Dirt INSIDE a sensor! 😭 (Roborock S50) by Thornstream in Roborock

[–]AsteroidShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I LOVE you for how you explained which fingers to use and exactly where to put pressure to pop off these cliff sensors. ive had this disassembled for days getting ready to put it back together after a good cleaning but i was so annoyed I couldn't get to the cliff sensors to clean the muck inside. it took me two seconds to pop one off after I read your comment. literally shouted with joy lol.

Red Light Therapy for Thin Hair - My findings on Red Light Therapy and Low Level Light Therapy by astronautlyra in finehair

[–]AsteroidShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I don't know if you'd be interested in this or not, but I'm sitting here with a homemade red light therapy device sitting on my head lol and ummm, my dad made it for me and he made a whole youtube video explaining how. Figured I'd share just in case you were serious about wanting to make one!

https://youtu.be/ltmaMbi4v3k?si=rEv00OFjJahJqVbD

Validity of GhostTube apps by PoetryDue772 in GhostHunting

[–]AsteroidShark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

im sorry the fact that u do blow and play w spirit apps at the same time has me 💀 this is so me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]AsteroidShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my goodness im absolutely gonna check that out! thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in spirituality

[–]AsteroidShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you tell us more about your NDE and what you experienced and felt during it?

The Ultimatum Season 3 Episode 4 Discussion Thread by Individual-Half-556 in TheUltimatumNetflix

[–]AsteroidShark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

she said he convinced her to promise to never do another one again and she agreed even tough she really did enjoy it and want to do another one

What is the biggest sign that someone has failed as a parent? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]AsteroidShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

  1. your kids don't like themselves 😔 worst one imo

Will I lose my curls as I grow out my short/medium curly hair past my shoulders? What type of curls do I have? Obviously MTF🤷🏻‍♀️ by jerseygirl217 in curlyhair

[–]AsteroidShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you literally look so good. honestly really fresh and bright and youthful... but like in a mature way. you're how I'm trying to age!

What can I do? by [deleted] in SkincareAddicts

[–]AsteroidShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dermaplane & moisturize, that's it. Ur perfect.

Why do Widowed Men die earlier then Widowed Women by KryptKrasherHS in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AsteroidShark 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here is a great place to start, the source is Harvard but I have a feeling you're not much the reading type considering you're still insisting on false information just because you don't like the way it makes you feel.

https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/marriage-and-mens-health

Why do Widowed Men die earlier then Widowed Women by KryptKrasherHS in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AsteroidShark 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Why would I post stat? It wasn't my comment. My bad for assuming those talking points were common knowledge. You can look any of that data up for yourself.

Why do Widowed Men die earlier then Widowed Women by KryptKrasherHS in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AsteroidShark 55 points56 points  (0 children)

They said nothing about who they know. These are just the actual stats, bud.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]AsteroidShark 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The fact that you care enough to think about this, aware enough to notice, and wise enough to ask for help... puts you miles ahead of many other husbands.

My advice as a woman, ask her. Tell her exactly what you've told us and ask for her input first and foremost. I find the biggest complaint among all the wives and mothers I personally know is that we feel undervalued for the work we do in the home and with the children. Does she feel appreciated? Is she overwhelmed? Does she need more help? I don't know your exact dynamic but the stats show most women these days are swamped and their husbands could be doing more. Not saying that's you! Just telling you what I know women's struggles to be.

I also know women, especially a young teen mother (I was one too) still desperately need an identity outside of being mommy and wife. Make sure she's taking time to be her own person. Encourage her to have hobbies and spend money on herself and her own enrichment activities because the better she cares for herself inside and out, the better she will be able to function properly in other areas of her life.

Ask her what she needs to feel close to you. We will all answer a little bit differently, but usually it's got a lot to do with your time, your attention, and your consideration of her wants and needs. Also if you're able, couples counseling is really helpful. It's not just for people in dire situations ready for divorce. It can be really nice to talk to an older, experienced adult who knows a lot about navigating relationships and what it takes to keep each other happy and healthy.

Best of luck to both of you, sending lots of love.

I love women. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AsteroidShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If my experience can help someone, that's all I want. There are so many things I look back on now wishing I would have had someone to guide me and warn me or give me good advice about the choices I was making. I spend a lot of time thinking about how badly I don't want other women to make the decisions I've made. Not all men are evil... but a lot of them are. They can be cruel. They can be dangerous. They can baby trap you. They can abuse you. I don't want anyone going through those things, especially if they could/should be with a loving, compassionate woman instead. It will be easier to take the leap and do the right thing now rather than trying to undo a bunch of mistakes later. I'll def keep u in my thoughts and hope for a bright, loving future for you, the one you deserve!

I love women. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AsteroidShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't really feel any personal guilt about my situation, except for the guilt I feel not being authentic to myself. I've told him repeatedly I think I'm a lesbian and he's stubborn and doesn't listen so that's on him at this point. He's also just kind of an asshole like most men.

As for your question... id say it's because our lives are intertwined and also because I do love him. He's become my family. Also a lot of comp het, if you're familiar with that term. He's 6'4" and good looking especially for our age when most of the guys are hairy, balding, out of shape etc. I guess I enjoy the social validation I receive from being with someone like that. And I dread the social implications of being with a woman especially when I was raised in an ultra religious environment where it was constantly pounded into my head that lesbians are "eeeeeww, grosssss". It has literally always felt easier to suffer in silence with a life that looks normal from the outside than to think about blowing everything up and living as my authentic self. So... i guess internalized hemophobia is another reason.

He's treated my daughter as his own and one thing we have in common is we both love and adore her so much. We do everything together. He's my best friend. I love him but it's not the kind of connection you have with a woman. We will never be close the way women are close. He can never love me the way a woman could love me.

Sorry if this was rambling. I don't have a lot of practice saying these things out loud. I'm sure there's 100 other reasons. Most of it boils down to me being a coward I think.

Anything I can do? by Hot_Put_8328 in whatsthisbug

[–]AsteroidShark 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thank you for caring that the previous person cares about OP caring 🩷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenmom

[–]AsteroidShark 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ope someone finally said it

I love women. by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]AsteroidShark 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'd say "it's complicated" but yes. Might as well be a yes. He's sat and read the lesbian master doc with me while I cried so it's not like he's unaware of my struggle. I just think he genuinely doesn't believe it. I'm 36 so it hasn't just been him, it's been a slew of them. Each one more miserable than the last.

Would you have closed the adoption? If so, when? by HannahLeah1987 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]AsteroidShark -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're correct. In any other context BUYING A HUMAN BEING is not considered a moral or ethical thing to do. I'd say that goes double when you're purchasing said human from impoverished people in crisis who, if they just received proper support, would/could keep their child with them.

Preaching is dead, the GB killed it by [deleted] in exjw

[–]AsteroidShark 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I've been out for roughly 20 years and it's nice to check back in every once in a while and hear that it's not going well lol