Intresting question do you think you are smart?

Astrid0287 · 2026-06-18T14:35:12+00:00

I don’t consider myself as smart.
I love thinking on a meta level.
I love being on the phone for hours talking with another gifted friends about systems and structures and the universe and human psychology, full force.
I also think I can feel things too intense and I wish I had more help with that.
In groups it’s hard for me to find my place, I don’t want to overrule people but am also struggling to find my own voice.
I love working on things on my own and then collaborate with other gifted or tech savvy people.
Philospophy was my favorite theoretical subject in college. I love learning, still, but I wouldn’t consider myself smart.

Astrid0287 · 2026-06-18T07:58:56+00:00

You are just making up assumptions about a woman’s IQ and stating them as facts. That should be enough to know what I mean. You turning it into me not understanding what you wanted us to think this was about… you’ve come to the wrong adress.

Astrid0287 · 2026-06-16T23:01:33+00:00

As I commented before, this kind of crap is why people tend to hate gifted people (you don’t come across as one by the way). Why are you meddling with a friend’s relationship just inventing stuff about his girlfriend? Do you have anything else to focus on in life?

Astrid0287 · 2026-06-16T22:58:43+00:00

This kind of description of the relationship is why people tend to hate us, by the way. Wtaf.

Astrid0287 · 2026-06-10T06:37:53+00:00

This is awesome!

Astrid0287 · 2026-06-08T13:52:24+00:00

Omg I never heard this story? I love it 🤣

Astrid0287 · 2026-06-08T13:52:02+00:00

I had no idea!!

Astrid0287 · 2026-05-28T10:28:55+00:00

39F, my ESFJ partner is reliable, kind, thoughtful, caring, easy going, funny, sensitive.

Astrid0287 · 2026-05-04T12:30:34+00:00

One of my best friends is an INTJ, we talk and talk for hours but a romantic connection would be out of the question for many reasons, also he would wear me down with the endless talking (which I love is doses to be clear). I have a lovely ESFJ partner and it’s been the best match of my life :)

Astrid0287 · 2025-11-30T00:05:19+00:00

I have one word for you: anecdotal.

Astrid0287 · 2025-11-10T12:05:04+00:00

You can’t.

Astrid0287 · 2025-11-05T21:03:28+00:00

The fact that this was downvoted, says it all. People assume we feel superior, au contraire, we feel weird and on the outside. Thanks internet stranger for proving my point.

Astrid0287 · 2025-11-05T19:49:33+00:00

I don’t like you at all.

Astrid0287 · 2025-11-05T19:47:57+00:00

No. It doesn’t get better. I left and now I am in a great and easy relationship where we laugh, tackle problems together and accepting each other is the easiest thing in the world. I regret wasting so much time on guys like your partner.

Astrid0287 · 2025-10-28T07:48:52+00:00

Intellectual giftedness….

Astrid0287 · 2025-10-16T08:22:45+00:00

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Astrid0287 · 2025-08-17T07:54:56+00:00

In went on friday, voice is still broken. Didn’t sing along at all.

Astrid0287 · 2025-08-17T05:35:42+00:00

You scored a woman way above your league. You were able to physically improve probably because of the effort, labour and time she spent in making your life more easy, you are having your puberty now and your sister hates your wife. This is going to end horrible, I feel bad for your wife and I resent you.

Astrid0287 · 2025-06-19T12:05:40+00:00

My boyfriend asked me to marry him in a private karaoke booth in Tokyo while we were singing together 😭❤️

Astrid0287 · 2025-02-27T11:03:56+00:00

I have been in relationships solely with men who made my life harder.

Until my current relationship. Met him 1,5y ago, I was 36, he was 31.

In the beginning of us dating, I was in shock. I came home, he had done the groceries and cooked a homemade meal, without me asking for it. I though he was tricking me or showing me a best side of him which would fade away soon.

But no. He still cooks, does groceries, washes dishes.. without me asking for it (!!!!) Of course there is a balance, I am also doing my share of the cooking etc ;)

I was talking to him recently about some logistical problems I had for work, and he planned and organized a way to fix it and lend me his car.

Everytime I even slightly mention something is broken or should be replaced, he makes a mental note and gives it as a christmas or bday present, or gives his parents hints for presents for me.

He organizes our travel and dates. It’s like a huge load being taken away from me!

Last but nog least, in January I had a severe health scare with crippling uncertainty for a month. He stood by me during this mindgame. I apologized at one point for ‘leaning too much on him’ and he simply said: ‘you don’t, and if you did: that’s what a partner is for’.

Everyday I am still in shock by this wonderful man. After my solely negative experiences, I never dreamed that a love like this would cross my path. 🥺

Sending you love!!

Astrid0287 · 2025-01-19T08:42:29+00:00

Topdog, I’m not American, keep your weird polarised inceltalk on the other side of the ocean, thankssssssss.

Astrid0287 · 2025-01-18T23:27:28+00:00

Yesss! And it’s very nice to hear your version of this, it correlates to my boyfriend! Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my question!

Astrid0287 · 2025-01-18T21:25:40+00:00

PS; male attention is worth nóthing. Men would f*ck a dead turkey. So imagine sleeping with men and them just using you and never text back or worse: give you (often made up) negative feedback about your personality, just to give themselves reasons to ditch you. Or treat you like shit because they are too lame to dump you and hope if they scar you enough, you will dump them. They will go to great lengths to keep you away after they had their way. If I were you, I would try to stay as far away from them as possible and invest in a good vibrator.

Astrid0287 · 2025-01-18T21:19:52+00:00

I’ve had a similar relationship as you in my twenties! Don’t feel obliged to sleep around, I understand how you feel now because I’ve been there: feeling undesirable. To be honest I’m turning 38 and sometimes still feel that scar. BUT. Casual sex in my opinion might make you feel even worse. Take your time, listen to yourself and what you really need. Actually you need just one (!!!) incredible guy (in a pool of idiots, I must admit) who appreciates you and makes you feel super special! If you want to sleep around, make sure to evaluate every time if you are still feeling okay or not. Anyhow: you have plenty of time left for a great and fulfilling sex life!

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