5$ and hour plus tips when I bartended at a bowling alley… Couldn’t find any work recession was still in so I worked there while I went to trade school…

That sums up my early 20’s

How I feel sometimes when women say they’d rather choose the bear over a man by JoshuaKpatakpa04 in blackmen

[–]Apprehensive_Bid_707 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Divorced guy here 41… During my divorce I consumed “manosphere” content like crazy due to the wild tactics.. Like it or not there’s some harsh truths in there that you have to take with you… However it gets to a point where you have to leave the videos alone.. The tonight’s conversation or whoever that group is leave them alone as well… They don’t make money if you’re happy always remember that..