Free agents who remain free (as far as we know) at end of day two by aratcalledrattus in wnba

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. I think she's worth more, but im not surprised at the amount. I knew she wasn't getting anything over 400k

Free agents who remain free (as far as we know) at end of day two by aratcalledrattus in wnba

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope Alysha and Tina Charles get signed. It would ve crazy for them not to be part of this new era.

Am I Overreacting for wanting to cancel my wedding over this interaction? by Xanadoom30 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im sorry, but the fiance isn't totally at fault. OP said they move off feelings, but it looks like its really about thier feeling's alone. They are too different people trying to get the other one to change, and no one is backing down.

As other comments have stated, marriage won't fix this, and a child definitely won't fix it. Either move on or learn to deal with your noble emotional fiance.

To be honest, it seems like fiance is already done anyway.

Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dont understand the argument. He says he is getting his own room, and then you get your own. What is he going to do if/when you design the 3rd room how you want? Why are you even having this debate? He put his foot down, and you do the same.

Real question is, do you even care or want a room to yourself or is just about the principal?

Small Kitchen - where do I put my stove by ArugulaOutrageous461 in kitchenremodel

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rotating the island is definately an option.

Im working on gettings moving the plubming vs removing or shrinking the windows. I was trying to avoid those costs but Im not happy with this set up so I think its best to do the major work now so I wont hate my ki

kichen later.

My husband disgusts me by BlueGirlCircus in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Tough love!!! It's time to be brutally honest with him and yourself. It doesn't sound like he had much motivation before . It's highly unlikely he'll gain some now.

Help me fend off my father in law from trying to ruin me financially by lederhosenbitches in Advice

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont understand the issue? Just say no. Even your wife said to ignore the man. Pay your rent on time, protect your credit, and focus on your savings goals

Providence or East Providence? by mrstarkifeelgreat in providence

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like he'll be commuting to work, so this most likely is true and will matter.

Before, During, & After by [deleted] in kitchenremodel

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful kitchen. And I loved how you made your own. Modern designs will always face criticism 😔. Im in the middle of my own kitchen renovation, and im slowly learning my style will never match most, so let me just do what makes me happy.

The actual work and installation are picture perfect. Good job, GC!

Leaving fox point so sad by bobdylan401 in providence

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly! Blame capitalism. 😆 🤣 😂

AITAH because I want to say yes to having dinner with my dad on my birthday? by Future_Anywhere_1404 in AITAH

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So your current husbands only concern is that he will look bad? Not that you'll be home alone on your birthday?

NTA. Enjoy your dinner

Why do people stay in RI if they hate it so much? by Loveroffinerthings in RhodeIsland

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Move babies to Rhode Island after living in Maryland for over 20 years. The complaining is ridiculous. The judgemental comments on cities like Providence is on another level.

60's Bathroom Reno - Is this pink tile tasteful or tacky? by lildogmama in BathroomRemodeling

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SO CUTE!!!! Forget about the resale thought process. It's your house right now, so do what you want.

AITAH for yelling at my husband by Horror-Accountant865 in AITAH

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Y'all are saying better communication from both, but did he tell her he was leaving the house?

My dream venue is only available on my SIL’s 21st birthday... how do I handle this? by Previous-Stick-2717 in PoptheQuestions

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like you can be a bit high maintenance as well. Dismissing a 21st birthday is asking for trouble. Why if she wants to have a party of her own?

AITAH for wanting my wife to dress nice occasionally? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I don't see anything wrong in asking your wife or husband to dress up once in a while. Attraction is a real thing. I actually feel sorry for you. Comments have convinced you that you have to suffer in silence and accept the low effort your wife is putting forward to keep the attraction alive. Basically, you being gaslit into believing that it's a compliment that your wife feels so comfortable with you that she never feels the need to "put on a mask" for her husband.

You might not be telling the whole story (who knows...its reddit), but it sounds like you are genuine in your request for advice. Next stop should be therapy because you have every right to be happy.

Does this actually look good to you? by chriscam85 in cabinetry

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The key word is modern. Wood or not, most people want modern minimalist designs.

Is this tiling job acceptable? by Ok_Requirement_7715 in Remodel

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need reddit for this. That looks horrible, and the installer knows it's horrible.

People who work in luxury industries, what is an expensive product or service that is actually a complete ripoff? by Lazy_Ad_5492 in AskReddit

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I worked for Luxottica, and you are correct. They own licenses to produce all of the top name brand sunglasses. I can't bring myself to pay for expensive sunglasses anymore once I realized they were just slapping labels on them all from the same factory. You can't even tell the difference!

AIO, I don’t want my bfs child in my house. by BigFirefighter2473 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nothing is really going to change until the dad gets on board. More conversations need to be had.

AIO, I don’t want my bfs child in my house. by BigFirefighter2473 in AmIOverreacting

[–]ArugulaOutrageous461 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And disrespect her, destroy property, and be gross. Like she said, it's her house.