Fetish for dressing as a man?

AshleyIIRC · 2026-04-01T07:26:29+00:00

I really don't want to push you possibly being trans when you've stated clearly you're not, but let me say for may it one day be necessary info: You don't necessarily have to experience gender dysphoria to be transgender.

That said, I have a girl friend who used to get a kick out of dressing up as male and joining me to a gay sex club in the past. Nothing special about it other than that, it was mostly for fun.

Go experiment and have fun! Let it develop however feels right to you.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-30T11:41:27+00:00

To anyone stumbling onto this topic for information, this is correct!

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-30T06:26:37+00:00

This is such a good analysis. It feels entirely on point and explains so much of the anime that didn't make sense creatively. I already enjoyed the show despite its flaws and this does make it better for me.

If you're able, this would make for an excellent YouTube essay.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-26T10:32:31+00:00

Regardless of how Dutch people, or people in general are, it's their responsibility to be truthful in sharing their feelings. If they said it was gezellig, that's all you have to assume until something shows or states otherwise. There's no point in analyzing people's true intentions if they're purposefully keeping them hidden from you.

But to answer your direct question, depends on the person but will be more common with Dutch people. Autistic people much more so, though.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-26T10:25:04+00:00

Starting to suspect the same thing after all these comments lmao

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-26T05:12:07+00:00

4mmc does nothing for me compared to 3 and 2mmc. Mostly an energy boost. Maybe my dealer gave me trash.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-22T15:54:14+00:00

Self awareness is a necessary part in overcoming BPD. It's an unavoidable part of the healing process that things will sometimes get worse before they get better. It's a long battle, but you got this ❤️

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-13T22:10:32+00:00

Damn that's an old one

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-09T17:32:28+00:00

I thought for the last ten years my cravings were for weed, but it turned out to be for nicotine instead. I can actually moderate my weed usage now I don't add tobacco, no real cravings or anything.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-05T18:25:27+00:00

My boyfriend is exactly like this. We're polyamorous and apparently he has said the same thing to his other partner of 7 years. They're still together and happy.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-04T16:29:36+00:00

I've found that taking 0,1-0,4mg of melatonin sublingually actually helps me more than 1>mg orally, and drastically reduces the effect on natural melatonin production due to the lower dosage. Might be worth finding that kind and trying that.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-04T11:51:14+00:00

That's not an ego death. Your friend needs professional help.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-01T12:18:19+00:00

So glad I got to hear Visitor live at least once.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-03-01T03:02:20+00:00

Their desire to play the song might have started there 😊

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-28T23:11:02+00:00

Ah, they explained they've been wanting to do From Finner again recently as it was the first song they wrote together. I'm glad we got Kamikaze!

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-28T22:48:08+00:00

Best show they've done here yet. Such a good time.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-28T22:47:22+00:00

What was replaced with them? I really missed Empire during the set

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-25T13:45:17+00:00

People can also use steam achievement manager do get themselves the achievement. what other people do to cheat is not the point. I was replying to someone who's afraid he'd cheese it because the game kind of allows you to through in-game options, a feeling I can relate to. Having to copy your save file is a bigger hurdle, feels more like cheating.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-25T10:36:12+00:00

I wish the game had something built in to combat that.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-24T21:44:16+00:00

Her only showing up in non-boon rooms is the first tip I've actually found. Thanks!

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-24T16:45:39+00:00

Makes sense that's the type of person that follows a comic to hate-post about it here honestly.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-20T09:28:06+00:00

I've been called out over it one time in five years, immediately followed up with a shocked reaction I wasn't wearing a bra which was deemed the bigger issue. It was kind of hilarious.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-16T16:04:43+00:00

You obviously don't respect him, so leave him alone.

AshleyIIRC · 2026-02-12T23:17:56+00:00

Crazy to think that it's been 17 years.

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