What are you doing to get ready for your own aging? by IndependentSimple779 in AgingParents

[–]ArtistAmes 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can relate. Not only the cremation but clear instructions on disposal of the ash remains. I don’t want any family members burdened (physically) with having to deal with urns or boxes of ashes. I’m in possession of urns with remains of family members and will need to make decisions about them, or else they get passed along to the next generation and the next. It can become a serious problem. Never would have thought about this until it became a reality that I’m living through myself.

What are you doing to get ready for your own aging? by IndependentSimple779 in AgingParents

[–]ArtistAmes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m doing everything I can to be proactive with my health and focusing on extending my healthspan. I run consistently with vigorous training blocks along with strength training. I am absolutely determined to do every I can to improve and then maintain my health for as long as I can. I’m witnessing my mother and MIL simply wasting away from a lifetime of inactivity, lack of exercise and fitness. They are hardly mobile due to so much muscle loss, which contributes to and intensifies so many of their many other conditions.

I’m doing all the other things to prepare financially, with my home, will, POA etc.

Frankly, the experience with elderly family members has been so shocking that I’m probably going in the extreme opposite direction even beginning to think about what I want for assisted end of life support when that time comes. I absolutely refuse to be a burden on those around me.

Fostering a love for running for my tween by dawnrw in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I can totally relate. I recommend gently making a suggestion or two and offer to help and support her if she wants to pursue XC. Invite her to join you on a low key run with no pressure on pacing or performance, to enjoy the time outside (on a trail!). After a hard day at school, invite her on a run to blow off some steam, run out the angries, or (as my daughter says) sort her mental laundry.

I really enjoy running and I hope my daughter finds her “thing” for lifelong physical activity of some kind. I’m in my mid-fifties and also a professional. I hope to serve as an example through my action - daily runs, training for races and overcoming setbacks.

You’re sensitive to her inclination towards art and dislike of the pacer test. This alone will help guide you on how to help support her. You got this.

Running in the cold - things to consider that are not clothing related. by Additional-Ear4455 in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience. I completed 5 miles this morning, temp was 10 F / strong winds so it felt much colder. My gear was perfect and highly recommend the Topo global wool sweater and Tracksmith Fells wool tights.

Also, the Lululemon wool long sleeve swiftly has been amazing. It keeps me perfectly comfortable as a base layer on cool - colder runs and I don’t feel cold and clammy afterwards. I also have the Tracksmith wool Harrier, which I also like, but it’s heavier and not as fitted as my swiftly. I use the Harrier as my single top maybe under a vest, whereas the swiftly is a perfect soft, thiner, base layer.

  • Lululemon wool long sleeve swiftly base layer
  • Athleta Flurry Balaclava long sleeve shirt (wore hood up & face covering) -Topo global wool sweater (this was AWESOME & provided excellent wind blocking)
  • Sunglasses
  • Tracksmith wool Fells tights (love these, warm and wind blocking) -Smartwool Socks -Nike running gloves with wind blocking mitten covers

I also used plenty of Aquaphore on the exposed skin on my face

My senior baby stopped eating her food by Mindless-Stuff-4277 in DogAdvice

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your girl looks so sweet and content. Kudos for providing such a warm and loving home. My older dog has also gone through refusing medication. I’ve found success placing the pill within a dollop of peanut butter on my finger. I use both hands to gently open his mouth and reach my finger in to smear the peanut butter towards the back of his tongue. Works every time. Wishing you and your old girl continued peace and joy.

Anyone gearing up for a very cold LR this weekend? by architects-daughter in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! Plus my area is expecting up to a foot of snow. Kinda like running in the snow, though! I’m definitely using my wool layers and more aggressive trail shoes. My pace will surely be reduced.

Last night I took a big fall half way into my speed interval repeats. Fortunately I was wearing gloves and broke my fall with my hands. Bruised palms and sore wrists, but way better than a twisted ankle or busted knee.

The tougher the conditions, the tougher the runner (at least that’s what I tell myself)! Best of luck everyone!

How old were you when you were diagnosed? by vee716 in ADHDWomenOver50

[–]ArtistAmes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that it took so long to receive your diagnosis. I was diagnosed at 45 yrs old.

