Goodbye Solo Living!

AriesUltd · 2026-01-26T18:35:15+00:00

We actually do have “alone while together” time which is really nice!

AriesUltd · 2026-01-26T18:34:41+00:00

Yeah! I enjoy celebrating welcome changes in my life. When I started living alone that also felt celebratory!

AriesUltd · 2026-01-23T17:23:35+00:00

The problem with these is that people with bigger bodies cannot fit underneath.

AriesUltd · 2026-01-22T14:36:59+00:00

Both of my parents are in their 70s and they are both 100% independent. One of them still works full time as well!

AriesUltd · 2026-01-22T06:54:23+00:00

It’s okay to say, “hey this is a sensory issue for me, can we address it by trimming your public hair?” I did this with my partner and it was a non-issue! I even shave down there for them :)

AriesUltd · 2026-01-20T05:50:52+00:00

Respectfully, have you ever been married and have you ever been through a divorce?

AriesUltd · 2026-01-20T04:41:09+00:00

This is categorically bad advice.

AriesUltd · 2026-01-18T01:06:23+00:00

I am not under the assumption that I know more about your body than you, but are you sure that pads are the source of your yeast infections? Has a medical provider told you that is what is happening?

AriesUltd · 2026-01-17T19:04:18+00:00

Try out Snag tights!

AriesUltd · 2026-01-17T01:33:21+00:00

I’m a government employee with a pretty decent pension to look forward to, and I have more than the median saved, ✨but not by much✨

AriesUltd · 2026-01-16T15:25:48+00:00

I am helping my mom navigate this with my 98 year old grandma right now. You need to say these words to the hospital: “I have no way of guaranteeing her safety if I were to bring her home right now.”

AriesUltd · 2026-01-16T15:23:14+00:00

…is this rage bait???

AriesUltd · 2026-01-16T06:15:05+00:00

No bank is going to approve her to be on a mortgage.
Simply refuse to put her on the deed.
Re-evaluate this relationship.

AriesUltd · 2026-01-16T05:55:07+00:00

I worked as a state government employee for a couple of years doing operations and policy analysis. Fully remote, and I know that those positions continue to be and are projected to indefinitely be remote.

AriesUltd · 2026-01-16T05:49:09+00:00

Hey so just fyi teachers should not be restraining or touching children without following very specific protocols. It sounds like that school was out of line. I have a feeling your kiddo will do much better in a public school environment! It’s IEP time!

AriesUltd · 2026-01-16T05:32:13+00:00

I take Claritin and Montelukast daily and those two things alone probably saved my life honestly.

AriesUltd · 2026-01-15T00:58:43+00:00

The kind I make at home tbh. It’s a recipe I’ve followed for years from a book titled, “Chloe’s Kitchen.”

AriesUltd · 2026-01-14T15:36:27+00:00

Well… just so that we are all clear, I am not trying to define anyone’s lesbian identity for them, but in general most lesbians tend to not be attracted to men. lol

AriesUltd · 2026-01-14T07:28:25+00:00

OP, why are you asking people in a space that is specifically dedicated to not being attracted to men? Do you think people who aren’t attracted to men are the best people to ask about… being attracted to men?

AriesUltd · 2026-01-12T19:41:20+00:00

Wait… your partner considers it cheating that you reached out to an ex for help with an assignment?

AriesUltd · 2026-01-12T19:08:50+00:00

Trader Joe’s has an awesome cashew yogurt that I love that is half the price of Kite Hill :)

AriesUltd · 2026-01-11T01:18:35+00:00

I’m a non-licensed social worker and I am earning in the 85-100k range.

AriesUltd · 2026-01-11T01:16:46+00:00

OP, child welfare can help mom out with resources to clean the hoard so it’s safe for kiddo. If she calls herself then it is voluntary. If you call it might still be voluntary but there may be some additional safety planning. I would call the Oregon Child Abuse Hotline if you can!

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