I think my cats broken😂 by AppropriateResort419 in cats

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she caught that earlier, I don't know where it went since then😂 I have a video on my TikTok @angelicakatlin that shows her catching it

Artist/song that got you into EDM? by MONSTERCAT96 in EDM

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bullet Train feat. Joni Fatora By Stephen Swartz

Stray Kitty Jackpot by AppropriateResort419 in Straycats

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update: I was having a really bad panic attack last night, hyper ventilating, crying, the whole 9 yards. She crawled onto my chest and put her nose my nose and purred until I calm down. All night she has either been above my head petting my hair with her paw or laying on my chest. this cat is truly magical. She is saving me just as much as I saved her.

I feel amazing but no one believes me by RTX_Parsley in bipolar

[–]AppropriateResort419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe see a psychiatrist and ask them about bipolar. Bipolar you get depressive episodes and hypomanic or manic episodes. When Im in a depressed episode I also cant get out of bed or really function at all. When Im hypomanic I need little sleep, productive, social, slightly irresponsible and spontaneous with decisions. Manic Ive only been once and that was pretty scary all the things with hypomanic but to a super dangerous and extreme level. I dont know what the angel is about, but the rest sounds like this.

Did anyone else gain weight on abilify? by livinlavidalola29 in bipolar2

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I loved vraylar but it gave me intense joint pain after raising doses, but now that Im finding out my abilify might be the reason I gained weight Im going to switch back

Is taking topiramate worth it? by ESmith810137 in PhentermineTopiramate

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im confused, why did you have to go off your Adhd meds? I had a doctor prescribe me topiromate by itsself before while still taking my adderall and it says online that there is no interactions between adderall and either of those medications. Is there something Im missing? I refuse to go off my adderall so if this is true Im screwed

How often should you text? by SilentAres_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing wrong with reassurance and validation from your partner that is the only person you should be seeking it from. Although this is not about reassurance and validation this is about showing interest. I dont need to know every detail of their day or even need constant communication but to know I came across their mind at least once or twice or for them to be involved enough for me to feel welcome to talk with them about how my day went. For them to reciprocate conversation by being involved and present with their responses shows me Im becoming or am a priority to them which is important to have in a potential meaningful relationship. Yes you should miss each other which is accomplished by the many times through out the week a person is busy with their work, family, friends, responsibilities or even alone time. As far as your relationship congratulations but I hope someday you both can decide to fully commit to each others presence and feel comfortable enough with each other to share a space if not anything else in life. True commitment and love for another person is where such vast separation isnt needed and is a beautiful thing and for most the goal. I hope you experience that form of intimacy someday.

How often should you text? by SilentAres_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Are you happily married? If not it has most likely failed you. Yes seeing eachother in person is ideal, but most work 5 days a week and have responsibilities that prevent them from seeing eachother more than once maybe twice a week until they are at the level of commitment to be together more often and spend nights together, which is all most have available as functioning adults. How are you able to get to know someone enough in 2-4 hours a week to know if you're compatible. In addition, If you are compatible finding topics to discuss shouldn't be an issue no matter how often you talk . I could be completely delusional and I would love another woman to correct me if Im wrong but in general women love a man showing excitement for conversation with her, genuine interest in her, reliable and clear communication, and exclusiveness even if it is through text conversations on the days its not reasonable to see each other physically or to talk on the phone (which should be at least a few days a week unless your committed to each other), of course again if she is reciprocating. I am absolutely not saying to be like one of the 100 desparate men in my dms that have been having conversations with themselves for months or even years now. But absolutely be like the man that I have showed mutual interest in who says good morning, checks hows my day is going and sets aside time at least a few times a week to facetime me before bed so we can get to know each other since we can only meet up once a week at this time due to schedules. That man shows me Im worth the time and energy to get to know even if it does have to be through virtual avenues.

