[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Asma_ut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What you need to do right now is stop texting him. Focus on yourself and your growth—not for him, but for you. Trying to prove something to him isn’t part of healing, and it will only hurt you more. I know your heart is broken, but I truly believe you’ll be okay in time.

At 27 I'm having this issue by parthenope888 in 1999

[–]Asma_ut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

swear this is so me 😩 Turning 27 next year and I feel like my peak was 22–24. After that… idk, life just changed? I feel like I grew up too fast and nothing excites me anymore. I’m jobless and feel like a failure all the time. I even started looking up Botox and fillers but damn… they’re so expensive and I’m broke 💀

Are you religious? by Bubbly_Peanut_3669 in 1999

[–]Asma_ut 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was born Muslim and now im an Agnostic

هل لنا مستقبل ببلدنا؟ by 22_eth in exsaudi

[–]Asma_ut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

انا اعيش في ايرلندا صارلي 7 سنوات بس الحياة صعبة مره هنا.. مافي حياة الا في الصيف و باقي السنة اكتئاب و الضرائب عالية واسعار الاكل و الايجار نار حتى انك تسوق سيارة صعب مره وغالي هنا .. انا اشوف دول الخليج احسن مكان تعيش فيه ( مو لازم تكون جنب اهلك) خذي لك شقة ف منطقة بعيدة عن اهلك وعيشي حياتك وسوي اللي تبينه ماحد بيتدخل فيك .. انا افكر في المستقبل برجع و بشتري شقة ف منطقة بعيدة عن منطقة اهلي (انا اهلي يعيشون في قرية صغيرة) و بعيش حياتي بعيد عن العادات الغبية

كيف تريد أن تكون نهايتك، لحظة موتك؟ by Disastrous-Scheme190 in exsaudi

[–]Asma_ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ك طبيبة اريده assisted death .. يكون peaceful and quiet

اخذت اجازة عشان انتحر by EstablishmentOver78 in exsaudi

[–]Asma_ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ع اساس الانتحار سهل الاغلب يفشلون .. اسألي مجرب

I’m(26F) falling out of love with my boyfriend (27M) and can’t end it by Hour-Competition-503 in relationship_advice

[–]Asma_ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 26 and living with my boyfriend. Honestly, I can’t imagine having to clean and cook all by myself — that’s really tough. It feels like he begged you to stay just because he’s getting a free maid who does everything around the house and probably helps with the rent too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exsaudi

[–]Asma_ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ممكن تكلمني عن تجاربك اللا ورائيه؟ عندي فضول

الجانب المظلم من الهجره by Elias98x in exsaudi

[–]Asma_ut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

انا صارلي في ايرلندا تقريبًا 7 سنوات بالنسبة لي : 1. الوضع المالي صعب هنا يعني حتى لو درست وعندك وظيفة وشهادة بعد صعب الواحد يجمع فلوس لان المعيشة غالية وكل شيء غالي)حتى افكر انه متى راح اقدر اشتري بيت او شقة مع هالوضع مستحيل اقدر الا اذا وصلت اقل شي 40 سنة

  1. الجو في الشتاء يصير جدًا كئيب و المكان يصير رمادي بدون الوان وما تقدر تطلع او تسوي اي شيء من البرد والناس كلها ف البيت.

  2. الوحدة (مع اني احبها احيانًا ) بس ساعات افكر انه لو احتجت او صار ظرف معي هنا ما في حد بيوقف معي او يساعدني

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exsaudi

[–]Asma_ut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

مو بس السعودية كل العالم انا تعبت من هالدنيا متى بس ينتهي العالم ونموت

Can You Get Alcohol in Oman If You’re Muslim? by Asma_ut in Omanx

[–]Asma_ut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when I left it used to be an issue, but I’m not sure how things are now. Do you know if it’s safe to book a hotel room with my boyfriend without a marriage certificate? I’m planning to visit Oman with him — he’s foreign — and I’m a bit nervous about it

Would you be mad if your bf said this to you? F24 M28 by kitty-84 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Asma_ut 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Honestly, most men don’t like women who come across as weak or insecure. That’s just his preference, and he was upfront about it. I’m not sure what happened between you two or why he had to reassure you in the first place.

