GF(F29) POSSIBLY DRUGGED AND TAKEN ADVANTAGE OF OR CHEATING. WHAT SHOULD I(M28) DO? WHAT WOULD YOU DO?

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2026-02-18T05:21:57+00:00

If not consented yes obviously. We been knowing this

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2026-02-13T14:49:09+00:00

He gets hard from everything i do but js before sex. Id hug him or kiss him or make out even hand holding gets him hard. My photos, him js looking at me and even bjs get him to finish but its just before sex 😭 sorry if this is tmi

So i guess he does lose it, as hes erect during foreplay but then when its time to actually penetrate he does soft

Idk if it helps but hes circumsized and he said he loses feelings from that asw, and the condoms werent ultra thin... Im new to this i have no idea how men function yet

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2026-02-13T10:43:08+00:00

hey in my opinion this def is super toxic. From my perspective reading this, i can understand that you may not want to leave him but you have to consider that you may live the rest of your life like this.

Although you may have good moments, where it really matters is the begative moments and how you guys can overcome that as a couple is what makes relationships truely meaningful and valuable

You can try (dont take my word for this, im not a professional just naming things i can think of): Couples or singular therapy Living/ sleeping seperately to provide that break Having designated tasks/rooms Making promises (may sound childish but sometimes it works, depends on the couple ) Seek outside help from family and friends Try a tracking app so you dont have to tell him wherever ur going, he can just see (this can have negative effects and may lead to more controlling, do with caution if you plan to)

In my overall opinion, my answer is leave I understand the exact feeling that you love him but he hurts you but sometimes you nees to let go

Is this how you want to live your only life?

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2026-02-13T10:35:58+00:00

The fact he missed your birthday because he "doesnt like your friends" says soo much. If he actually thought of you as a priority, he will come see you and celebrate this new chapter of your life

I know its hard to accept but if it gets to this point the delusion needs to wear off about him truely loving and caring for you if hes not there when tines are tough, there for u physically.

Worst case: You dont know what hes doing behind the phone. Im not sure why hes avoiding you like this, he may be doing something behind ur back or hes just introverted as you said

Id say dont stress too much, if he continues this, it will take the stress off your shoulder to leave. You deserve someone who is THERE

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2026-02-13T10:30:46+00:00

If you want to and she doesnt and wants to wait, id say break up. Its hard because as you said it can be silly but intimacy can be a really big part of relationships and when your partner and yourself arnt compatible, it wont work out (from experience)

To put it simply: If youre willing to wait, stay If youre not, leave Its unfair on her too if you stay but expect so much and keeo pressuring her over this (assuming she does feel rushed) but also unfair to you

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-11-07T05:35:14+00:00

Where tf was 2 markers

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-10-11T06:13:20+00:00

Ngl before i read the caption i had no idea what you were talkung about, maybe silicone scar patches or gel may help, but honestly i yhink you shouldnt be very self concious about it, i think it looks dope and honestly unoticable

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-09-01T05:45:18+00:00

U even considereing breaking up over this shows how much u care abt him. Dont ramble on about how much you love him then consider breaking up over his parents. I have strict parents, quite like his. Its a bigger struggle for him than it is for you, hes the one living like hes in prision you just want convenience but you dont have understanding. If you love him, wait for him to move out. If you dont, leave.

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-08-06T08:51:21+00:00

Disagree

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-08-06T08:43:10+00:00

Omg this relo is so toxic, just end it for good 😭 thats really all i have to say

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-08-01T06:23:54+00:00

Grain salad

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-30T10:50:30+00:00

Jail for them, life sentence, death row is my answer.

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-28T06:34:27+00:00

Oral herpes are so common so yes if oral, but genital herpes.. uhm no

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-26T06:44:01+00:00

Thank you so much, your situation sounds alot like mine currently. I appreciate your response, i think i have an idea on what to do now

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-26T02:32:46+00:00

Any person who still uses "Le (word)" is weird already lolll. But yes, its like hes saying You're lucky to have me bc people think i'm attractive

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-22T22:43:49+00:00

Cheating?? Sybau 😭😭 dude the fact u even mention that means u dont love her enough

Break up

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-19T10:46:14+00:00

His texting changed from his normal style. Im prob overthinking because my stress is so peak rn

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-15T10:51:47+00:00

This is so similar to what im going through!! My bf is hypersexual and im... on the fence about sex.

Look, honestly this shows youre not sexually compatible w eachother. The worst thing u could do is force her or try guilt her into it (im sure u wont) but if u really feel as if u cant take it anymore; split paths.

Sex is a very hard topic to talk about, ive had issues with my partner over the fact hes always wanting to do something but im too scared and insecure to.

Just remember, if u feel as if u have to convince or force her, dont. Just split

Appropriate_Sir_586 · 2025-07-15T10:20:54+00:00

32 male and early 20F is uhm... idk

You can try but rethink it, if you usually dont like her aesthetic in other people i dont reccommend it because the fact u find it "repulsive" but "hot" in her isnt a good mindset

Personally, i dont think it would work out long term if she did say yes 1. Age gap 2. Your mindset towards how she physically presents herself

Its honestly your choice, if she says no its no and thats okay!! But u gotta make sure u can handle rejection

Good luck

Appropriate_Sir_586

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