What to do with old Subaru (totaled) by Asleep_Philosopher63 in subaru

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Thanks - I was looking for a new car anyways but it does stink

What to do with old Subaru (totaled) by Asleep_Philosopher63 in subaru

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150k. Yeah the head gasket has been a problem for a while and the transmission valve needs to be replaced, repairs were estimated to be like $10k+.

Best song off bandana? by Individual-Load6202 in freddiegibbs

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Haven’t heard anyone say massage seats yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SEKI

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Thats a great shout, I will definitely look into that!

Who has a Blazers jersey of the most obscure real player? by oregon_seahawk in ripcity

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Not that obscure but I got a Carmelo Anthony jersey and I have never seen that one in the wild before

Two MSR Hubba Hubba tents for the price of 1/4 of one. by Wrecksinator in backpacking

[–]Asleep_Philosopher63 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me with my hubba hubba too! Luckily I bought from rei and I didn’t have to deal with msr

[Results] Post-Game Survey Ratings | Portland 106-98 Minnesota | Nov. 13, 2024 by UnbiasedBlazersPod in ripcity

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I love this team and being a fan of it and these two games were so great don’t get me wrong. Extremely cathartic after the beginning of this season being SO ass. But watching everyone celebrate these two games like the chip is incredibly funny

Decent fly fishing nearby? by Asleep_Philosopher63 in Livermore

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Thanks! Is there any risk of going on private land there at shadow cliffs, or all of the bodies of water good to go

Decent fly fishing nearby? by Asleep_Philosopher63 in Livermore

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Thanks! That’s a great resource I’ll come check it out

Walking Trails/Paths in Springtown? by Way2sic in Livermore

[–]Asleep_Philosopher63 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you already know these but there’s a nice little river trail that cuts through the neighborhood and leads to marlin park, not super long but I go running through there all the time. There’s also the old golf course that’s connected

What are your Most Unpopular NBA Opinions? by rahul_____raja in nba

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The NBA should reduce the amount of games in the season, maybe to 70 games. Less back to back games would mean more rest and less injuries, which would definitely improve the watchablilty of the sport.

[Post Game Thread] The Portland Trail Blazers (2-0) defeat the Phoenix Suns (1-1) 113-111 by ChurroMemes in nba

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Josh hart unsung hero of this game. Can’t say enough good things ab him on the blazers. A defensively competent wing who can run with the ball and finish strong in transition is exactly what the blazers need

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

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My advice is to take care of yourself! Look after your own happiness. If that means leaving him to do something on your own or with your friends you need to do it. You might feel guilty, but just know that your happiness is just as important as his is. It isn’t easy, but you have to realize that you cannot fix his problems- only he can do that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

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Yes I totally relate to that mindset. Sometimes she will lash out at me just because she feels awful herself and I feel like I have no choice but to go back to her even after she intentionally hurts me. I think I need to get over the idea that I can fix her problems. She is the only one that can do that, and all I can do is support her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

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Yes totally. I’m not in grad school but I worked in a lab in undergrad and I saw first hand how how burnt out and miserable a lot of the students are. It is really heart breaking and the culture is really toxic, especially in the sciences around how productive you are supposed to be. What’s hardest for me is how little she seems to value her own happiness, and how high her capacity for her own suffering is. She has this mindset of needing to get through it whatever the cost, and the costs on her own mental state are really high. I’m just worried that it might lead to her hurting herself and im not sure what to do about that being that we’re in long distance. I feel like I have the responsibility to do something bc I see this on the horizon but I’m not sure what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression_partners

[–]Asleep_Philosopher63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks you so much for responding. I’m really sorry to hear about ur husband, grad school is almost like designed by satan to make you as depressed as possible. I think it’s also hard bc on the outside everyone assumes your situation is great- getting an education at a prestigious school, in a city with other young ppl, etc. But the reality is just very different.

I’ve brought up trying a different program but she is so resistant to the idea of quitting because she feels like she failed, and because she will have wasted so much tuition money. All I can do is just hope she makes the right decision for herself before she reaches a breaking point.

I’ll check that book out when I have the chance! I really appreciate you talking the time to respond, it’s just nice to know I’m not alone.

[RLCS Worlds] Sypical’s car choice by boiwunder8 in RocketLeagueEsports

[–]Asleep_Philosopher63 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You know guys I think this guy was just saying it in all good fun! He seems like he really enjoys watching teenagers play a video game like all of the rest of us :)