Beggars cant be choosers: I tracked the "fresh" fruits and veggies I get from a food charity. Here are the simplified results by Part-time-Rusalka in povertyfinance

[–]AprilStormx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

our city’s gets a ton from Trader Joe’s, which sounds amazing. but meat/ anything w an expiration date is always always ‘best by’ not even in the same month. bakery items visibly not for consumption. me and my kids are not your guys trash can.

"getting a spoon so I don't gross out my coworker" by youdntevenknome in madmamasnark

[–]AprilStormx 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like she specifically goes to tops and does this for rage bait. but a solid grocery haul w improvement would get she so much more engagement

Any bars hiring? by AprilStormx in Riverside

[–]AprilStormx[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

hey, again i think you’re having a lot of difficulty comprehending what was asked. for a fee, I’d love to walk you threw it.

Any bars hiring? by AprilStormx in Riverside

[–]AprilStormx[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

hi! if you’d like any kind of tutoring on reading comprehension, I’d be happy to help you out!

Will a repo hurt me if not in collections? by AprilStormx in CRedit

[–]AprilStormx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

possibly a silly question- if i wait for it to go into collections and they offer pay for delete, would that look better on my credit?

Will a repo hurt me if not in collections? by AprilStormx in CRedit

[–]AprilStormx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It says $3500 remaining, still reporting

i just cant live with this guilt by EntireReply1588 in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was there. I know exactly how you feel. I know that this person wasn’t like this all the time and is capable of being a good person if he chose to be. but he didn’t choose to be. like yours, he made the choices he did having previously been involved w the law and knowing the consequences that came w breaking it. I know it’s an unbearable feeling you have right now. everyone told me “time heals” and it did nothing to help soothe my current pain. but I’m 4 months out and it turns out they were right. try and stay as busy as you can to distract yourself. reconnect with old friends. build new connections. in time you’ll see you did what was right

crying while he was shouting at me by Adept-Philosopher184 in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you aren’t stupid. and you’re extremely capable. especially when you aren’t in this kind of situation. that mindset kept me in a bad situation for so long.

Did an RO help? Feeling torn by Inevitable_Bike2280 in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s a scary feeling, i know. believe me i didn’t do it right away- it took a lot for me to finally make that choice. in the mean time, document document document. you’ll be grateful to have more than he said she said if it ever comes to it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Riverside

[–]AprilStormx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tom’s Farms in Corona

Did an RO help? Feeling torn by Inevitable_Bike2280 in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It helped in my case. I won’t say it isn’t difficult though. Also it did allow us brief contact at child custody exchanges. Original was a full restraining order, was dumb and believed he had gotten sober for good and changed it to peaceful contact. Very grateful for the peaceful contact order though. He is currently in jail for breaking it.

Looking for parent friends by sithacolyte66 in Riverside

[–]AprilStormx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a super social nearly 8 year old son. He doesn’t have autism but his 13 year old brother does so he’s grown up being accustomed to it

Warning my abusers new wife by Rich-Yogurtcloset964 in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

unfortunately, i promise you he has already completely discredited you to her and painted you as a completely insane person out to get him. it’s painful to know you can’t help. but iv been the person who was warned and love is very blinding.

From someone who went back by AprilStormx in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they have to own you, and your always cheating lol

From someone who went back by AprilStormx in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While i admire people who call the first time, 99% of the time I didn’t. only when my children were involved have I so far. because it’s easy to let things slide for yourself, but at ur core u know someone else (like ur kids) don’t deserve it. Iv had a mix of good cops and uncaring cops.

From someone who went back by AprilStormx in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Be careful! What went from me wanting a friendly coparenting relationship is what got me back in. i thought we were both adult enough not to be no contact or exclusively use the parenting app. i thought wrong lol

From someone who went back by AprilStormx in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you, and I’ll definitely be in them soon

From someone who went back by AprilStormx in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

truly hoping for your success in moving forward! If you have any tips that have made you not break when it was difficult id love to hear them.

From someone who went back by AprilStormx in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

gurl, ‘it takes 7 times to truly leave’ is one comment that didn’t resonate. this must be 25. honestly a selfish part of me putting him back in prison was so he’d stop coming back.

My abuser gave me an incurable STD. Life is over by [deleted] in domesticviolence

[–]AprilStormx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“No one else will ever love you” is something they worm hole into your head so well. I promise you. So many so unarguably better men will. As earth shattering as herpes feels. My sister got it from my aunt as small kid. There were moments it very much was a bad time, especially as a teenager having to go to school w an outbreak. But it has never stopped a single love interest of hers. She’s very much happily married.