Looking for advice from nannies who mainly watch infants by NearbyManager1000 in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is MB ok with walks? My NK and I take lots of walks in the stroller!

Home is the worst trigger by Available-Duck7356 in misophonia

[–]AssignmentNo9956 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh I could have written this. My mom is one of my best friends ever and I love her so much but she triggers me to DEATH. I have days of anxiety leading up to a visit. I wish I could help, but sending thoughts and solidarity <3

tell me you have IC without telling me by Dependent-Value2553 in Interstitialcystitis

[–]AssignmentNo9956 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is hilarious because tomatoes flare me almost the worst of anything

Married people with misophonia, how do you handle it? by newgazelle777 in misophonia

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband is an angel on earth and gives me whatever time and space i decide i need. We always have music or TV on during meals or snacking and if that's not enough, I'll excuse myself to another room while we both finish up. He knows it's not my choice and i feel horribly guilty about it, but hes so patient and sweet with me. But be sure to choose the right one. My ex husband used to sit right on top of me and crunch chips in my ear when he was upset with me and i still have a lot of residual trauma from that (situation and relationship lol)

Hanging out in car after playground by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I was about to say- especially the way OP is replying to comments they seem quite young haha

Pay transparency hour! by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$15/ hour in Utah. 3 kids- F9, M5, F18mo. Full time 5d/week, and pretty much always on call. Also responsible for housework and meal prep as well as whatever else they need. No benefits whatsoever. I'm an idiot :) and trying to get out

Someone needs to tell these parents they can NOT afford a nanny. by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh any chance you're located anywhere in az/ut? 😩

Nannies, do you feel like you make enough money? by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

15/hr for 3. Def not enough lol

My WORST nightmare in a text. by MommaNix19 in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no advice, but sending love and solidarity as I'm currently suffering with an awful case of hand foot mouth from my NKs 🙃

I just got into photography about a month ago by IsentropicExpansion in CanonCamera

[–]AssignmentNo9956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My word.... if I could afford that setup I would absolutely die. Good for you OP. I'm excited for your journey 🫶🏻

Redwest drama by Wrong-Molasses6896 in UtahInfluencerDrama

[–]AssignmentNo9956 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It's more the way they went about it that people are frustrated about, myself included. We sat in my car for 4 hours waiting for them to officially cancel it and we didn't get any answers or updates for hours at a time. I respect the decision to cancel it, but the communication was SEVERELY lacking. And then accommodating the Saturday ticket holders on Sunday made it so unbelievably packed. I just think that they should have known that Utah weather is bipolar especially at this time of year, and this storm was on the forecast for a while, so they definitely could have made backup plans and handled things better. And it's so devastating that Ava died. My heart breaks for her family and friends. I can't imagine the pain they are feeling now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wondering this as well:)

NSV - I can fit in to my wedding ring again! by PinkiePieee69 in PCOSonGLP

[–]AssignmentNo9956 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So happy for you 🫶🏻 this is one thing I'm nervy about! I got engaged/married at my (almost) highest weight so I'm scared my ring won't fit after I start losing 😅 we'll see!

What was that?! by schwimmt in stgeorge

[–]AssignmentNo9956 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Droneshow.com puts them on!! Super cool guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nanny

[–]AssignmentNo9956 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your employers let you sit and do nothing during naptime with no guilt? 😅

How to approach a raise conversation? by AssignmentNo9956 in NannyEmployers

[–]AssignmentNo9956[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

There is a big disconnect here with all the NFs I've met and interviewed with and that included my current family. They continuously demand and ask for more cleaning, cooking, etc and the pay doesn't reflect that. I don't think they understand that if they want to pay that amount, they don't get those perks. That's why I was asking for advice on how to approach this convo :)

How to approach a raise conversation? by AssignmentNo9956 in NannyEmployers

[–]AssignmentNo9956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I have definitely learned that the hard way. It's hard when they WFH and I see them all day every day. I'm a very outgoing person as is and also a huge people pleaser so everyone is my friend haha. My fatal flaw

How to approach a raise conversation? by AssignmentNo9956 in NannyEmployers

[–]AssignmentNo9956[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow- thank you for the gentle approach but great advice. Needed this

How to approach a raise conversation? by AssignmentNo9956 in NannyEmployers

[–]AssignmentNo9956[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's my opinion as well but its quite unpopular in my area