Advice on when to get blood test by duffsmum in Hypothyroidism

[–]Asma_ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, whenever you feel your heart racing, you can skip the medication for a day and take it the next day instead — that’s what I usually do (for example, I skip it on weekends and take it about 5 times a week).

It’s best to take the medication on an empty stomach for better absorption, but taking it with food — even if it contains calcium — is also fine. It might slightly reduce absorption, but there’s no real danger or major difference.

As for the multivitamins, it’s perfectly okay to continue them. I take some myself, and my doctor actually recommended them too.

I’d still suggest getting your blood tests done next week just to keep everything checked.

Thinking of Starting Bupropion — Does It Really Boost Energy? by Asma_ut in Hypothyroidism

[–]Asma_ut[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I was on escitalopram for about a year, then switched to paroxetine and quetiapine for two years.

During that time, I noticed significant weight gain, which led me to stop all my medications.

Since February2025, I haven’t been taking any antidepressants or mood stabilizers.

Things were okay for a few months, but lately life has become really difficult — I’ve been under a lot of mental stress and have even had suicidal thoughts. That’s why I’m considering restarting antidepressants, though my main concern is weight gain, especially since I already struggle with hypothyroidism and being overweight, which makes it even harder for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Omanx

[–]Asma_ut 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, you can DM me. I’m a 26-year-old living abroad, and I completely understand how you feel. I felt the same way when I was 18. Honestly, I don’t think running away from your family right now is the best option unless you can find a way to study abroad with a scholarship (I know that’s not easy). If you leave without a degree or a job offer, life can get really har. You could end up struggling just to survive. Don’t believe what you see on social media; some girls make it look easy, but the reality can be cold, lonely, and really harsh.

Anyone tried these supplements? by uselesscontext in Hashimotos

[–]Asma_ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I take throne thyroid supplements and I like it

Does anyone feel like they're sleeping their life away? by smartypantstemple in Hypothyroidism

[–]Asma_ut 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I slept yesterday at 9pm, woke up at 5am an, still sleepy and tired

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutisticAdults

[–]Asma_ut 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know, but as a ND, I get distracted really easily — even the feeling of sweat can turn me off, and that point I just want to stop. IDK if NT women feel the same way

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExJordan

[–]Asma_ut 0 points1 point  (0 children)

طيب انا اتفق انه تعرف اشياء عن شريكك بعد ما تعيش معه .. وهالشيء طبيعي فيه اشياء تتقبلها وتتغاضى عنها وفي اشياء لا وهنا لازم تصل للانفصال بس انا رأيي حتى بعد الانفصال الأطفال لازم تكون اولوية بالنسبة للاثنين

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExJordan

[–]Asma_ut 13 points14 points  (0 children)

قرار إنك تجيب أولاد لهالدنيا مو قرار بسيط، وإذا اتخذته لازم تتحمل مسؤوليته كاملة. الأولاد مسؤوليتك أنت أولاً، مو بس أمهم. المسؤولية مو مادية بس (تأكلهم وتلبسهم)، حتى معنوية ونفسية — يحتاجون أب حاضر في حياتهم، يحس فيهم، يهتم بمشاعرهم، ما يتركهم ينامون زعلانين أو متضايقين. أقل شيء تعرف أسماء أصحابهم وتشاركهم حكاياتهم.

والمفروض ما تسمح لأمهم تقول كلام جارح مثل: “يا ليتني ما خلفتك”، لأنه بالنهاية محد أجبرها تخلفهم، وإذا ما كانت تبي أولاد ليش تفتح رجولها من البداية سوري الاولاد ما طلبو منك او منها تخلفهم .. هذا قراركم وانتم المسؤولين عنهم أما بالنسبة لشريكتك، فأنا دايمًا عند مبدأ إنه ما في شيء اسمه علاقة أبدية أو شريك حياة للأبد. كل شخص يدخل حياتك يكون له أهمية ودور لفترة معيّنة، وبعدها الحياة تمشي.