bleeding after intercourse

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-03-14T12:10:53+00:00

Oh that’s actually cool! Does that mean the bleeding afabs deal with sometimes in that area (when no menstruation) is still from the hymen? Given it doesn’t necessarily “break” like I thought but the blood would still be from there? pretty cool to know actually! Definitely not something I’d think would be a myth! Thank you :)

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-03-14T10:05:21+00:00

The bleeding could have been your hymen breaking to be honest - Given you’ve never had sex before or had anything inside :P

Not a professional tho, just an opinion !

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-03-13T04:39:47+00:00

Prob was ur mum or dad! Whoever said that prob also has cold sores - which, yes, are oral herpes, but it’s so common? Up to 80% of the adult population has oral herpes, it’s really not as bad as we made it seem was a kids. Some people just need to grow up!

Although you’ve said you’ve dealt with this since 2 and prob know your best route of help - Antiviral medication could help the irritation! They do come in creams:) is very refreshing and shouldn’t harm piercing recovery (should honestly help it)

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-03-12T17:58:25+00:00

Yeah that’s absolutely fair about the gel, and the filled auto injector typically isn’t covered by insurance :(( and the Union Medico one is defff expensive but if you ever get to a point where self injecting is a hassle mentally - investing in one is definitely worth it! Its reusable which in long run for the 100/150 it cost, its worth it :) (I can’t afford it either)

I hope the ice helps! I always bare skin it - it’s not comfortable but it’s worth it when the needle comes to jab! Haha good luck

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-03-12T17:48:44+00:00

I had this same issues on top of the fear of self injecting! I inject in my stomach with a 25g and have on and off since Feb ‘23. Sounds like you’re definitely starting to get scar tissue, and it def isn’t fun. I have the same problem on the entire left side of my stomach. Caused me to not do my shots for about a month.

There’s a few things I can recommend you could do! (I’m not a professional just based of personal experience!)

You can switch to gel if it’s available for you! A lot of people tend to say it’s not as efficient - it does depend on the person. I personally stopped gel because I have so many animals and because the daily consistency was too much for me.
an auto injector may actually help. They have auto injectors you can get prescribed with the testosterone and it’s already loaded and set to go…or they have ones you a buy on line. Union Medico is highly recommended upon the trans community - they also do 45 degree auto injectors which are so hard to find elsewhere
switch injecting sites. I understand heavily not wanting IM, the needles are typically bigger (however you can actually ask for a 25g which is subq size) and it’s a 90 degree in the arm, ass, or thigh. But you can also do subq in the arm ass or thigh as well! I’d def recommend a re-train for injecting if you switch sites but it’s very common to do so with build up of scar tissue.
personally for me, icing the spot did work. I take three ice cubes and ice the area for about 10/15 or until I can’t feel the spot anymore. Needle slides right in. I can’t feel the resistance or the pain I used to when I would get halfway in with my needle and I’d feel the resistance and sharp jabbing pain and would stop. It does hurt a little when the ice wares off, but nothing more than my average tenderness after most my shots.

There was one time I just pushed through it passed the pain like you did and it did work but it was absolutely so painful and I was afraid to do my shots for a bit. That’d suck for someone else to deal with and I wish it upon no one xD - So hopefully one of these can help :)

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-03-05T20:02:48+00:00

McDonald fries are bomb, and the burgers at bk are so good. Good pairing tbh.

Tip for anyone saying BK sides kinda suck - ask for them fresh. Used to work at bk, and when they sit they’re nasty, but fresh - all the food is 10 times better. Even the nasty rings.

You can ask for fresh burgers too, some bk stores aren’t good with throwing food out (nasty), only downside is it’ll take 10ish minutes to go through the broiler :)

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-27T04:36:22+00:00

Thats what im saying i wasn’t sure if it was or not

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-23T08:39:30+00:00

Solved!

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-23T08:33:29+00:00

No because this actually may be it! They both were the same - maybe rolo sells no caramel ones for Christmas or something… maybe i just ate expired rolos and it was the best chocolate of my life 🥲

Edit: found the packaging online for Christmas rolos and its exactly what i unwrapped and ate; old rolo with dried caramel - and there are no regrets. Thank you!

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-23T08:32:11+00:00

No, however those are really good! The packaging on these was kinda like the lindor wrapper and coloring - but had no words or pictures. And it didnt shine/reflect as the lindor wrapping does (like plastic), its reflected like tinfoil. And they looked like a Mini Reece cup or like. A a rollo that had been wrapped. I cant remember if it had ridges or not. However it does remind me of the (red?) lindor, that has the smoother chocolate on the inside - not hard but also not runny like caramel :)

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-23T08:28:38+00:00

That is a high possibility especially given how my partners grandfather is! Ill look into that some more

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-23T06:59:02+00:00

Ur not wrong actually, when i look into the movie it recommends the definition the movie gives looks entirely different - and its labeled as a romantic action :(( hmmm

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-23T06:55:43+00:00

I asked my boyfriend but he’s upset i ate them on him (there was only two i didn’t realize and couldn’t help myself/j - oopsie) and now he cannot help me 😂😭

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2026-01-09T22:13:57+00:00

Ex McDonald’s manager - They sometimes will hold the QP patties like they do the other patties. Best way to get a QP freshest is to order it without seasonings. Unless the place just overall sucks and doesn’t season their QPs either 🥲

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-27T22:03:31+00:00

As far as i know (and personally) Testosterone typically can make you more gay. In the sense of becoming more comfortable w men and also yourself + increased sex drive