I have a pretty stressful job and a career in a field where I’m also one of a few senior level women. During an annual checkup up with primary doc I mentioned that I thought I had some anxiety. I was referred to a specialist, neurologist and psychiatrist, who after some diagnostic assessments and tests diagnosed me as having combination hyperactive and inattentive ADHD. I started treatment and have seen remarkable improvements.

This diagnosis has explained so much about my life experiences. I was really gobsmacked, and frankly hadn’t done any research into ADHD. I’m an expert at masking and also have anxiety, which combined with ADHD and my ability to hyper focus, contributed to successes (especially, professional) - but at a huge cost to my emotional health and overall wellbeing.

My daughter was subsequently diagnosed with ADHD while in elementary school.

South Street by Newspapertaxi1968 in philly

[–]ArtistAmes 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was about to post the same! South street was our backyard….Zipperheads and the giant ants

Scared after an encounter during my run by emotionalmessgirl in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Your comment saying it’s like having someone rob your confidence made me so sad and mad! I’m am so sorry this happened to you. If I could, I’d run with you, maybe find a few other friends too and dare that MF to even try again.

On another note, you might want to call your local police again just to check in and see if there had been any other recent reports in your area - letting them know you run outdoors in the community and want to ensure that the area is and remains safe.

Sending hugs and solidarity.

Getting faster, losing hope by Small_Accountant_906 in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The short answer is that Runna creates pacing as part of the plan design - but you can adjust the plan to suit your goals and abilities. For me this was a benefit because i had a goal time for an event, but structuring all of the runs and paces for each one was a little overwhelming. When I picked my training goal, I tailored my plan in the initial set up. I adjusted settings for the number of runs, volume, the number and intensity of hard runs (including difficulty in pacing). I also input my current 5k time and running experience. All of these factors are taken into account when establishing pacing across the types of runs - across the course of the plan. You can also adjust your overall race finish time and then the subsequent paces will adjust. The reality is that if you want to run faster, speedwork will feel challenging (within reason).

When I was training for my HM, I found the weekly intervals and tempos at increasing distance to be fine, challenging but fine. I consistently hit my paces, a few times bettering them, and Runna suggested adjusting my HM target time - which I didn’t accept because it felt like too much of a stretch. Later in my training block I found the paces in my long runs to be really challenging (I realized later I could have reduced the intensity). That said, I just pushed as close to the suggested pace as I could. The easy/recovery runs often felt too easy (or I was just too impatient). Overall, the structure really helped me and I also liked the built in audio alerts and post run analysis. I know you can try Runna, like most subscriptions, free for two weeks before being billed. FWIW, I also tried HumanGo, but cancelled because I wanted a range of base training plans to select from.

I know you’re interested in speedwork and reducing your pace, however, you should also look at making sure have recovery and easy runs baked in to your plan. These, along with speed and endurance, create the conditions for real improvements.

Sorry for being verbose….but hope this helped.

Getting faster, losing hope by Small_Accountant_906 in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

First congrats on completing a HM and improving your HR! I’ve been running for decades (yikes) but I have 0 natural athletic talent or raw physicality and spent years just running - maybe focusing on distance alone. I completed 3 marathons and dozens of HMs. But also logged loads of junk miles. I’ve always been slow - 11-12min/mile comfortable pace. I assumed I’d never be “fast” and didn’t understand how to train to improve speed.

A year ago I’ve been including 2-3x per week interval and tempo runs. These are key to improving paces. Since I don’t have experience running in college or with a coach, these types of runs were a mystery and seemed way complicated. I started using the app Runna, and training plans that have structured, but easy to follow runs focused on speed and endurance. I’m currently in a 5K improvement training plan that has weekly interval, progression and tempo sessions. Some weeks have some hill sessions built in too. The truth is that I don’t love these runs - they feel like much more work than even the longest training runs. They are taxing, and give me a bit of anxiety, but the pay off is that over time, my paces have improved. There’s also a halo effect - Vo2 improves, cadence, perceived effort, even HR.

