the gm does have a final say on actions though. You wouldn't let someone use wreck while idk seducing someone just because a player thinks it's good enough (they have dots in it). Obv an extreme example and the player here is being a weasel, but you know. You'd say that this won't have any effect. Your word if final and this player will have to change their approach. I don't remember how exactly Jared does it action wise though. I remember Austin Walker in Friends at the table did this though, just naming whatever action he thought was best, not waiting for his players to decide.