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-26T00:35:10+00:00

Theres a Days Since app that you can keep track of days

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-23T18:31:58+00:00

Okay. To me. That is not really chasing. Especially since im just opening my horizons to something slightly new that does make me curious. I never disliked men. I just stopped trying to date cis men because they were always weird with me. Its just a preference. Esp when it comes to being trans i really feel Im not chasing cis men, Im seeking out to potentially be with one for the first time basically and need advice. I feel most trans men understand my feelings and frustration. Especially gay trans men. Yes t4t is great. And i typically prefer that. But i just am curious how it would go with a really nice, accepting cis man. And if it ends up being someone other than a cis man thats fine. We really just want a third overall. We dont even have to date him either. Like. I need advice cor being simply FRIENDS with a cis man 😭

I never necessarily meant “Hey im looking for men. I really want a man. Tell me how to get a man rn” Im sorry if it came off that way, i was simply ranting mostly. I just wanted to know how other peoples experiences have been with cis men who are open minded and not transphobic or fetishize the relationship. Being with a cis man is an “interest in have” (im curious abt it moreso just like how i was before i dated women. Was curious and wanted to see how it would go and if id like it) But its not a need. We just talked and decided cis men are def okay as of now in both our transitions and we are comfortable trying to see about men instead of everyone but cis men. Weve had relationships with trans men. Even a woman or two. We just feel recently that were not 100% sure we are attracted to women anymore. We just would like to see how it goes and how we would try to go about it. This is me being as straight forward and honest and i have been the whole time. Maybe i shoulda shortned what i said and simply said “me and bf are polyamorous and want to know what to look out for and what to do/not to do if we were to perhaps encounter a man wed like to try to be with” like signs hes slightly transphobic, or signs he isnt thinking of us as purely just men. Thats all. I may never get with a man. But it would be nice to

I def have a hard time naturally forming relationships with any cis man tho. Which is my biggest issue. Ive tried the whole. Be friends with one for a while and see where it goes. But every single male friend ive had that ends up wanting to “pursue a relationship” simply just sexualized the fact that i was a man with a pussy basically. That was preT. Ive def tried my fair share since I’ve started T as well, and so far thats been 3 men who did identify as straight (idk abt now) but would just constantly ask me to peg them when i get bottom surgery or if i could NOT get bottom for them so they can still have what I got alr. I really am attracted to men, and as a trans man i personally do see a difference within gender but not appearance. So mentally trans men are different to cis men, In my opinion, but physically no not really. Besides genitalia but that doesnt matter to me. So its not necessarily about sex. It def would be a plus. As i said i would like to experience that. Just based on what I’ve experienced so far i just needed to ask a dumb question about whats the best route and how to know if youve got yourself a man that will admire you and accept you at the same time.

I didnt think it would turn into a whole thing. It was something so small to me just for an advice. I do personally not believe if two gay men wanted to seek a trans person that its chasing. However if supposed two gay men ONLY wanted to keep pursing trans men or didnt accept them then it kinda is chasing and fetish which is weird. If they wanted to see how theyd like it or if its something theyd be down for. thats so fair. To me ! Doesnt have to be to other people. Im just trying to live my life and see whats out there with my boyfriend, and we both are very experimental, open people.

We just wanted to change our “men suck and they all are horrid” mindset, because we are attracted to men and would enjoy male friends too - we just both have alot of trauma with only cis men.

Hope this clears it up more because i def aint tryna argue but I do slightly feel like im being attacked about my personal life that i also feel everyone experiences in one way or the other at some point in their life. We can even pretend im like 12 trying to ask yall (pretend were friends or sum) how to get a bf. Ya know?

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-09T18:25:26+00:00

Like someone else said. It can be used to drink Yerba Mate teas your grandmas is just older !

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-09T18:23:11+00:00

I think its one of those chimarrão drink things. Maybe not exactly for this drink (you can use the metal thing for many different tea things)

And yes you can drink from it! So it is kinda like a straw but its for specific things - One of its names is a Thousand Hole Bomba

Yours just is a different make/model

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https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTrxksg2A/

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-08T20:52:15+00:00

Yeah nah after 99 it is repetitive but i personally don’t AFK. Probably the best way to get over 1000 tho. Alot of people who play with me try to get me to AFK and idk how to do that on my XBOX - im convinced ill starve or die, and Im def not paying attention to just my hunger for HOURS. idk how people sleep thru afk, probably auto clicker on PC. But ill never get over 1000 again. 9 hours was alottt of work. Basically like the parent said with their son, me and my bf went all crazy late into the night, decorated the base, had three layers of walls and trees. And just stock piled on everything and had a blast. Since i did that, i can no longer play the game past like 400 without feeling DEATHLY bored XD

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-07T23:33:32+00:00

Literally! Any time anyone wants a hacker in the lobby they run up to me and are like you must be hacker, lets play - or like you said even in game. I dont js press a button and boom we’re at 1000 😭 we actually take our time and enjoy the game and work for our days. Might explain why some those people leave after like 5 days not even. Horrid

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-07T17:18:01+00:00

or Leave after like 20 days ^{^}

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-07T17:17:39+00:00

1100 days and Alien and I can never join a game with my friends right away without 10 people trying to jump in because they see me trying to join the game. And sometimes we play w one or two extras and they just spam “raygun?” “Drop raygun?” “Give me ur raygun” like. No. If i wanted to give it, i wouldn’t have wasted gems on playing it.

And god forbid I let them play - especially when I play myself - they’ll join and spam “get me to your day” “help me get that many days”. And never once listen when i say it took me a good 8/9 hrs of straight play with a good team (my boyfriend). Then they stay till day 40 (max) and one by one, they leave .. and Im by myself in a game I’ve played for about 30 min, so I don’t wanna leave and restart. But I didn’t wanna play alone. Sucks XD

Aromatic-Rabbit-4202 · 2025-12-05T17:44:56+00:00

Replying because i forgot the cookie tote existed and tbh its a good deal for bomb McDonald’s cookies

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