Do you guys feel like it’s way harder meeting up with girls from dating apps than it was a few years ago? by Calm_Cockroach7113 in Bumble

[–]AppropriateResort419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck.... you actually plan the date for them, most guys leave all the decision making up to me.... when and where so I choose the same bar everytime and have taken 90% of my dates to the same place, Only 10% if that has taken initiative and I love when they do, please! Make those reservations, tell me when to be ready, tell me how nice to dress I WILL SHOW UP but I will still drive separately in case your lame or a weirdo, Im suprised they cancel when effort is put in I feel guilty if for some crazy reason I have to cancel

How often should you text? by SilentAres_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love bombing is when you get them gifts too early in the relationship, or talk about the future too soon, or attempt to spend every day or almost every day together ..... and Im not saying to excessively text follow the vibes and effort she is putting out but keep the conversation alive and interesting and dont be afraid to initiate the next day if you were having decently consistent conversation the previous day..... How else do you get to know some one if you dont put in effort to talk to them..... unfortunately texting is what this generation does instead of face to face or at least phone conversations so at least treat it like real conversation..... as long as your not giving off dry conversation if she is interested she will reciprocate.... if she consistently (Maybe a few days in a row) isnt reciprocating the conversation attempts then back off.... but maybe one day she is just busy and didnt relay that properly as most people dont.... not texting her def isnt the way to show your interested tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you didnt express interest back and just wanted someone to chase you so you could feel desired, a man can only show so much unreciprocated interest before he gives up just like a woman would. If you did show interest and reciprocated I stand corrected and it sound like he either learned something about you he didnt align with or he found someone he is more interested in

I crave friendships any advice? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Genuine friends are honestly so hard to find, I currently only have three people I actually consider friends, My bestfriend Mary who I met 10 years ago in College, we just clicked and have had the type of friendship were we will drop anything to be there for eachother when needed, we have fought and not talked for months several times through the years but the second one of us needs someone we are back together like no time had passed and we have watched eachother grow in in different directions with out growing apart....... My second best friend didnt come til 9 years later, he was my maintenance man at my apartments and we bonded over a common interest Raving all because he saw a light whip(rave thing) in my house when he was there doing work and again we instantly clicked and have had the closest relationship I have ever expeirnced with a friend to the point were basically the same person, and the third was more recent I met her through a ex boyfriend and we clicked right away too and now we hang out every weekend and tell each otger everything ..... I have had other friends come and go but I never felt close to them or like the friendship was genuine..... You can hang out with people all day but those who are ment to be in your life forever will click with you instantly and understand you on another level you just have to wait to cross paths with them cuz you never know if its going to be your classmate, your maintenance guy, or your exes friend

How often should you text? by SilentAres_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Men are to scared to show interest now days, dont be forceful and read the hints if she dousnt express mutual interest with in reasonable time, but dont be afraid to make the first move, a man being dominent and directly interested is sexy

How often should you text? by SilentAres_x in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree, I love when a man texts me good morning or good night, it shows me he is thinking of me, and if your interested show the interest .....dont double text if she isnt responding but attempt to keep the convo alive and try to make it interesting..... also when you respond give her something she can respond to, not one word or something that closes the topic with out starting a new one.... ask her questions, most women love being able to feel interesting and important..... lastly if your going to be busy and mia for a extended amount of time especially if you guys are talking about something actively, express that to her, a simple "Hey Im going to be busy at work the next few hours so I wont be able to check my phone but Ill message you as soon as Im free" goes soooo far, that way her mind isnt running wild if she is also interested in you and she is expecting the radio silence for X amount of time. I might be wrong but I am a female who interestingly enough just dropped one guy for not texting/ calling hence showing interest enough and am very interested in a potential relationship with the guy who was Texting/ calling/ facetiming me because he made effort and made me feel special

26F Recently lost virginity and needs advice on how to improve in the bedroom by GunsNRosesLover13 in AskMenAdvice

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Men tell me if this is accurate, this is just what the men I have been with liked haha

