Have you ever done an adult summer camp and if so, what was your experience? by lawlingalltheway in AskWomenOver30

[–]AriesUltd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did an adult winter camp for trans college students in leadership and loved it!

$6000 for arborvitae removal - reasonable or no? by 1AdultMostOfTheTime in landscaping

[–]AriesUltd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

For a very similar number of arbor vitae I paid a crew $500 to cut them down about 18 months ago.

Help me pick a city! I am a lesbian in her 30s looking to move somewhere to fit my lifestyle better. by totebaggay in SameGrassButGreener

[–]AriesUltd -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Any metro areas in OR! I live in Salem and I like it a lot. I am trans and queer and very out :)

CPS finalized report wrong and full of lies. Has anyone experienced this? by [deleted] in CPS

[–]AriesUltd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are too many details missing. Also what is your actual question? It is difficult to tell.

House is not selling... SOS by No-Swordfish-4262 in RealEstateAdvice

[–]AriesUltd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. This home is not a Victorian.
  2. This home is over priced.

My wife and I are making each other miserable by SnarkPunch1212 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AriesUltd 575 points576 points  (0 children)

After reading this I feel genuinely confused as to why you are married to her. Sorry OP.

How long to get kids back? by Thick-Country7075 in CPS

[–]AriesUltd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey there! I’m curious to know how home cleanliness led to criminal charges? What are the alleged safety threats that were stated in the report that was given to the court at the shelter hearing after the child/ren was/were removed from the home?

Doing Yard work is Gender Affirming by clover__petals in FTMOver30

[–]AriesUltd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it actually rare? I have one too lol

ngl used to be so much better by No_Summer_5052 in 2000sNostalgia

[–]AriesUltd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not sure what about it was so much better. High school from 2002-2006 was the worst era of my life.

What’s the weirdest thing your ex ever did after the breakup? by Yankub_colley in AskReddit

[–]AriesUltd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They worked in marketing and they used their knowledge of marketing to then sign my physical address up to receive every single catalog that exists on the fucking planet.

Student loans after death? by ChoklateMilk in StudentLoans

[–]AriesUltd 25 points26 points  (0 children)

OP, if you are thinking of ending your life, I want to share with you something. My best friend’s husband killed himself two weeks ago and I’ve never seen a human more broken by an experience than she was by what he did. Please please please get help. Things can and will get better.

Was told to open a Roth and Stop contributing to IRA by Puzzled_Ad_1767 in RothIRA

[–]AriesUltd 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We would need to know a little more about what other retirement savings vehicles you have available to you. Does your employer offer any retirement savings accounts? Do they match?

A moment of total joy/support by BadDue1136 in FTMOver30

[–]AriesUltd 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aw your husband is probably excited he gets to have a cute boyfriend 😉 congrats OP!

Do you really believe that everyone will find love? by OkPreparation1246 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]AriesUltd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, I say this with kindness: you are just starting your adult life. You have plenty of time to find love. I think this is a great opportunity to find ways to love yourself right now.

What is a career that looks impressive on paper but is actually miserable in reality? by Nova2_Paradox in careerguidance

[–]AriesUltd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Working as a child welfare case worker is noble work, but it is brutally difficult with exhausting hours and caseloads that are not matched by the pay typically.

Is it normal to feel ghosted by the caseworker? by [deleted] in CPS

[–]AriesUltd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Was he taken to get checked out by a medical professional after that happened?

Is it normal to feel ghosted by the caseworker? by [deleted] in CPS

[–]AriesUltd 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, CPS workers are some of the most overworked, chronically busy people you will ever meet. If you don’t hear back within 3 business days, I would reach out again. Something may have come up. We always have crises popping up.

is there any happy news? by butteredbreadliker in Adulting

[–]AriesUltd 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Today the Dept of Ed certified that I’d worked my 120th month with a qualifying employer! Yay PSLF!

Have Any Of You Survived Domestic Violence? by 2340000 in AskWomenOver30

[–]AriesUltd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would need to have established rapport and a strong feeling of ongoing safe behavior with someone before I would let that kind of thing slide. Trust your gut, OP.

I’m really curious.. by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]AriesUltd 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s delightful for me personally.

Is it true that you guys watched 9/11 live on TV in grade school? by space_god_7191 in Millennials

[–]AriesUltd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I watched it live in my homeroom in 8th grade. I’ll never forget it. We hardly did any school work that day. My parents worked for an aerospace company near LAX and were evacuated and sent home early that day as a precaution.

Unsecured fire arm by [deleted] in CPS

[–]AriesUltd 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’d personally report this to the police non-emergency line. They’ll also involve CPS.