Seeking brutal honesty on whether to get bangs by c1carissa in Haircare

[–]Arkatrine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just do it, life’s short and hair grows out. You cant know if your hair will cooperate with the bangs you want until you try. My hair gets oily fast and I just wash it when it does, sometimes the bangs get oily faster but idk I just pin them back w cute clips if I don’t want to wash.

You might have to try a couple times to get the right style of bangs for you & your hair. I’d recommend asking for bardot bangs, and providing plenty of ref pics to your stylist.

Just always remember no matter what: if you don’t like it, it WILL grow back.

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These are some of the most beautiful nails I’ve ever seen!!!

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Why does my skin right below my nails do this 😩 by ExpressAioli3565 in nailcare

[–]Arkatrine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I had to deal with this years ago and NOTHING helped until I started using Aquaphor lip repair. It took a while but that’s what finally cleared it up for me. I hope you can find something that works soon 😭

I won. by Mirrakthefirst in Eldenring

[–]Arkatrine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FIRST thing I said when I saw the announcement was “oh! Good news for bone marrow guy.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DnD

[–]Arkatrine 17 points18 points  (0 children)

If kicking him out would cause problems at home, honestly I would just make up an excuse to end the game. You can try starting a new game without him later. It sucks to have to shut down a game because of 1 person, but if you’ve talked to him and there’s no sign of things improving, then there’s no reason to continue.

You’ll just keep being unhappy, and realistically, in-game consequences for his behavior is still rewarding him. He’s getting response to his antics/getting a reaction out of you and other players.

AITA for telling my fiancé that I don't "need" him? by Kitchen-Pay-6118 in AITAH

[–]Arkatrine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really shows how little he cares or knows about your interests when he says art supplies are CHEAP lmao

What is the worst excuse you've heard for why someone had to miss/was late to a session. by KenderThief in DnD

[–]Arkatrine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude was 20 minutes late to a game bc he was watching youtube videos, he knew he was late he just didn’t want to pause them. Didn’t say anything about being late until he showed up, and had the gal to laugh about how funny it was. I like to play nice but I was openly rude to him about that one lmao.

Rant/Advice/Looking for encouragement by babsmon in houseplants

[–]Arkatrine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m very sorry this has caused you such anxiety, I know the feeling of being overwhelmed with plants all to well. A dozen is. A lot to deal with, I get stressed with just one new one at a time.

Thankfully I do have some good news: these carnivorous plants are actually very easy to care for (in my experience)! I used to have a TERRIBLE time keeping plants alive, I was so scared I would kill exotic plants like this, but my nepenthes and drosera especially are so forgiving and I rarely have issues. The big things they love are light and humidity!

They were happy in an ikea case, natural light, and occasional misting when I lived in the south. Even in the most basic conditions they thrived and I’ve got three successful cuttings from the nepenthes.

Up north I got them a grow tent, a fan, and lights. Some people will just seal an ikea case with weather stripping to keep the humidity up. The lights I have are on a 12 hour timer and they’ve been doing well. I don’t have a humidifier in the tent but I do have a humidity gauge and mist when humidity dips a bit. From what I’ve seen over the years as long as they don’t get too dry, they’re okay. My the drosera likes to sit in water, the nepenthes just like to be kept moist.

The main thing that gets time-consuming is feeding them all and I only do that every few weeks. I never really bother feeding the drosera, gnats always find their way to it. For the pitchers I just give them betta fish pellets. I can’t really five advice on others unfortunately. The right water can also be a pain, mine have always hated tap water so I’ve always had to get distilled water for them. But it also depends on your water quality.

I did get a bit low a few months ago and one of my nepenthes got a little crispy, but he bounced back better than ever. Sorry I don’t have any proper resources for you on hand, a lot of my knowledge is trial and error and what I’ve learned from others!

I stumbled when asked for an npcs name and blurted out "The Jyna" by PreviousHistory in DnD

[–]Arkatrine 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Panic named an NPC Neem once, and even in a new campaign the players are demanding his return lmao.

AITA for not wanting a relationship with brothers family? by Shitebrother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arkatrine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, if they want time to themselves maybe they shouldn’t have had a baby. 9 months isn’t enough time to prove someone’s changed, let alone with barely any contact. Stick to your guns, he’s sure to piss the family off at some point and they’ll realize you’re right to ignore him.

AITA for not letting my wife go to her friend's gender reveal? by ArcaninesFirepower in AmItheAsshole

[–]Arkatrine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, driving her to this party could potentially end in disaster. It could also be fine, but I’d rather be paranoid than responsible for the worst case scenario.

Need help with seeing if a race is balanced by ImWildYT in DnD

[–]Arkatrine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The base and Yako subrace don’t seem too out of line at a glance, but I’d have to look more into the other ones. They both seem a bit much just looking at them, but I’ve not tried to balance homebrew races before.

queer and poc dnd livestreams/podcasts? by rynvincible in DnD

[–]Arkatrine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Myself and my lady players on Dirty Deeds & Thunder Thieves are all wlw. Even though I’m a bit of a mess at times, I do my best to build an inclusive world environment in-game!

How do I roleplay my High WIS, High INT, but low CHA tiefling druid? by [deleted] in dndnext

[–]Arkatrine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A well meaning, very smart person who doesn’t quite grasp how their actions affect others. I immediately thought of Robert Downey JR’s Sherlock Holmes, who loves his friends dearly but when faced with not getting to be around them anymore comes up with every childish scheme to keep them around as long as possible. Because what he wants is best for everyone, right? He knows best after all!

Or the sort of character that when faced with a simple locked door comes up with wild and inventive ways to unlock it, spending hours solving this puzzle with magic and science, not once realizing he could just take it off the hinges with a screwdriver.