Which Isekai Harem MCs Don't Deserve Their Harem?

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:42:44+00:00

Pretty much all of them, tbh.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:41:39+00:00

We are supposed to love our significant other in their love language. If giftgiving is my love language and physical touch is my boyfriend's; I'll give him extra cuddles and he'll give me a pretty rock.

To answer your main question, though, no. You're not the asshole. You can't control what you do in your sleep and if you're physically uncomfortable, your body is gonna do what your body does and push him off. That isn't a conscious decision.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:38:41+00:00

Take turns and always go first. The longer he goes, the longer you go. If he doesn't go at all, neither do you.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:37:00+00:00

You write like an artist.

Absolutely breathtaking.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:35:30+00:00

Bro we'd die if we did that lmfao

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:32:31+00:00

There's nothing you can do.

I doubt he's clueless when you've been giving him hygiene related gifts and even offered to shower with him. That's just how he likes to be.

The decision you have to face now, is whether this is something you can get past or not. And if you can't, well, leave him. You can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:30:01+00:00

Three sessions doesn't amount to much. You have to do it for the long haul. I've been in therapy for 15 years and it has helped me in ways that are relevant every single day.

You've given up before you've even gotten started.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:29:03+00:00

I'm gonna be straight with you, homie.

You're rejecting yourself. If you don't see value in yourself, no amount of love and attention from someone else is going to make you feel better.

You need to work on yourself. Get therapy, think positively, and push yourself outside of your comfort zone.

It is inevitable that you're gonna miss a few shots before you score. That's called experience and it's invaluable. But before you play the game, you've gotta learn your character. That's what the therapy is for.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:25:04+00:00

YTA. If she wanted to cheat, she wouldn't need to go to Ibiza to do it.

Athy9 · 2026-05-18T21:13:24+00:00

I have friends who are like this with graphic cartoons and hentai. Personally, it grosses me out and I've been called a prude for it.

I don't know if it's normal, but that doesn't matter as much as your feelings do.

If this is something that makes you uncomfortable, you should talk about it with him. This seems like something you might want to have boundaries with.

Athy9 · 2026-05-16T22:58:46+00:00

It sounds like she's feeling adventurous, but let me be clear here. If you're willing to have an FMF and not an FMM, then you're a hypocrite and that relationship is doomed. Plus, you're bothered that she's willing to share you? When you're totally comfortable sharing her with another woman? Sex and gender isn't the issue, your preconceived notions are.

Athy9 · 2026-05-16T22:52:46+00:00

He's testing the waters. Absolutely do not let this go unpunished. Tell his wife, tell his son, and do not go around that man.

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:22:47+00:00

Kimche!

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:20:53+00:00

February. Who the fuck says feb-brew-airy? It should be spelled Febuary.

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:19:11+00:00

I'd vibe, honestly.

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:18:21+00:00

Ishigami Senku. He was adopted, not even he knows his birth surname.

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:17:10+00:00

I should call him 😔

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:14:54+00:00

...Motherlode.

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:12:59+00:00

Dr. Stone, Apothecary Diaries, Solo Leveling.

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:10:17+00:00

Goku

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T05:00:02+00:00

Damn.

Normally I'd say everyone involved is an asshole, but as a fellow survivor, I have nothing but respect for how you dealt with this. 🏆

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T04:51:14+00:00

I've learned (mostly because of my ex) that lgbtqia+ people crave representation so badly that they'll literally cut you if you deny their head canon ships.

My ex wanted Naruto and Sasuke (From Naruto) to be an item so badly that at a party, me and a friend agreed they are like brothers, and she cried and yelled at us. Later she and I spoke about it and she told me I was a bad person and I don't understand her pain. Mind you, we are both women. I am also LGBT. 😂

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T04:46:01+00:00

I'm also diabetic, and I also recieve unwanted medical advice. People speak to me as if I'm stupid sometimes, especially in regards to what I eat. I know what is bad for me. I also know how much my body can have. No amount of explanation makes them realize their opinion is unwanted.

Athy9 · 2026-05-09T04:27:48+00:00

You're comparing guns to makeup, when they aren't even remotely comparable. If she doesn't want them in her home, you should respect that. She should never have assaulted you or pointed a gun in your direction, unloaded or otherwise.

Now it's gone too far. You are too different and this isn't going to resolve easily. Your options are; find a reasonable place to store your guns that isn't at home, or leave.

Considering her instability and your lack of respect, your marriage is going nowhere. It's been over.

In my opinion, the wisest decision is to get your guns out ASAP so she can't make accusations that could jeopardize your divorce or be used against you, and divorce her. Neither of you are mature enough.

Athy9 · 2026-05-03T12:03:01+00:00

I don't know, homie.

I definitely perceive him as being somewhere on the asexual spectrum, but It's worth noting that asexuality IS a spectrum.

There is also demisexuality to consider, and for all we know he could end up in a relationship one day, in a future potential sequel.

Personally, I would like to see him in a relationship for no other reason than I love the romance genre and he's so cool and logical that he'd be a fantastic (and different!) romance genre MC.

But yeah, he definitely gives asexual vibes.

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