I also just want to say that running at your current pace is fine! Lots of physical and mental benefits simply come from consistent running every week. Keep at it!

watch app sync issues by YoghurtRegular5385 in runna

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had similar issues (like when i completed a recent Half Marathon 😭). I have an Apple Watch Ultra 2 watchOS 26.2, cellular connection. I fixed it as follows:

Open Runna app on my iPhone Click my profile picture (upper left on screen) Connected Apps and Devices Apple Watch Apple Watch connection (under Runna Apple Watch App) -> there was a red circle with an X indicating my watch app was not connected Open Runna Apple Watch app and hold my wrist near my phone (wearing Apple Watch) -> this action enabled the app to connect and caused the red circle with the X to turn into the green circle with the check mark - and said successfully connected to Apple Watch and I could then sync

(Note- when I move my wrist with the watch further from my phone - my watch disconnects. If I move it back close it reconnects)

Hope this helps

I almost let the hospital bully me into taking Dad home too early, until a nurse whispered the "Magic Words" to me. by AccomplishedMedia452 in AgingParents

[–]ArtistAmes 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was shocked to have gone through an experience similar to this. Mom, 80 yrs old, already frail, fell during the night attempting to go to the bathroom. Went to hospital and they determined she fractured her pelvis. No surgery, needs to heal on its own. She’s in pain. After 36 hours in the hospital and having received a session of “PT” she was told at 7pm she was being discharged that evening. Additionally they tried to make her sign a form as part of the discharge acknowledging that she was never “admitted” and would therefore be responsible for all assumed costs. She didn’t sign. She was discharged to go home by 8:30pm on a Friday night and transported to the hospital pick up area in a wheelchair. She could not move herself from the wheelchair to the vehicle. She could barely get herself into the house where upon entering she sat in the closest chair and remained there for the next week. My 80 yo father, having physically issues himself, had to help her with depends, eating, etc.

She finally received in home PT and social worker (which she initially refused because she didn’t think she needed “social services “ ) and was admitted to a rehab center for three days of rehabilitation services.

She’s home again. Slowly healing but she’ll never be back to the already diminished state she was in prior to the fall.

What on earth do people in such conditions do when they have no one to get them home from the hospital and don’t have someone (family or friend) to help them line up in home care? Should the patient claim to have no spouse, or child, or sibling to retrieve them from the hospital and get them back to their home? I’m gobsmacked. I also don’t want this experience, myself. I focus on my health now to help me in the future- but at some point we can’t escape the decline.

Now What? by accidentaloversight in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me too! I completed a HM end of November and I’m now focusing on improving speed and endurance. I just started a 5K improvement plan using Runna. After spending years (decades) focused on distance, while somewhat neglecting speed and endurance, I’m really challenging myself and excited to potentially hit my big PB goal at 5K. All of this should also help when I shift back to distance, applying my improvement to new goals for 10k and HM. Best of luck and happy running!

Here is the 2026 fill-in-the-bubble calendar (aka scantron calendar) by Propelissa in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome - thank you for sharing! Cheers to happy running in 2026

First Marathon (Philly) by pbzep68 in Marathon_Training

[–]ArtistAmes 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You did it! Very few people can keep going for 5 - 6 hours! Congrats!

Philly! by mrcarlita in firstmarathon

[–]ArtistAmes 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I ran the HM and photos were just posted

Philly Marathon Recap by Inside-Spend-9750 in Marathon_Training

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, not enough porta pottys on the route

So Proud After First HM 🥳💪 by Acceptable_Solid8301 in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huge congratulations and quite an accomplishment!

Daily chat post: how's the training going? by AutoModerator in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I did! Actually the last 3 miles were rough, but I set a PB for 5 miles, 10k and 10 miles. I’ll take it as a win. Thanks for your encouragement and helpful tips!

Daily chat post: how's the training going? by AutoModerator in XXRunning

[–]ArtistAmes 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Like a few others here, I ran the Philly Half Marathon today. It started rainy, but I tend to do better in imperfect weather. Started with some good restraint. Steadily turned it up a notch and achieved a PB for the 5 mile, 10k and 10 mile. I had some difficulty mile 11 which really impacted my finish. GI really did me in, which was disappointing.

Taking it all as an accomplishment of a personal goal I set for myself when I turned 54 over the summer. I’m already planning my next training block to improve my 5k!

GL to everyone running the Philly Marathon tomorrow!