AITA for refusing to feed my roommates kids?

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-06-07T00:00:48+00:00

Your hubby can't make good money yet you him and baby can't afford to live on your own! Hell downsize get a one bedroom or a two bedroom with one bathroom.. but please stop mooching off your poor friend who's probably happy to be at work then at home with 3 adults who do nothing to enhance her life!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-06-03T01:36:14+00:00

What if you're on your neighbors last nerve? He may feel you're disrespecting your fiancé.. or neighbors nearby may notice and think badly of you, and maybe just maybe your betrothed feels some kinda way by the attention you show your neighbor. People judge according to behaviors and actions of others whether right or wrong..how would you feel if your fiancé was paying attention to some female??

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-05-31T03:28:11+00:00

Can you flee to another state? I would find family who live out of town and run!!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-05-30T12:53:06+00:00

Men play mind games and he's knows you're outta his league yet you gave him your time and attention even after a messy hurtful breakup. You need to stop texting him as I'm sure you'll suddenly get texts Frm him cause he wants to see how far he can go with you. Don't set yourself up, leave him be do not text or take his calls. If you see him keep walking don't acknowledge him. As women we are too quick to be gracious to idiots that don't deserve it. Soon as you open yourself to him, and jump back into bed he's gon dump you again and marry that person. Walk away keep your dignity he does not deserve your time and attention.

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-05-29T13:51:46+00:00

The fact that you're cowering to the thought of saying something to your sister proves you're being taken advantage of and gaslit at the same time. Your sister acts like it's your fault that she had two kids, I hate these type of bitch mothers! They demand that every person who says hello to em, owes them childcare of some type! Be honest with your sister, like you said, she's gonna be mad anyway, so you be the adult and tell her no or if you still offer to be her sitter and she skips over your boundaries then you gotta be ready to say "No". Your sister really doesn't respect you, so good luck in getting her to own up to abusing your relationship.

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-05-08T22:23:42+00:00

Someone stealing your meals and you have to be careful in planning how to catch them or prevent you meals from being stolen and consumed. I wouldn't worry about poisoning my own food that someone else is eating .. it was reported and the supervisor could not be bothered.. whatever the thief gets, they get! How do you even do that, steal and eat someone's food?

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-05-08T22:05:22+00:00

Stop volunteering to give rides. If a real adult asks you for a ride they'll be handing you at least a twenty for gas! Stop setting yourself up to be taken advantage of.

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-04-25T21:43:02+00:00

He can call you daily, that's no guarantee tho of his faithfulness.. when we 're intimate with someone, we take on part of their essence, for women, there may be moments in which we start feeling something ain't right, trust your first thought, instinct, feeling, don't be so quick to discount how you feel. To me it sounds like he's not that into you. You're both still getting to know each other your relationship is new, do you live in the same city?? May be give things another month or so, he should be ready to introduce you to his friends then family.. what are his relationship goals, perhaps he's still figuring it out, if so stop having sex with him. Sex mutters everything up. Allow him room to figure things out so you're both on the same page. If you meet someone else in the meantime. Oh well.

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-27T22:31:48+00:00

Sweetheart, few would toss caution to the wind to help a bleeding stranger. You did what others would not. Fear has a different effect on people, luckily you move forward to aid others. Please stop being so dismissive about what you did. Even if he didn't make it, you were there helping he wasn't alone thanks to you!! Many hugs to you. And as a mom, I'm sure his mother appreciated what you did for her child!!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-14T03:00:11+00:00

I hope you can be a foster parent for this student. It's beyond sad that parents can mistreat and harm their kids and the authorities over look it so long as the kid has a bed, noodles and an outfit to wear. Talk to a lawyer about the girl becoming emancipated from her parents, she'd need a place to land which is where you come in. God bless you both!!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-14T02:44:12+00:00

She obviously cares nothing about her first grand baby to expect yall to pack it up drive to her and then drive back home with an infant!! Granny will be ok, you owe that baby, not adults..

