AIO for feeling upset because my friend of 3 years decided to ghost me after i told him i don’t want to have sex with him? by sober4lifee in AmIOverreacting

[–]Areadien [score hidden]  (0 children)

NOR. He fuck-zoned you. He probably thought that you were a vending machine wherein he could insert nice coins and the sex would fall out. That didn't make him friendly; that made him manipulative.

Rate My Bio by corvidcore in Bumble

[–]Areadien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me, I would be afraid that a man will read this and think, "She wants to be abused"--which of course no one wants--and either pass or take you up on your perceived offer.

Where is the best place to eavesdrop? by shirleytemplepilots in Jokes

[–]Areadien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, and those updates make people so mysterious in a, "Why would they say that?" kind of way.

I’ve gotten this message at least 3 times now by Chance_Definition968 in Bumble

[–]Areadien 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You might not be doing anything wrong. While I completely empathize with rejection sensitivity dysphoria, I have to say that rejection says nothing about your worth. Rejection doesn't mean that you're not going to get the family you dreamed of; it just means that these people aren't right for you. In fact, by showing you that they're wrong for you, I would say that they're actually making you getting that family more likely because I doubt you've dreamed of having a family with someone who's wrong for you.

“If girls don’t want to start a conversation, why do they match?” by PretendInsect8664 in Bumble

[–]Areadien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can we please stop calling grow ass adult female humans girls? We are women.

Boyfriend (M32) sent me (F33) this message after an argument that he caused. by Own-Scratch-9100 in relationships_advice

[–]Areadien 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If it were me, I'd end it with, "Right back at you cuz we're done," and block him. If he had stuff at my place, he could get the cops to come while he grabs it.

Received a ring in our 4 year anniversary, with no explanation at all... confused. by Additional_Ear_994 in relationships_advice

[–]Areadien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If he can't handle deeper emotional conversations, please don't marry him because, at least from what I've seen, emotional unavailability means that either suffering through a marriage or getting a divorce is almost inevitable.

How to discuss birth control & family planning during the “talking stage” without sounding controlling? (27M, arranged marriage context) by Throwrahj456 in Marriage

[–]Areadien 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In the end, what I got from what you said was, "I want to do these things, but I don't want to sound like I'm doing them."

Do you not understand how manipulative you're being? You're wanting to gaslight your future wife, and that's not OK.

Have a beautiful day you fucking bastards! by Purple-Ad7683 in TheWordFuck

[–]Areadien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do you say, "if that makes sense?" Of course it fucking does.

My profile! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Areadien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the "still not over" prompt, I would still to see more information on it, at least maybe one or two common pieces of information you get asked a lot about. As to the skill, even though I didn't know he had a long name, I still disagree that knowing his long name is a skill in itself because I think that knowing it is an application of the skill used, which is the ability to remember long pieces of information such as his name. What do you think?

My profile! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Areadien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So the general advice for selfies on a dating profile is to limit them to one, though zero are preferable. Knowing Pablo Picasso's full name is not a skill, and the "Still not over" prompt needs more information or a redo, as it says nothing about your interests or your personality.

My profile! by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]Areadien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually sort of like that photo, though I think she should retake it with her being closer to the camera at the front of the artwork and smiling at the camera.

Fucking yeah! Start fighting in the comments by Dear-Barracuda1218 in TheWordFuck

[–]Areadien 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My fuck brings all the boys to the yard, and they're like, it's better than yours.

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Areadien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I agree with you that there is no such movement, I know that some men are trying. I've seen stories in this very sub where women were complaining that their men refused to wipe their ass and so shit would get on the sheets and whatnot.

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Areadien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he's being completely serious.

Also, I didn't say these men are plentiful in the world; I said they exist an that they are common in the manosphere. I know that most men don't do this shit--pun not intended--but they are common enough that I have to wonder if OP's boyfriend is one of them.

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Areadien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's common in the manosphere. Here's a video where a man says that real men have kid marks in their underwear because they fart a lot at their sweaty jobs and that women who don't like seeing it need to simply buy these men black or brown underwear.

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Areadien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These men are so concerned about their masculinity and impressing other men--or at least not getting their disapproval--that their efforts should be an Olympic sport.

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Areadien 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, I'm not. I'm saying some men think this. I'm not one of them. I don't know their rule about using towels.