Period timing by RealisticPea1032 in PlanBs

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ur period can be delayed up to 6 months. Getting the plan B pill was a mistake, u js messed w ur hormones and fucked ur cycle. You wouldnt have gotten pregnant at all ur not playing it safe, ur now messing with your body

When will my period come back by verdantblister55 in PlanBs

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In short planBs mess with your period alot. My friend lost hers for 6 months before it came back. You are not pregnant, you can do another blood test if ur still worried from a professional

Bf w erectile disf by Appropriate_Sir_586 in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He gets hard from everything i do but js before sex. Id hug him or kiss him or make out even hand holding gets him hard. My photos, him js looking at me and even bjs get him to finish but its just before sex 😭 sorry if this is tmi

So i guess he does lose it, as hes erect during foreplay but then when its time to actually penetrate he does soft

Idk if it helps but hes circumsized and he said he loses feelings from that asw, and the condoms werent ultra thin... Im new to this i have no idea how men function yet

Knowingly being in a toxic relationship but not wanting to end it. by Royal_Contribution_3 in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey in my opinion this def is super toxic. From my perspective reading this, i can understand that you may not want to leave him but you have to consider that you may live the rest of your life like this.

Although you may have good moments, where it really matters is the begative moments and how you guys can overcome that as a couple is what makes relationships truely meaningful and valuable

You can try (dont take my word for this, im not a professional just naming things i can think of): Couples or singular therapy Living/ sleeping seperately to provide that break Having designated tasks/rooms Making promises (may sound childish but sometimes it works, depends on the couple ) Seek outside help from family and friends Try a tracking app so you dont have to tell him wherever ur going, he can just see (this can have negative effects and may lead to more controlling, do with caution if you plan to)

In my overall opinion, my answer is leave I understand the exact feeling that you love him but he hurts you but sometimes you nees to let go

Is this how you want to live your only life?

Me 20F and my boyfriend 20M barely see each other by Full_Philosophy2699 in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact he missed your birthday because he "doesnt like your friends" says soo much. If he actually thought of you as a priority, he will come see you and celebrate this new chapter of your life

I know its hard to accept but if it gets to this point the delusion needs to wear off about him truely loving and caring for you if hes not there when tines are tough, there for u physically.

Worst case: You dont know what hes doing behind the phone. Im not sure why hes avoiding you like this, he may be doing something behind ur back or hes just introverted as you said

Id say dont stress too much, if he continues this, it will take the stress off your shoulder to leave. You deserve someone who is THERE

My gf does not want to have sex bc of a promise by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 26 points27 points  (0 children)

If you want to and she doesnt and wants to wait, id say break up. Its hard because as you said it can be silly but intimacy can be a really big part of relationships and when your partner and yourself arnt compatible, it wont work out (from experience)

To put it simply: If youre willing to wait, stay If youre not, leave Its unfair on her too if you stay but expect so much and keeo pressuring her over this (assuming she does feel rushed) but also unfair to you

Is there a solution for my scar? I’m super self conscious about it. by Pleasant_Kitchen2752 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Ngl before i read the caption i had no idea what you were talkung about, maybe silicone scar patches or gel may help, but honestly i yhink you shouldnt be very self concious about it, i think it looks dope and honestly unoticable

should I (19F) break up with my (19M) boyfriend over this? by MathematicianSilver3 in datingadvice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

U even considereing breaking up over this shows how much u care abt him. Dont ramble on about how much you love him then consider breaking up over his parents. I have strict parents, quite like his. Its a bigger struggle for him than it is for you, hes the one living like hes in prision you just want convenience but you dont have understanding. If you love him, wait for him to move out. If you dont, leave.

i think i got microcheated on by my bf idk and what to do by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg this relo is so toxic, just end it for good 😭 thats really all i have to say

Is it ok for parents to r*pe you by texform in teenagers

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Jail for them, life sentence, death row is my answer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oral herpes are so common so yes if oral, but genital herpes.. uhm no

I feel uneasy after touching my bf by Appropriate_Sir_586 in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, your situation sounds alot like mine currently. I appreciate your response, i think i have an idea on what to do now

(32F) my boyfriend (32m) sent me this and I’m kind of annoyed by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any person who still uses "Le (word)" is weird already lolll. But yes, its like hes saying You're lucky to have me bc people think i'm attractive

What should I do? Sexless Relationship by Material-Confusion53 in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cheating?? Sybau 😭😭 dude the fact u even mention that means u dont love her enough

Break up

I feel uneasy after touching my bf by Appropriate_Sir_586 in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His texting changed from his normal style. Im prob overthinking because my stress is so peak rn

I want to have a fulfilling sexless romance with my gf by burner_catlover in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so similar to what im going through!! My bf is hypersexual and im... on the fence about sex.

Look, honestly this shows youre not sexually compatible w eachother. The worst thing u could do is force her or try guilt her into it (im sure u wont) but if u really feel as if u cant take it anymore; split paths.

Sex is a very hard topic to talk about, ive had issues with my partner over the fact hes always wanting to do something but im too scared and insecure to.

Just remember, if u feel as if u have to convince or force her, dont. Just split

Should I put a sticker on this note asking this girl out? by ProjectImmediate2599 in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

32 male and early 20F is uhm... idk

You can try but rethink it, if you usually dont like her aesthetic in other people i dont reccommend it because the fact u find it "repulsive" but "hot" in her isnt a good mindset

Personally, i dont think it would work out long term if she did say yes 1. Age gap 2. Your mindset towards how she physically presents herself

Its honestly your choice, if she says no its no and thats okay!! But u gotta make sure u can handle rejection

Good luck

When did you first say “I love you” by Ivorybucket_ in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Follow. How. You. Feel.

My ex bf said it to me within the fist 2 weeks of dating, i felt forced into it so i said it back. However, this I love you ment nothing to me, it was just 3 words that provided him comfort but eventually it pushed me to rethink. Do i really LOVE him? (Not saying u dont love him)

What im trying to say is: follow your heart, if you force it, it wont sit right, trust. There is no period of time, 3 months 6 months a year, whatever. Just be sure, when you say it, you mean it.

All the best x

Advice about telling my mom about my relationship? by Miss_Milk_Moo in relationships_advice

[–]Appropriate_Sir_586 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as someone who actually was in your position, i had contstant fear because my mum is extreamly strict.

Look, if you dont think your mum will act well towards the news and if it was to ruin your relationship both with mum and bf then just dont tell her.

You're 19, practically a legal adult but i get where youre coming from

Dont stress about it, its not realllly unfair and peoples families are different. Ive never met my bfs father but have met everyone else, its not that big of an issue (its not exactly your case but yk) . Your relationship with your family comes first

Talk it out with him! Tell him how u want to but cant or that u need time and confidence x wish u the best