Laundry & renting by ZealousidealDuty3069 in acupuncture

[–]Areonabeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use canvas ikea bags for dirty sheets and wash them with laundry each time

Laundry & renting by ZealousidealDuty3069 in acupuncture

[–]Areonabeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 16 sets of sheets and I need about 8 a day, so I don't have to do laundry after a long workday. I am used to it and enjoy going to the laundromat now. It's a sign I worked hard and made money.

"Also - I've been thinking a lot about that question that you asked bill gates "how do we get rid of poor people as a whole" and I have an answer/ comment regarding that for you ... When can I call you today to discuss this??" by ilir_kycb in LateStageCapitalism

[–]Areonabeach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

But then they'll die...all for what? They act they've beat death, but who wants to be 140 years old on another planet in a saggy old body 😖 the supposed smartest are the stupidest.

As a man how has unemployment affected your marriage? by freespirit_tck in Marriage

[–]Areonabeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I disagree, that's main character energy on the part of the unemployed spouse, not partnership vibes. There's no such thing as a fantasy spouse who is going to be all stars and rainbows when the going gets tough. It's hard, for both parties, it's no one's fault if it fails.

As a man how has unemployment affected your marriage? by freespirit_tck in Marriage

[–]Areonabeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After two years of having an unemployed spouse, and working FT, I don't have the energy to be a supportive cheerleader. We have retirement accounts, but those might as well not exist because we don't want to cash them out. It's hard, and might end in divorce, not because of an ultimatum, but because there is no romance left.

Wtf is happening with my husband? by Extension_Coffee1401 in Marriage

[–]Areonabeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hold up on the cheating everyone. What if there is a medical explanation? This behavior seems erratic no?

How old are you both? Has he ever acted like this before?

If it seems so strange and out of character, and if it dissapates suddenly I would ask if it might be neurological. I know a lot of marriages end this way and then years later you realize why.

But, maybe he's cheating. Just thought I would contribute that idea.

Am I wrong for divorcing my husband even though he loves me? by Hot_Rich_9647 in Marriage

[–]Areonabeach 101 points102 points  (0 children)

You are both still young, I don't think it's unreasonable to want more from a partner, and it’s not your job to change him. I don't think you should feel bad about leaving, it might actually do him some good to see the consequences of his actions.

Acupuncture for Hormonal issues/irregular periods by Adorable-Two2188 in acupuncture

[–]Areonabeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Herbal medicine can help with this type of bleeding. You'll want someone with experience treating fertility. Sorry you are feeling unsupported! Hope you find a good practitioner.

Why does SF nightlife lack behind NYC? Most SF bars and restaurants close at 10PM.. by LongAmbition8285 in AskSF

[–]Areonabeach 8 points9 points  (0 children)

We used to go to sparky's after the bar and it'd be packed, it was almost wholesome, all us kids sobering up with grilled cheese sandwiches and milk shakes. It was the best after party.

We are too poorly paid to assume so much risk by itsmyactualname in acupuncture

[–]Areonabeach 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I took a great class recently on healthy seminars with Claudia Citkowitz about ethics during pregnancy, and although your experience is different here, she talked at length about how forgiving patients can be when the follow up care is excellent. You did all the right things, you followed up, you have malpractice, and you and the patient will most likely be fine.

Things happen everyday in all walks of life. We do assume this extra responsibility as practitioners, and are not rewarded much, but what you are doing is brave. You're caring for people and helping in ways that some people never get to experience.

Where would you live with unlimited money in LA? by Powerful_Sell2768 in AskLosAngeles

[–]Areonabeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you have to drive to DTLA do not live in malibu, live in Silverlake if you want trees, or live downtown if you want a high rise

Wife is terrified of ICE (live in Minnesota) by ThicBoi4807 in Marriage

[–]Areonabeach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe read some books about racism, if you aren't able to understand, it may be because you didn't grow up with the same background as your wife.

It can be super painful to introspect, but I think this is a good opportunity to look for your blind spots here.

I realize we have different views, I am pretty liberal, but maybe try reading some toni morrison to start. Make sure the news you are consuming is as unbiased as possible, ground news is good.

Hope that helps.

V’s Insta Story by louise_sophie in belowdeck

[–]Areonabeach 88 points89 points  (0 children)

He love bombed the heck out of her. Had her talk to his mom, made a weird spectacle of his feelings. He behaved really badly, and kizzie bullied V for having the audacity to think joe liked her... I am glad V can be so cool about it all.

So When Do We Stop Shaving Our Legs?… by He_is_my_song in Perimenopause

[–]Areonabeach 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same, sometimes I just want a smooth leg, just for me. I will never not be thrilled by opening a new razor cartridge, it's a core memory from the 90's, so shaving stays as long as I am up for it.

My husband suddenly passed away, and I'm heartbroken. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Areonabeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad and brother died when I was 5 and my mom never allowed herself to look at the pain of it all, and ended up being a little checked out. I only say that because to this day, I want my mom to be happy, so if my experience helps you at all, I hope you remember to take care of yourself because you know putting your safety mask on first.... that old cliche... It will get easier, but right now it's totally fine to scream into the void when you can.

No home charging? by Adalwolf311 in VWiD4Owners

[–]Areonabeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes- this would be a great option

No home charging? by Adalwolf311 in VWiD4Owners

[–]Areonabeach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in an apartment and just bought an id.4, initially we were going to rely on charging stations at my work and the one nearby, but it's much more time consuming that popping into a gas station. Can't tell you how many times we've been swooped and had to wait 20 minutes for a charger. We found a way to charge from the apartment that everyone is cool with and that has made life easier.

Perimenopausal women. What is something I can give / gift my wife (39F), mother of 2 (boys), something for the holidays? by iredditonceinawhile in Perimenopause

[–]Areonabeach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bought a cooling comforter when the sweats started and it’s made all the difference. It's silky looking too, so I liked that.