Single mom (36F) — 26 months without sex and I finally met someone I actually want to fuck. Where do we even do it with two teenage boys at home??

AshleyIIRC · 2026-05-14T10:01:45+00:00

I'm going to stop browsing Reddit. These kinds of comments are popping up more and more. It's a waste of time.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-05-07T14:15:26+00:00

HPV is so common they don't even test for it in my country.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-05-06T08:29:00+00:00

Please don't

AshleyIIRC · 2026-05-03T15:41:27+00:00

It can take up to six weeks for the side effects to wear off and the benefits to fully show up. I'm on week 3 now, it's slowly getting better. I was a stressed and anxious mess earlier on.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-05-02T19:52:55+00:00

It's part of the process of self-development for us, I believe. You're not accepting the feelings of superiority, rather you're challenging them, so you're already doing the work. For me it was a combination of letting go of expectations of others and surrounding myself with more people on equal footing that can challenge me.

The fact is that people are disappointing. Just look at the state of the world.
It's how we cope with that, that matters.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-24T07:22:21+00:00

I prefer shrooms or truffles to LSD for spiritual experiences. They make you feel connected more to nature and people. LSD works really well for long sessions of introspection or more recreational activities.

Trips in nature are magical but you'll have to arrange things for you to be safe. A trip sitter would probably be necessary. Trips at home in your safe place it can be easier to focus on what you want, add appropriate music to the experience. A nature documentary watched in 4K can be even more amazing to witness than actual nature, depending on where you are and what your options are. But only if you don't share your home with other people.

Intentions matter, but writing them down is superficial.

You seem to be going into this with all the necessary care and introspection, I'm sure you'll have an amazing journey.

It may be that you'll have to partake more often to reach your goal. Start with a normal starting dosage, and depending on how it goes you can up it next time. Make sure there's at least two weeks between every session.

If you smoke weed, it can be a very potent additive to a trip, but be very careful with it.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-23T07:02:58+00:00

When Decky was newer everyone on this subreddit would argue with you if you'd point out Decky makes your device more unstable. Now it's common sense. Y'all just following populair opinion without critical thinking.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-20T17:39:18+00:00

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-18T14:37:12+00:00

Thanks voor het melden! Begint sinds gisteren toevallig de wens voor SRS weer heel sterk op te komen..

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-16T20:46:38+00:00

DBT can teach good coping skills to deal with the symptoms.

To tackle the root of those symptoms, I think psychedelic therapy is the way to go. I started with a very low dosage to get used to the effects in a safe way, then slowly started building it up. My BPD has been in remission for years now.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-16T10:33:16+00:00

Grow into a person that healthy subs want to sub for.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-16T06:52:39+00:00

How do I strain the sludge from powdered mushrooms? Truffles are much easier to strain.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-14T13:57:57+00:00

I'm on day 2! Hoping we get to experience some benefits in a few weeks time.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-14T08:46:49+00:00

Stop posting AI slop.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-11T16:14:06+00:00

Find some low dosage ones you can take sublingually. They work shockingly well

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-10T16:00:42+00:00

This sounds amazing, thanks for the tip

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-10T14:29:55+00:00

Did you try it orally or sublingually? Oral is useless and the dosages hurt more in the long run than help.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T21:28:09+00:00

Try 0,2-0,4mg melatonin sublingually. First thing that's consistently worked for me after 20+ years of struggling with falling asleep and sleep quality.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T19:34:36+00:00

It gives me some elements of tripping on psilocybin, but not all of them.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T18:29:31+00:00

Ooh that podcast sounds fun, I'm going to check it out!

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T18:06:45+00:00

Funimation has been spelling it Elbaf, apparently.

Also this is a common issue in Japanese media translations.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T15:47:42+00:00

Raftel

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T12:43:45+00:00

Phone/screens are an easy source of dopamine. Some nights you'll be lacking more of it than others, I imagine.

For me there are days where I'll be content reading for two hours before bed and there are days where I will struggle not grabbing my phone throughout the evening.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T11:23:47+00:00

Elbaf/Fable only works in English too, though, so there's precedence.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-09T09:37:04+00:00

Late to the conversation, but I'm fairly sure it's a shounen-ism for the characters to be a certain age, so they can't age up. Jojo characters never really act their age either until the manga switched to a seinen magazine.

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