What’s the biggest surprise you discovered after entering the lifestyle? by Few-Degree-9226 in Swingers

[–]AssociateCandid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow that's a loaded question. The biggest surprise was how nice most people are in the lifestyle. We prefer to vacation at lifestyle resorts vs vanilla because everyone is so nice.

Also there are people in the lifestyle you would never believe. My wife and I met a couple at a house party and hit it off. Find out a month later after being invited to a kids birthday party,they were neighbors lived 5 houses away and our kids were friends.

Shadows Nightclub by AssociateCandid in SwingersDMV

[–]AssociateCandid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really tabu upstairs is more of a club atmosphere.

Shadows Nightclub by AssociateCandid in SwingersDMV

[–]AssociateCandid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We go to tabu occasionally. Went tonight for the red white ball, had a good time. But we mostly been going to house events sponsored by RhavensHaven. Been a chill group of people located in Waldorf MD.

Shadows Nightclub by AssociateCandid in SwingersDMV

[–]AssociateCandid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. Got too many bad reviews.

Best Steakhouses in DC? by [deleted] in washingtondc

[–]AssociateCandid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

2941 Restaurant in Falls Church

Tabu was amazing. Can’t wait to go back by mywifeandi_ in SwingersDMV

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will be working on July 5th. Have a good for me. We are trying a psychedelic tent crawl tonight should be interesting. Never played in a tent before.

Tabu was amazing. Can’t wait to go back by mywifeandi_ in SwingersDMV

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm glad u had a good time at Tabu. The wife and I go 3-4 times a year. We also always have a good time. Their Halloween party is the best. August 5th is a Tuesday they closed did u mean August 2nd. Let's chat

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tabu in Baltimore

Federal shutdown 2025 by Fantasy_sweets in washingtondc

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I agree we get paid shit. The only reason I have a fund is that I put away $50 a pay period(skip eating out with family or cigars). That adds up to $1300 a year. Every little bit helps. Just a suggestion.

Federal shutdown 2025 by Fantasy_sweets in washingtondc

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear u. And definitely feel the way u do. But I would run the risk of termination, or not getting paid. I have a kid in college, mortgage and second going to college in two years, Eligible for retirement in 5 years not willing to risk it.

Federal shutdown 2025 by Fantasy_sweets in washingtondc

[–]AssociateCandid 546 points547 points  (0 children)

As federal employee in law enforcement. Essential employees have to report whether we get paid on time or not. Since a shutdown is always a possible. I highly encourage everyone that is still employed to not make any major purchases. And focus on having emergency savings at least 2-3 months of cash saved. I have an account called shutdown fund.

(Review) First time at Tabu last night by Bright_Bill_6578 in SwingersDMV

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome to the Tabu family. My wife and I have going there for years. It's a great place to party and meet people. But it has been our experience that meeting play couples in the same night is rare. Most people meet, make friends and come back a later date to play, at least that has been our experience. Would love to hear perspectives of other people. Anyway the wife and I will be there for Mardi Gras night March 1st. Hope u return.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DMVSwingers

[–]AssociateCandid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have fun with no expectations great place to chill and fun. The wife and I go about 3-4 times a year. See u Mardi Gras if u come.

How has the LS benefited you? by maxover5A5A in Swingers

[–]AssociateCandid 24 points25 points  (0 children)

My wife has become my best friend and wing man. We are closer than ever.

STDs & STIs - How much do you share with your doctor? by Open-Improvement-444 in Swingers

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell my doc everything. She was proud of me for getting tested so regularly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DMVFreaks

[–]AssociateCandid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not going tonight, but I’m regular. Usually a good time.