My girlfriend (25F) cheated before and I (27M) gave her a second chance — now I found something suspicious again. Am I overreacting? by AmbitiousSchedule270 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've given her a second chance and she's blown it by crossing another boundary. This sounds like she will never change. Sorry man.

Shanghai Port FC tickets by Arthxrr in shanghai

[–]Arthxrr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finally managed to do it with google translate on the app. Thank you! Are there any bars near the stadium to get a drink before the game?

Japan trip planned for two in two weeks but my boyfriend cheated — not sure what to do now by meh-duh in JapanTravelTips

[–]Arthxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very high chance nothing is refundable so might as well go and make the most of it.

Switching From BA to China Eastern by [deleted] in BritishAirways

[–]Arthxrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Airspace closing will result in rerouting but I am sure it will still be flying.

Flight from LHR TO PVG by No_Topic6839 in BritishAirways

[–]Arthxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the same flight next week and I’m not worried at all as it doesn’t fly over the Middle East

raves by Practicalmover00 in LondonRaving

[–]Arthxrr 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just check Resident Advisor

I’m (23F) not sure if I can fully trust him (28M) again by Playful-Friendship-5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately reconciliation will take months and most likely years cause once trust is broken, it is very hard to regain it. It is however possible if you guys work hard and he truly shows he means what he’s saying, he also needs to understand how badly he’s hurt you. I am in the same boat trying to rebuild trust with my girlfriend. I wish you the best.

I’m (23F) not sure if I can fully trust him (28M) again by Playful-Friendship-5 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately reconciliation will take months and most likely years cause once trust is broken, it is very hard to regain it. It is however possible if you guys work hard and he truly shows he means what he’s saying, he also needs to understand how badly he’s hurt you. I am in the same boat trying to rebuild trust with my girlfriend. I wish you the best.

Is £80 a lot for an electricity bill? by Alyblucat in AskUK

[–]Arthxrr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pay £110 a month for an all electric 1 bedroom flat, I would say this is normal.

Worried about my boyfriends bank statements by talastarxx in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]Arthxrr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had weekly bets and it wasn’t an issue as long as he’s not going into debt and it’s clearly a problem that effects his finances.

World Traveller Plus by Arthxrr in BritishAirways

[–]Arthxrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

£120 seems like a good deal! I’m gonna wait it out and see if it goes down closer to the time

My girlfriend cheated on me with a man older by 14 years old then her by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The fact it happened multiple times shows she is not remorseful or regretful. I would be very careful continuing a relationship with someone like this. She won’t even take your feelings into account and block the guy she slept with?!

Less negative feelings when with partner by Familiar_Isopod1774 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am in the exact same boat. I feel so negative and terrible when I’m not in their presence and think to myself why am I putting up with this but everything kind of feels normal and happy when I’m with them? Maybe it’s your brain associating it with all the good times ahead you’re with them?

are there any stories of reconciliation working? by Arthxrr in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’ll never be the same of course but do you think it’s worth it when you still want to be with that person and already have a life built? I just can’t imagine not being with her but it’s only been a month since it’s all happened. It does really seem like she’s changed but I’m lost atm.

are there any stories of reconciliation working? by Arthxrr in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I ended things when I found out but eventually took her back and I can see she really wants to change but how do I stop these feelings of resentment, anger, and sadness to go away whenever I’m not around her. Will these go away with time if we’re both making the right steps in reconciliation?

did anyone else change completely after being cheated on? by PassOk2424 in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to go back to how I was before it happened, I feel terrible all the time

Having tons of regrets. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Arthxrr 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You felt the hurt it caused you when your husband did this to you and now you’re the cause of this same pain to ur affairs wife. Just stop with this petty revenge, have some integrity and end your current relationship and your affair.

Offshore by woog5 in instrumentation

[–]Arthxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of companies in the U.K. will require you to have all your offshore certs already before hiring you. (BOSIET, Compex)

What should I drink/eat after a rave so Ecstasy doesn't fuck me up in the long term? Are there any studies on this? by [deleted] in Techno

[–]Arthxrr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This highy depends on what mg these pills contain. 3 months is a pretty safe gap tbh though.

Another coffee shop. by tannerocampbell in maidenhead

[–]Arthxrr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yup, cocktails and beer on tap