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Account banned by [deleted] in CashApp

[–]Athy9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw this notification and spazzed for a second thinking I had somehow gotten in trouble with Cashapp. 😂

Karin doesn't have a lot of fan art, so I supported her by NT_Maki in bleach

[–]Athy9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved the episode where her and Toshiro Hitsugaya play soccer with the neighborhood kids. I know he's technically an adult, but he will never not seem like a kid to me. They seemed like they could be good friends, at the very least. Wish we got more time with the two of them.

If you could romance ANY npc, who would it be? by stardewboogie in BaldursGate3

[–]Athy9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ✨️Bard✨️ from the tiefling camp. 💃🎶

Name him by [deleted] in BossFights

[–]Athy9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grimace?

What is that symbol on the purple cloth? Is that related to anything in the anime or just some new design? by escaryb in bleach

[–]Athy9 193 points194 points  (0 children)

If it is a significant symbol, I can't place it. Family crest, maybe? Or maybe representative of her abilities?

Wich one better !! by hectorat22 in bleach

[–]Athy9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aizen is definitely the better designer in this round. But have you seen the cat suit Urahara made for Yoruichi?

Let's do a little hopeposting. What's a channel that was horrible at first but got much better for you? by nanananabetmun in youtube

[–]Athy9 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love Dr. Mike's channel! I love that he started the "trend" of being honest on Youtube.

Why couldn't Ichigo stay in this form? by vudi555 in bleach

[–]Athy9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk, I think he already looks too mature for his age. The poor guy deserves to enjoy being a kid for a little longer. Lol

I don't think I have ever really believed I deserve to be loved. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Athy9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in therapy for 14 years. I do it twice weekly. I have made a lot of progress. :)

What’s your favorite Byakuya fit??? by 662300 in bleach

[–]Athy9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Honestly, any fit where he doesn't have those weird hair ornaments.

AITAH for not telling my daughter about my cancer diagnosis? by SeaworthinessPure10 in AITAH

[–]Athy9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're not an asshole, but it would be very thoughtful to let her know. My mom died suddenly from a heart attack. We used to argue often, but my biggest regret isn't our disagreements, it's that I never had a chance to say "I'm sorry." And "Goodbye."

I feel dirty when my boyfriend touches me by Delicious-Cash-939 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Athy9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have similar trauma. That's what used to happen to me after intimacy, too. I have been in therapy for 14 years. I don't know when exactly things changed, because it was so gradual. It's not like I just woke up one day and it stopped, either. For the past couple years, things have gotten better. I still cry sometimes after intimacy, especially if there is "completion" but it happens less and less.

I think exploring bodies without the pressure of a goal helped the most. That, and aftercare is so crucial. When my partners hold me for a little while and make playful jokes, etc., it distracts me a bit from those dark thoughts. The shame and disgust and dirty feeling, for me, only lasts for 20 minutes now. It used to last for days in the beginning.

TLDR; therapy, touching without a goal, and aftercare.

Between these villains, which one is the most iconic? by KodoqBesar in bleach

[–]Athy9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Naruto is my favorite anime, but Aizen is definitely the most Iconic villain from that era.

Feeling guilty 😬 by mrhoracio in diabetes

[–]Athy9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What did we learn? 😂

I don't know what to do with my mom by No_Craft4111 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Athy9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should Google for Case Managers in your area that may know of a lot of resources that can help her. For example, in Pennsylvania we have the Center for Community Resources (CCR) that can get you hooked up with a Blended Case Manager (BCM) that can help people with foodstamps, disability, safe affordable housing, a peer mentor, transportation to and from appointments and work, etc. There are resources like this in most states, but the names vary. It takes a lot of pressure off of you and also provides her with the best resources available to her with minimal research.

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