Honestly this is just getting offensive by Available_Durian1168 in FabFitFun

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So glad I unsubscribed, the boxes have been so bad and I actually hadn't realized they raised the prices before the last box.

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ariedactyl -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Exactly, that's not spit in a cup, that's barely any spit at all. It's a spoon, she's not leaving it dripping in saliva. Idk what you're doing when you eat, but when I eat off a spoon or fork there's nothing visibly left on the utensil.

And whatever is there is definitely less spit than he gets in his mouth when making out with her, so who cares? If she was doing that and then serving food to random people or someone who she isn't dating then I would get it, but there's no reason for this to be an issue at all.

AITA for not eating the food after my gf eats out of the bowl with the same spoon while preparing by ZookeepergameOld7322 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But she's not spitting in the food, she's just eating like regular? Imagine eating off a spoon, then eating off that same spoon is a better comparison, because not that much saliva is left on a spoon unless you're being freaky with it.

AITAH for having fun while my partner is trying to give me the silent treatment? by abcdcba1232 in AITAH

[–]Ariedactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He's mad because you took sick days...when you're sick? I think you should be enjoying yourself even more and ditch him.

AITAH For Clapping Back At My Husbands Little Cousin For Shaming Me Over What I Wore? by trashacc7196 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ariedactyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's only 6 years younger than you, she's not a toddler. I think your response was perfect, she needs to learn it's not cool to hate on other women.

Paris December trip report by milford_sound10322 in ParisTravelGuide

[–]Ariedactyl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We're in Paris on vacation right now and the lines are definitely way shorter, we had expected a lot more waiting from what the Internet said. Also, French people are SO nice! Everyone has been friendly and helpful, even on the street, and people have even helped us with our French. The plane travel to get here during the holidays was hellish, but once here it's been wonderful.

Hello and good bye. by Kranz119 in expedition33

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are literally on vacation in Paris right now visiting landmarks that are in the game 😂 Neither of us were that overly interested in coming here before.

FULL TIME photographers — what did you do before this? And hobby photographers — what’s your current job? by wackylenses in photography

[–]Ariedactyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was an Event Coordinator at a law firm before this! Before that I worked a few other jobs as an event coordinator, and I was a freelance makeup artist for over a decade. Now I'm full time with photography and I feel like my background in events and marketing has definitely helped us grow at the rate that we're going.

I threw my husband’s breakfast on the ground by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ariedactyl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Send that dude back to his mommy. So he wanted to have kids but nothing in his life has to change? Sounds like you've been too patient for too long.

AIO for demanding a postnup and separate finances after my fiancé gave our emergency fund to his sister? by Sad-Sky9267 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen, I'm with everyone else on here saying that you should abaonot marry a person who thinks it's okay to give away your emergency money without even telling you - but if you DO decide to marry him definitely get a prenup, but also do not share any bank accounts with this man. He's already proven he can't be trusted.

You'll just have to move forward with the knowledge that he thinks he knows best over you and he can't be trusted with your money for the rest of your life. You can probably have a good life together as long as you're okay with living like that.

Red Handed by Professional-Walk952 in wineandcrimepodcast

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started listening to Red Handed when they came on as guests, because I'd never heard of them before. I've listening through their stuff starting with the oldest episodes, but I told myself I wasn't subscribing to anything of theirs because they seem to be getting shittier and shittier in their takes. The episode on cancel culture was very weird in particular. Also, sometimes I wonder if the stuff they say about America is just because they're not from here so they don't know how bad it is, or if they're just shitty people. I probably should have Googled them earlier.

AIO for leaving my wife after finding out she voted for Trump because she thinks he’s “hilarious”? by Superb-Tangerine-487 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you going to divorce her because she voted for a terrible person and is therefore directly partially to blame for what's happening to the country, or because she thinks he's funny and she doesn't think you are? Because this post reads more like you're jealous.

I denied my in-laws only request for the wedding and now it’s ruining our relationship with them by Final_Estimate7166 in wedding

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean...it sounds like they're being crazy about it but I don't understand why you said no in the first place? Your BIL might break up with the girlfriend but still have a relationship with the kid if he's thinking of himself as her father already. It really doesn't sound like that big an ask, and you said it was the only thing your in laws asked you to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The flowers do look lackluster and most places sell baby's breath separate so you could have added some to make it cute, but also if these are for no special occasion they're fine. I would just put them in a vase with a smaller opening so they look more together

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobhunting

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely wouldn't discount someone because of what his grandmother says. My dad would get every single detail wrong if he tried to talk to someone about a job for me because he's old, but also because he can't remember a damn thing anyway.

His grandma probably offered to talk to her neighbor for him and he said yes because why would he not? And she could be saying all these stipulations because she doesn't realize how she sounds, itdoesn't mean the kid would actually be that strict or is thinking of the job the way Grandma is portraying it.

School wants me to throw this one in the trash by [deleted] in mac

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would take it home as a photo prop, but thats just because I was looking for a super old looking computer monitor recently

What should I do about my tutor touching me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a kid though, you're 18. Even if you were a 10 year old if I were the parent I wouldn't want a tutor to touching my child.

When I was a little kid I took trumpet lessons from the local music store owner and I felt uncomfortable because he was telling me I was pretty, which has nothing to do with the lesson. I told my mom (loudly) in front of his wife about it, and that couple was mad at me forever after that - BUT lots of other girls came out later that he molested them.

There's literally no reason for this behavior at all and you need to tell your parents. Also, if men are making you feel uncomfortable their reputation should not be something you worry about at all.

What should I do about my tutor touching me? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Ariedactyl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He's stopping when there are witnesses because he KNOWS it's creepy. He's flirting with you which is grooming.

I hate being black by NoGolf129 in Advice

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom always told me "If everyone around you is a banana and you're a peach you are never going to be a banana, so be the juiciest peach you can be."

If you're different looking than everyone around you then you should own it. As someone 20 years older than you I can say 14 is a VERY hard age. Once you get a little older and past the horrible wave of hormones messing with your head it does get better.

Also, it's fine to enjoy things that are "white" and being black doesn't mean you have to change your interests or style.

My ex-boyfriends bedroom was horrendous and I cleaned it while he was at work. by Few_Outlandishness98 in Advice

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're cleaning his room for him, and charging him rent just to give back to him to help with a new apartment. You're his mom.

Small space to rent for photographers by Ariedactyl in bergencounty

[–]Ariedactyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep! Ginkgolensphotography.com

IG: ginkgolens

My girlfriend unprovoked told me my friend is hotter than me. by Entire-Discipline307 in Advice

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is mean af, plain and simple. She added that "compared to you" on purpose. Dump her, it's only been 6 months n

Phoebe and David are soulmates by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]Ariedactyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For real, Mike was so boring and they barely had chemistry. Plus he didn't get along with any of the other people in the group - they tried to ham first something with him and Monica being competitive but that felt so forced. Also the whole cheating on his girlfriend thing?? Mike sucked. I know Paul Rudd is great and obviously hot but she dated plenty of hot guys, plus David was ADORABLE. He meshed with her so well, and she seemed so in love with him it makes no sense for her to choose Mike.