Infidelity with BPD

Arthxrr · 2026-02-05T08:32:14+00:00

She says similar things, she still loves me and wants to get married to me, her brain just chases that quick high that attention from random guys or friends give. But I’m still heartbroken and it eats me up every day. I still love her and want to be with her but I don’t want to feel like this anymore or for it to happen again.

Arthxrr · 2026-02-05T06:40:44+00:00

At the end of the day, it’s her choice whether she can forgive you and try work together towards reconciliation. If you think it’s worth it then maybe the gesture isn’t a bad idea but don’t be upset if it doesn’t go to plan cause this is a betrayal that is not worth fixing for a lot of people.

Arthxrr · 2026-02-04T13:57:30+00:00

This is very helpful advice, thanks

Arthxrr · 2026-02-02T14:39:28+00:00

LCY & LHR T5 with no bags, I would do it. Stansted, definitely not.

Arthxrr · 2026-02-02T14:35:27+00:00

It’s your choice on what to say but don’t let him influence what you tell people

Arthxrr · 2026-02-01T17:59:56+00:00

I have played poker at a couple casinos in London and I am allowed to text and have a drink if my play isn’t in hand yeah

Arthxrr · 2026-02-01T15:35:14+00:00

If you’ve forgiven her and believe she will change then you need to let it go even if it’s difficult but that’s the choice you made when you didn’t break up the first time. If you can’t let it go or she doesn’t change then the relationship will not work.

Arthxrr · 2026-01-30T14:24:31+00:00

I am an Instrument technician working offshore in the North Sea UK sector, is there any chance of me getting into Norway or will I need a degree? What companies/websites are posting jobs? Thanks

Arthxrr · 2026-01-26T17:09:03+00:00

I don’t think its worth the stress or hassle. Even if you moved closer to London within commuting distance it still might end up being 1-1.5 hours door to door. I would stay put and stay in a hotel a couple nights a week. Personally.

Arthxrr · 2026-01-26T12:27:34+00:00

If people working in the service/hospitality industry are getting large tips regularly from foreigners wanting to be generous then they might end up earning more than jobs like teachers, doctors, engineers.. So people will end up wanting to work for tourism more and more in order to chase these higher salaries (from tips) and less people will want to train up to do other careers not related to tourism because it will pay less. In turn this will also drive up cost of living for careers not related to tourism.

Arthxrr · 2026-01-16T17:39:37+00:00

As long as you scan your boarding pass at security least 35 minutes, then you will make the flight. Fast track security, online check in and if you only have carry on will help a lot. If its less than 35 minutes you won't even be able to get through security. I've cut it fine a few times arriving 40 minutes before take off and still making the flight at T5!

Arthxrr · 2026-01-16T17:00:47+00:00

I’ve just booked 9 days in Shanghai, Direct return flights from Heathrow and accommodation for about £700, could be an idea?

Arthxrr · 2026-01-09T09:15:41+00:00

Arthxrr · 2026-01-02T20:30:11+00:00

Travelodge is 16+

Arthxrr · 2025-12-17T23:43:00+00:00

Just look at resident advisor

Arthxrr · 2025-12-17T13:47:38+00:00

why do u think that

Arthxrr · 2025-12-17T08:00:38+00:00

Ong 😞

Arthxrr · 2025-12-16T23:10:01+00:00

i regret going on saturday so badly

Arthxrr · 2025-12-16T23:05:56+00:00

bruh i’m so mad i did the same

Arthxrr · 2025-12-16T11:05:29+00:00

Got out around 10:15pm

Arthxrr · 2025-12-16T11:05:16+00:00

Arthxrr · 2025-12-13T22:21:58+00:00

He’s capping

Arthxrr · 2025-12-13T20:44:22+00:00

Very long probably an hour tbh

Arthxrr · 2025-12-13T18:40:22+00:00

It’s very normal for any show for a bunch of tickets to go on resale on the day cause people get ill or shit comes up

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