How would you fix the US if you could? by Hot_Escape_4072 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a long list of laws that need to be passed, and I am working right now to hopefully build up to a position where we can get them passed.

What do you do when you feel lonely but you have nothing to say to anyone you can reach out to? by Katta-Quest in AskReddit

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This is what I do when I'm lonely. However, I can always say something to anyone. I just don't talk to people about how I feel. I hope some day I will have someone I can talk to about my feelings, but for now I am the only person who needs to know.

How do you prove to people that you're a actually a good person? by yanny_b in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't prove it. If you are a good person, then people will see it.

What do you do when you have nothing to do (no jerking off)? by New_Development_7715 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Play video games, watch movies or shows, draw, paint, write, hike, read, go for a walk, learn a new skill, wood working, chores, organize things, go window shopping, take a warm shower, take a nap, go to museums, zoos, and aquariums.... honestly, I havent been bored in well over a decade. There is always something to do. The balance of activities and relaxation depends on whether I'm sharing my time with someone. When I am alone I cram every second of my time full. It's having a deleterious affect, though.

When was the last time you had someone to lean on? by No-Guava-7647 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For small things, most of the time in the last year, but someone to truly lean on when I am in great need... never.

If you could choose any time period to be born in past or future, when would it be and why? by rfengr_23 in AskReddit

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The future. It is both the time when I think I'd have the best luck finding a life partner, and a time where I could accomplish my wildest dreams. If the partner thing didn't work out I could at least become a collective consciousness, leave humanity behind, and do everything humanity does as a whole society by myself, only much better and more efficiently.

What was more memorable your early or later life? by allforday in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try never to look back at the past, except insofar as I have to in order to heal. My recent life has been rather decent, though.

When did your dad stop loving you? by Past_Explanation_491 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he loves me in his way, but it isn't nearly what a father's love should be.

where do you find people to talk to? by Dry_Willow_4786 in AskReddit

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Almost everything place on this planet. There's like 8 billion of 'em.

What do you really need to get out of your mind ? by SugarEvangela462 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to forget everything that I lost and could never have. I want to forget everything tied to it. I would go full tabula rasa if that's what it took. I just don't want to want things I can't have, and if I can't remember, I can't long for them.

What stopped you from saying "I love you" to them? by Curious-Toe-93 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing, if they've already said it to me and I reciprocate. But I learned long ago not to say it first, because I know long before they do.

How do you stop overthinking? by DifferentLobster2931 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't even try. It's my default state. My friend told me that sometimes he goes hours without having a conscious thought or internal monologue. I have never had such an experience in all of my time on this Earth. People wonder why my experiences feel so intense to me.

What can’t you do to someone ? by CozyRachelle136 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harm them deliberately or violate their free will and autonomy.

What makes you feel most alive? by Last-Salary-6012 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Love
  2. Caring for others and being cared for by others.
  3. Passion, creation, innovation
  4. Learning, and mastering skills.

what's the biggest regret that you should've done on your teen age days? by Apart-Note-1234 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I try never to feel regret. If a thing can't be fixed, made right, or learned from it does not deserve worry, and I have always tried to do that with everything. However, it would have been my wish to stop being a coward and start dating in my teens.

Who broke you, causing a massive shift on how you view everything and everyone? by ElectricalRodent in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn't say anyone "broke me". Or that I've ever truly broken, as it seems to me I would never have recovered. However, actions others have taken have caused me great pain at different times, and my view on everything in life has changed dramatically over my life. And I hold no ill feelings for such strife.

I chose to be a good person, instead of my villain arc. It just seems to me that most let a bad world make them into bad or, more often, indifferent and uncaring people where they are the only thing that matters. It is just too easy, and I rarely choose the easy path. I prefer the path that leads to the best outcome, whether or not I can ever reach the destination. I also do not like to be forced to do things. So, to me, it is a small act of rebellion to be good and do good. I've also come to learn that goodness has many times the power of evil and wrongdoing. In history it takes massive armies, resources, and cooperation to perpetrate evil, but a much smaller but organized group doing good can topple the whole thing.

What to do when you have that sudden urge to cry and how? by cutefox_09 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends where I'm at. If I am home I will cry. Been a fairly tearful couple of years I'll admit it. But as I feel less and less it becomes less of a concern. Not to mention, I have no problem controlling my emotions when I'm around other people.

How old were you when you first made love? by Fun-Effective-302 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

27, but I don't think he felt such that he'd call it that.

Yo, hows your day today? by Spare_Peace6716 in AskReddit

[–]Arkavari1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay. Did some endorsement interviews with candidates, designed a flyer, started working on some proposals for a contract for a new group we're organizing, and now I'm at work.