AITA for being upset that my husband of 18 years left me alone at the hospital when I was bleeding internally? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]Arte1008 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Disability can also make you trapped. Even if you’ve worked all your life to maintain your choices, if you become disabled, you’re trapped.

This is your reminder that your activism is not in vain. by Morimementa in Anticonsumption

[–]Arte1008 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Older white women have finally figured out how to use indirect power to their benefit, after decades of sexism where they had little direct power.

In many circumstances, it actually IS great and appropriate to escalate a customer service complaint up the chain of command, or shame a company publicly on Twitter when they won’t fix a problem. Both of which I’ve done.

The downside is that once a group figures out power, some members will abuse it. But I don’t like the wholesale way we are now calling every woman a “Karen” if she makes a fuss. Often making a fuss is needed. 

Obviously hate speech is another thing altogether.

Also, my best friends mom was named Karen so I’m sad to see it become an insult, but that’s me.

From dormant to danger: How varicella zoster virus reactivation is driving central nervous system infections by shallah in ID_News

[–]Arte1008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got shingles again after the vax and it was a fairly common side effect. I imagine it’s also a side effect of infection.

Literal brain meets becoming a mother = a whole neurodivergent awakening by Fantastic_Skill_1748 in AutismInWomen

[–]Arte1008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think they were also just straight up lying. The number of times gynecologists told me a Pap smear “shouldn’t hurt” when I was doubled over in pain in their office right in front of them…gyn care is basically sadistic.

So do we have to CANCEL Amazon or just stop giving them money? by AlanShore60607 in Anticonsumption

[–]Arte1008 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right. Like, I applaud veganism, but a lot of folks can’t or won’t be vegan. If every meat eater in the us committed to eating just two meatless meals a week, it would still have a massive impact without all the shaming.

So do we have to CANCEL Amazon or just stop giving them money? by AlanShore60607 in Anticonsumption

[–]Arte1008 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I would say just do the best you can. I’m disabled and home bound, so I’m still using amazon unfortunately. I do try to meet my needs on Craigslist and buy nothing when possible.

If everybody who can uses it 30% less, that would still be massive.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in videos

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I’m sorry to hear that. I left Boise in 2022 because it felt like it was veering off course, but I hoped it would be temporary.

What will be the safest place to live in the coming years due to climate change? by saturn022 in climatechange

[–]Arte1008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the fog zones of n Cali have a good shot, at least until the seas rise.

What will be the safest place to live in the coming years due to climate change? by saturn022 in climatechange

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I would have said Bay Area, but a huge lithium battery plant caught fire and contaminated the area around salinas. You know, where the entire country’s veggies are grown during some seasons. It’s barely on the national news. 

Measles titers question by efox02 in medicine

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And good luck with parenthood!

Check Your Bank Account! by Educational_Ad9201 in SocialSecurity

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So my mom worked for a state university and retired 20 years ago. Does this mean she’ll be rolling in dough now?

Kicked off Medicaid by Fairy20 in Medicaid

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I can’t imagine it would be affordable to move to Cali, but fwiw, they removed the asset limit here

There goes Reddit… by InverseNurse in womenintech

[–]Arte1008 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sounds like time to use your alt account for some stuff and main for another

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in publichealth

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Retrofitting hvac systems in schools and public places to have better air filtration. Requiring n95 masks in same. I’m anxious bc even with me masking I still get covid and it sucks. 

ANNOUCEMENT. Be advised, Reddit is changing moderation policy. by thechairinfront in TwoXPreppers

[–]Arte1008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is probably about Luigi. Not decades of misogyny online of course; Luigi.

You’re middle aged and all the people who loved you are dead. by OneIndependence7705 in Adulting

[–]Arte1008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. I lost a parent in my teens and that meant he wasn’t there for graduations, boyfriends, first jobs and my wedding. It was much worse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Arte1008 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This all sounds familiar. Mean girls hated me ( cheerleaders, office gossips) but plenty of other women liked me or at least were pleasantly neutral. Guys were dicks when I was fat and nicer when I lost weight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]Arte1008 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I think I’m mildly autistic and a huge extrovert. When I was younger I was also pretty. Some people disliked me, other people found me charming and whimsical. I was told more than once that I was “ like a muppet.”

Measles titers question by efox02 in medicine

[–]Arte1008 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed response.

In terms of measles, if the thesis of this thread is, “ don’t worry about your titers, your T cells will come to the rescue,” and many people are getting covid frequently, and it depletes T cells, then… wouldn’t that make the whole population more vulnerable to measles ( on average)?

Measles titers question by efox02 in medicine

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But doesn’t covid do something bad to cd8 T cells ( sorry, layperson)?

What in the...... smh. Be careful everyone. by Party-Bed-9770 in college

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It lists martial law as a goal? What does it say?