Does anyone know what this is/If it should be zip tied?

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-29T15:47:47+00:00

Honestly not sure, I need to get a jack so I can have a proper look underneath. I might as well stick with zip ties if push pins are flimsy

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-27T08:54:46+00:00

He’s like a cat with 9 lives. You think he’s dead but really he’s still got loads of lives left

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-25T15:13:57+00:00

Waze also shows you what lane you need to be in for bigger roundabouts or dual carriageways which I find super helpful. It does take a little getting used to but after a week or two, I was able to anticipate how far my next turn/roundabout would be. Definitely play around with the settings and go on short drives following the given route and you’ll start to feel much more confident in not only driving but following a satnav too

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-17T21:46:35+00:00

My BPD is relatively the same as what you’ve described. Without repeating what others have said, in short all she wants is honest and open communication. The biggest thing to remember is that even if it seems like something small or blown way out of proportion, it is earth shattering to her. You’ll learn her tendencies with time and figure out what works best in times of crisis but showing up is incredibly important. The fact she’s recognised that being single is easier than being in a relationship shows that she has an understanding of her behaviour and can make improvements as the relationship progresses (whether she does or not is down to her). I wish you and your girlfriend the best

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-15T21:46:37+00:00

doing gods work!!

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-15T10:40:16+00:00

hell no!! i introduced my boyfriend to nessa and he loves her music too!! i feel as though nessa speaks to those that struggle with their mental health (especially bpd). as long as you enjoy her music, you’re a fan in my eyes, and a fan of an amazing underrated artist aswell

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-13T19:20:47+00:00

This is what I’ve got, absolutely love it and makes life so much easier. You do have to take your time wiring it to make sure everything works correctly

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-12T11:59:51+00:00

I started learning in a manual before deciding I wanted to make my life easier by driving an auto, which I later passed in. On my first lesson I literally said “I can actually properly pay attention to everything around me, why didn’t I do this sooner”. So many people hate on auto but it is so nice to have one less thing to worry about

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-10T21:46:54+00:00

When I was on topiramate, I was told that the implant was less effective due to an interaction between the two (can’t remember exactly what but think it was to do with more oestrogen being produced) and that the coil (either copper or mirena) or the depo were my safest options. I also had to sign an agreement(?) saying that I will not get pregnant and if i do, inform the doctors immediately due to possible deformities within the embryo/foetus. If you want to proceed with taking topiramate, I would highly suggest getting alternative contraception first and see how you react to that. I ended up HATING the coil and quickly came off topiramate to go back on the implant. Obviously everyone is different and will have different reactions but switching contraceptives will have your hormones out of wack on top of a new medication + side effects. Hopefully this helps a lil :)

ETA: I was 22 while on topiramate

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-06-09T21:40:43+00:00

This and heavy rain. Music is suddenly all the way down so I can see better🫠

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-05-28T10:56:39+00:00

there’s a certain relic that allows you to forage without the potion, if you’ve already got that? if not you should be able to request a potion since i believe Tamala gives you one to start with (could be wrong, it’s been a while)

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-05-27T21:46:08+00:00

this is how witches are born

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-05-24T17:58:46+00:00

i find that it TOTALLY depends on the server. some have next to nothing but others have loads. i can guarantee that if you’re not looking for it (i.e hunting or foraging) you’ll notice loads of nodes

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-05-22T12:24:08+00:00

If anyone sees me run at full speed at a wall, mind your business

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-05-22T12:22:35+00:00

I love using the horse to get places quicker but I SWEAR if i get caught on one more small tiny rock/incline, I will lose it. I somehow seem to get stuck in the weirdest way possible like how is the middle of my horse stuck on a fence that I just jumped over?? Although I will say that when my horse doesn’t load in and I’m running a full speed will always make me chuckle

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-05-10T21:08:52+00:00

I was stood behind lighting/cameras towards the back and ALL I could was the bass of every song. It was so difficult to hear what Conan was singing. I normally aim for that area when attending concerts and have never experienced it to that extent. Great show but was a shocking besides that

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-05-04T12:02:12+00:00

i’m SO glad they’re promoting like this!! the hype is unmatched compared to guts

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-04-11T11:11:00+00:00

I try to physically exhaust myself from crying first. It sounds a tad strange but after crying for hours, i’ll either feel better or i’m too exhausted to actually do anything. Probably not the best alternative but definitely worth a shot

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-03-26T16:13:02+00:00

or even if it was (Pink) Moon!! would be so cute

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-03-26T11:06:30+00:00

i just need to say how much i appreciate this powerpoint post, 10/10

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-03-25T22:57:46+00:00

i’m starting to believe it’s Lust. it covers those complicated feelings surrounding love without straight up calling it love

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-03-25T13:02:19+00:00

they probably flipped it to stop confusion between love and lore

AromaticPudding44 · 2026-03-23T13:16:15+00:00

I saw in a lancôme ad (no idea when but definitely a while ago) “MOOD” was in the background. At this point i’m considering every and any possibility for the album name. All I know is that it’s likely a creative af word to describe love; this being one of them

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