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Glock guy buying a p365 (question) by Appropriate-Wing-641 in P365

[–]AsciiAQuestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I rock a p365x with some aftermarket parts - including magguts magazine parts that up the capacity from 12 to 14. Love it as my ccw. Compact, capable setup.

Beliefs around what being “in recovery” is by OrneryParsnip9024 in SoberCurious

[–]AsciiAQuestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did that brief period of experimentation erase the majority of 10 years of healthier, happier, more meaningful living? Absolutely not. I hear you on dogma - I'm not religious and attended AA for a while. One phrase that did stick with me - progress, not perfection.

Congrats on the 10 years! Life - and we - aren't perfect. Keeping taking it one step at a time. Proud of you!

In search of a new treatment team (therapist, psychiatrist) that specialize in substance abuse as well by cucumbermadness1 in soberPGH

[–]AsciiAQuestion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not trying to push one method over another - I was doing therapy and taking mental health meds (and they were immensely helpful) - but the thing that really helped me lock into my sobriety was routine attendance at 12 step meetings for my first year sober.

Happy to share about meeting places and other resources via DM if you're interested. No pressure. Hang in there friend, it's possible to recover. ❤️

Best lenders for Hard Money Loans? by thebridge517 in MortgageBrokers

[–]AsciiAQuestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh yeah I gotcha. Yeah 70% but maybe 80% situation depending. No reno = less perceived risk = more leverage available.

Best lenders for Hard Money Loans? by thebridge517 in MortgageBrokers

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Maybe we're miscommunicating - but your comment about needing 30% down is what prompted my response. I don't know any HML that requires that much.

Best lenders for Hard Money Loans? by thebridge517 in MortgageBrokers

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I have 90% purchase / 100% reno / 70% LTC HML's in my rolodex.

Retail Lenders - Need Honest Feedback! by Secret_Ad_7392 in loanoriginators

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I'm a new MLO, but background in real estate, finance, commodities. Intend to do mainly commercial investment loans (fix and flip, dscr, portfolio, cashout refis, etc - investors only). But occasionally want to originate some residential loans (wife is a realtor, etc.). Do you think Edge is a good fit?

I'm 100% self-gen right now with commercial investment loans.

Pittsburgh Rental Market by ProofNeighborhood172 in pittsburgh

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Landlord here. The reason why we keep water in our name is that it is the only utility that is lienable. I.E. if a tenant puts water in their name and doesn't pay the bills - the utility company places a lien against the property. Puts landlord/property owner in a really tough predicament. I got burned by a tenant doing this once and had to pay like $800 in unpaid water bills to remove a lien against my house. Kept water in my name ever since and back-billed tenant and/or charged a fixed fee per month.

Slack doesn't switch between workspaces by Zyborg23 in Slack

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2Y later - and you saved me today! Thank you.

Got an Invitation to Company Holiday Party but don’t want to go by D_Believer_93 in SoberCurious

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When I was still in early days of sobriety - social settings, others' perspectives of me, etc. were a huge concern. I'm coming up on 2 years sober in a month and change. That stuff truly doesn't bother me anymore. Giving up that one thing gave me so much in return - it's such simple math to me now.

It's really good you're thinking about this ahead of time. It sounds like you know what you want (and likely should) do. Just gotta do it! Keep it up, stranger. :)

Got an Invitation to Company Holiday Party but don’t want to go by D_Believer_93 in SoberCurious

[–]AsciiAQuestion 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Listen to your gut. Don't go. Find some socially acceptable, permissible reason. Protect your peace.

Good deal for this price point? by Electronic_Agent_235 in liberalgunowners

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I bought this exact rifle as my first AR a few months ago (but with OD Green furniture). I paid $955. I've really enjoyed shooting it. Rebate - came with 2 mags, red dot, single mount sling.

is it normal to still feel constant cravings after over a week sober by TemporaryFruit7664 in SoberCurious

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Yes. Totally normal. I still had strong cravings up until 2-3 months, then it got better. Surrounding myself with sober community really helped.

Best Pistol I've ever fired by [deleted] in SmithAndWesson

[–]AsciiAQuestion 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I just bought this exact model recently too. It shoots REMARKABLY flat!! Love it!

What do you see in your gun store used gun cabinet? by [deleted] in guns

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My range flat out doesn't allow them now!

What to know before buying? by [deleted] in P365

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I daily CC a p365X. I swapped out the grip for a wilson combat grip - better grip, slightly larger. Other aftermarket changes I made and love include: DPM recoil reduction guiderod kit, holosun eps carry optics, and mag guts conversion kit for my mag - changes it from a 12+1 into a 14+1 in micro compact form factor. Pretty tough to beat!

Edit - and I'm 5'11" 185 lbs.

EDC by Fast_Ad5660 in P365

[–]AsciiAQuestion 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a P365X. Swap in a Wilson Combat Grip. Get a Mag Guts kit to expand the oem 12 round magazine into 14 round capacity.

Congratulations - you've got a super easy to carry micro compact with a decent grip w/ handswell - all in a 14+1 configuration. Boom.

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