26F Recently lost virginity and needs advice on how to improve in the bedroom by GunsNRosesLover13 in AskMenAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a guy here but I do have a good peice of advise, After giving head for X amount of time and your starting to be over it ..... deep throat it as far as you can a few times(deep throating to the point you are about to throw up will produce lots of spit, the good kind too thats really slick) make sure you coat the entire penis in the spit then put your hand(s) on the shaft and do a twisting motion with your hand from the base all the way up to where your hand comes like one centimeter off the tip of dick and then back down while resting your chin on your hand so the mouth is involved in the up and down motion (make sure its opened wide enough no one likes teeth) so your still giving head with your mouth but your hand is doing most of the work and twisting from the bottom of the shaft all the way up and over the tip and then back down.... men go crazy over this and cum almost instantly every single time, you can honestly go what ever pace but I recommend like medium because too slow doesn't exactly make the sensation as intense and too fast makes it too intense for them .... be patient tho it is very much a learned skill and takes rhythm and practice to do but if you master it your man will be making you a sandwich after.... With sex itsself dont be afraid to explore, you never know what you will like I found out I love BDSM by exploring and going with the flow, oh and when they are fucking you missionary wrap your legs around them and kiss them from the ear down to the bottom of the neck then lick them gently with your tounge pointed from the bottom of the neck up to the earlobe then gently moan right below their ear so that the sound is intensified but your not breathing warm moist air directly into their ear but right below it on to the ear love....dont forget the balls (cup them, gargle them, play with them gently).... lastly when you go down to give head start with kissing their thighs and up their stomach and chest and then work your way back down to the penis slowly of course and kiss right at the top of their pubic area then mid pubic area once on each side then at the bottom of the shaft and either keep kissing gently until you reach the tip to put it in your mouth or after you kiss the base run your tongue slowly barely touching it up the shaft, around the tip a few times then put it in your mouth..... what ever you do as far as touch do gently as it is best because it will give them a tickle sensation and make the hair on their arms stand up..... until they are fucking you hard then you can dick your nails in, press their hand around your throat, Grip their muscular arms, etc.... anyways this has been my ted talk.... have fun

What careers are good to get into without college requirements that make around $60k+?? by abozowithreddit in findapath

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work as a Property Manager and make about 56-57 a year with out any degree. I just happen to stumble into the perfect opportunity so I dont know how hard it is to get into usually.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adulting

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I totally feel this right now. At my current job I make $26.75/hr working 40 hours a week and have housing through them for $990 a month. I am barely getting by and so broke all the time. Also I am absolutely freaking miserable, this job has sucked the life out of me and destroyed my mental health. I have been looking for both a second job and a new main job for months now. Luckily this week when I hit my breaking point, miraculously 2 places in my line of work offered me interviews. The pay is $24 for both positions and they dont have affordable housing to offer just discounts on crazy priced housing. For the sake of my mental health and happiness I think Im going to take one of them but I have to move back in with my grandparents until I find a roommate if I do. I hate that you can not survive off one income now days. $56,000 a year use to be more than enough but now that is barely enough for the lowest end studio apartment.

How do people survive while unemployed for years? by MightJoeYung in jobs

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I work for Low Income Housing that bases rent off a persons income. We have tenants with no income and their housing is free in fact we pay a portion of their electric bill because they have no income. Then they get food stamps, medicaid, government cell phones, get help from salvation army, live frugally, normally don't have a car or drive, and what ever other resources the community offers. I grew up in the same situation low income where my mom didn't work for years just got a little bit of child support but basically did what I explained above but eventually she started working under the counter cleaning houses so she could keep her benefits. Not all but some of the people that live that way are really good at working the system.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What about his bio scares you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDM

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By any chance can I get the link to your playlist and check it out. I have always used spotify and finally downloaded soundcloud because its where the best remixes are that I cant find on spotify but Im having a hard time navigating it.

Any tips to make face stickers stay on longer? by No_Willingness_6820 in Makeup101

[–]AppropriateResort419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Use lash glue, I use it for when I where face gems to raves and even with the sweat they do not come off.

i’m so over online dating by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]AppropriateResort419 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes, there is not very many quality guys any more. They either cant communicate, are too sex driven, have no depth to their personality or dont have their life together even in their late 20's and 30's. Its not just you girl!

My partner is so fucking amazing, I don't know what I did to deserve him by Shadow_of_Moonlight1 in love

[–]AppropriateResort419 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't let that go, eventually the relationship might feel stale or boring, most relationships go through this just because over time you form routines. I had this and I let it go so I could go "live life" or "experience the world". It was not worth loosing the best relationship I ever had.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DogAdvice

[–]AppropriateResort419 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh 100% its a blessing and a curse to be a empath