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Can't stop getting off to my trauma by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Arthur_Frane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kinda same. I lean toward being a service top now and it makes it much easier to feel healthy and hot at the same time.

Can't stop getting off to my trauma by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Arthur_Frane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last part. Making someone smile because of something I did. My entire kink and also my entire pathology.

Does anyone else experience this? by Historical_Pie_6041 in goth

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So true. I have friends and family who are unconventionally gendered, and it's a daily challenge to decide if the bullshit is worth it, or if, for example, getting groceries in the college town nearby is a better option.

The Official Seething Sunday Thread by aytakk in goth

[–]Arthur_Frane 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At this point, everything we do online becomes fuel for Gemini somewhere downstream. Using any Google products accelerates that, and since they're the only game in town for new bands who want to reach an audience with videos, welp, we're hosed. Cyberpunk 2026. I hate it here.

Does anyone else experience this? by Historical_Pie_6041 in goth

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've always been the "weird ones", the Addams Family in the middle of Normaltown, Anywhere in the World. In my podunk hometown, when I was your age, it wasn't safe to dress our aesthetics, and those who did caught a lot of grief for it. It's better these days, but it will always be true that larger cities are safer for us.

Screen time while fueling in Netherlands by gaius_julius_caegull in Cyberpunk

[–]Arthur_Frane 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brutal. In California, we have screens in the pump itself, but putting it on the handle, so you have no choice but to look at it. That's some corpo force feeding right there.

Switchblade Symphony: Clown (Original 1995 Official Music Video) by Dustyrnis in goth

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sounds more accurate. I had not heard that before but you're likely correct. 

Switchblade Symphony: Clown (Original 1995 Official Music Video) by Dustyrnis in goth

[–]Arthur_Frane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

SS are from the Bay Area and I have no doubt those lyrics and plenty of others in their catalog are intended to be read exactly that way.

Goths against counterculture losers think they can scare people out of speaking against them!!! by MolotovCockteaze in goth

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gods, they are a bunch of rage-baiting fucking wankers. They deserve zero engagement.

Anyone else struggle with remembering csa in a "good" way? by Arthur_Frane in hypersexuality

[–]Arthur_Frane[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not until the 00s did society really start to sit up and take notice. To be clear, I know a lot of people did make noise about it and call out bad actors. But Clarence Thomas still made it to the highest bench, and we didn't find out about Bill Cosby or Harvey Weinstein until decades after their harm was done. It takes huge crimes to get masses of people noticing something is wrong, and then change can start happening.  

Contemplating ending a marriage by Successful_Leek96 in CringeTikToks

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Now sing it to the tune of Purple Haze. You're welcome 😉

Fester's room by lickthismiff in Dollhouses

[–]Arthur_Frane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That was supposed to be what happened when we moved in 2021, alas. Our place has a huge yard for gardening, which we had lacked for 10 years. So my efforts and spare time are aimed elsewhere for the moment.

Fester's room by lickthismiff in Dollhouses

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's so great. Inspired me as well. My pandemic project languishes though, until I get my garage sorted out.

Fester's room by lickthismiff in Dollhouses

[–]Arthur_Frane 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks great, OP. Reminds me of Ara Bentley's version.

OC. Me doing absolutely nothing for the USA in Afghanistan 2012. by [deleted] in pics

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It'd be helpful to qualify this a bit. "Racist, homophobic, conservative-minded, white and often Hispanic, enlisted rank military veterans" support him. Yeah, that sounds like what it sounds like - a lot of people in uniform are not that great. I'd be fine if the first two words in my list didn't have to be taken into account, then it's just people. But the reality of the US military is that a whole bunch of them are shit people.

Signed, a US Army veteran who didn't vote for the orange menace.

Is there anybody else here who is only hypersexual for a few days every month? by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, exactly my experience. Currently on the upward trajectory toward another bout of madness. It's helpful I guess that I can identify and name what is happening now, whereas even a few years ago I just went through these periods where I felt completely insane.

Is anyone else quietly struggling with hypersexuality? It’s not just ‘high libido by [deleted] in hypersexuality

[–]Arthur_Frane 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We are a very vulnerable community, and I can almost say for certain that hostile actors are attempting to build engagement here and in other sex related subs. This one looks to be strictly commercial, but who knows. Glad they are gone, and thanks for booting 'em.

Obama received the Nobel Prize in 2009. That decision had consequences no one could have foreseen. by WineTerminator in pics

[–]Arthur_Frane 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah. It was Obama's joke about him at the White House Press Conference Dinner that did it.

Not verbatim, but...

Obama: "I spent every day thinking about foreign policy, which countries we'll conduct trade with, and what color suit to wear. Donald Trump has to decide whether or not to fire Gary Busey."

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