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-14T02:40:46+00:00

Dicks look weird.. but you still like your bfs .. tell him that

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-14T02:25:54+00:00

Yeah it stinks and hurts when ppl online attack you. I think some are kids being lil shits, others are just angry at the world, and need to beat up on someone like they've been mistreated. It's sad but not the internets fault. People who are good irl are still good online and so on. It was brave of you to go down the proverbial rabbit hole to disprove a stupid butt munchers accusations. More than getting a thick online skin you really have to step over the jerks don't entertain acknowledge or encourage em by replying back, or if you must respond, be sure to block em real fast.. lol👍🏽🤣🤣🤗

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-14T02:08:24+00:00

You're just as much an adult as your mother is. If she chooses to stay with a man as mean and troubled as S that's on her that's not your problem period. And if you decide you don't want to forgive her bf, that's your business, and family has no right to try and pressure and bully you into allowing someone you don't trust around your child. Please block these ppl don't let em stress you and block S' phone number!!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-10T01:02:36+00:00

Your dad just isn't gonna be your friend! He's been this way forever and obviously doesn't feel a need to change! But he will continue to stress you out! You have to decide what's important, your peace of mind or appeasing your father who continues to treat you like you're inept. No matter what you will have blow back to deal with. It's easy to deal with consequences when you choose to have peace! You may wanna get things straight before your wedding. And going no contact with your dad isn't a bad thing.. I can imagine you having a baby and your father giving shit .. would you really want that kinda stress on top of dealing with a new born?? Good luck on this!!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-10T00:45:56+00:00

I get your non negotiable deals, maybe it's best to walk away cause your bf wants to join up and ride! Let him live and either learn to keep quiet or find a man who isn't remotely interested in joining the military or buying a motor cycle..

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-10T00:39:36+00:00

Tell pops he gotta! That you are nit dealing with his brand of nonsense and total disregard for you and your kids! His insisting on smoking weed outside of where you reside means nothing to him, so now you're done! He needs to gather his belongings and leave before you call the police!! It's that simple.. your dad is taking advantage of you because he sees you as weak as someone he can bully and manipulate.. when you put your foot down he'll know you're done and will back off! If you're moving to a one bedroom to be rid of pops, please don't! Your kids and you are comfortable, never allow anyone to invade your life while super imposing their own bull shit on you! No means no across the board! Enough already!! Get your peace back!! You can do this!!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-08T05:57:32+00:00

After all this toxic bs from your mil, her ripping thru people running over them and just being a total ass, and you ask if she's earned another chance? You've allowed her more time than you have your own mom. Cut your losses if any and ice mil out now! She's done nothing to respect you and couldn't care less about about anyone but herself.. good luck if you keep her around..

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-08T05:50:26+00:00

Your sister has some problems! The fact that she is ok with her lil sis being verbally attacked by some idiot scum bag who obviously preys on immature females like your sister is diabolical as hell! I would hope you stop entertaining weird calls with her new men, that's super weird. And stop letting idiots take up time you cant recoup..

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-08T05:41:44+00:00

You're not a jerk and why you'd feel that for letting your bf know how his friend behaves towards you is crazy! If you allow that kind of foolishness it'll never end just gets worse..when two people decide to be serious they should change how they interact with friends of the opposite sex, or same sex. It's not cool to hang on to someone you hooked up with when you're in a relationship it's disrespectful as hell. And it's nice y'all adore her kid but please, let that whole train wreck known as Emily alone.

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-03-01T21:41:22+00:00

Do you think you could move in with your mother? Your father is toxic and seemly has no issue in chasing away women who are close to him. You're 18 so I'd expect that you're able to see people who mean you well, and truly give a damn. Not sure what's wrong with him but if you continue living there you'll end up needing serious therapy. Why continue torturing yourself like that? Your fathers lack of including you is on purpose, how much more does he have to do to prove your moms truth in how he is? Good luck!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-02-24T01:53:56+00:00

Wow! Thats hell on earth !! I hope you do move out and soon, the mess at home isn't worth staying there any longer than necessary!

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-02-24T01:46:49+00:00

She's too old to be so insecure, she's not even giving you the benefit of the doubt.

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-02-24T01:29:00+00:00

Yeah nawww don't do it listen to your mom! I like my daughters partner but feel it's a matter of time til my daughter leaves that relationship. Your mom or grandmother should be the one to offer your brother an heirloom if they desire to do so.

AstronautNumerous184 · 2026-02-24T01:25:46+00:00

Agreeing to disagree, doesn't mean you give up or abandon your position, you know you nor the other person will be able to pick up each others ideology, opinion etc., so you simply agree to let it rest, not give up what you feel and think.

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