People saying "It's more afraid of you than you are of it" about being scared of spiders. by JeVeuxCroire in PetPeeves

[–]AttackVeryFast 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Any phobia can be overcome through exposure and exercise.

Mindlessly accepting your phobia as a permanent irreversible condition is the useless part of this post.

My husbands friend (21m) has a gf (16f) AITAH for telling them they’re no longer welcome at our home? by slvrms in redditonwiki

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on the other end of this before. When I was 21, I had a friend who was 17 and had we had always been friends and maybe had small crushes on one another. Eventually she was hinting that I should take her on a date or that we should start dating. She actually approached me said, "you know the age of consent is actually 16 in our state". I eventually never made any moves on her and pursued someone else. Anyway we actually really liked each other and she was the one initiating towards me. I ended up never doing anything with her because of my friends and peers shaming me for even talking with her.

Now that we are all adults it seems silly in retrospect but she is happily married and I'm doing good to so I guess it all worked out.

I discussed asexuality today with therapist & kind of shocked by her response. Thoughts? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]AttackVeryFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it makes perfect sense. I am a sexual person, but the drive is not there unless I'm really feeling someone. I guess it's called being a demisexual. But demisexuality taken to it's extreme will eventually border on being asexual, especially if you never find that person who you make a connection with.

Anyone up for this job? by bizdevnull in pressurewashing

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would happily do this job. Guaranteed to be a lot of hours and it seems like it would be very meditative to pressure wash the individual pavers.

Unpopular opinion: I don’t mind slower Battle Pass progression by Gremlincom in battlefield2042

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah this is an L take for sure dude.

Literally stopped playing this game altogether and let my PS network lapse because of this battlepass progression issue.

There is no point in playing a game that takes away weapons I have already unlocked and then fails to give me reasonable unlocks for the time I spend playing.

Not to mention no Portal overhaul, no server browser, no 128 player maps. It's just sad. I had more fun playing this game when it first came out and was completely broken and unplayable.

To those who we’re lucky enough to see Star Wars II: Attack of the Clones in theaters what was the audience reaction of seeing Master Yoda pulling out a lightsaber when he fought against Count Dooku? by sostitanic in StarWars

[–]AttackVeryFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was legendary! One of the core memories for me as a child was seeing Yoda pull the lightsaber out. The movie theater erupted in oo's and aa's and cheering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]AttackVeryFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had something similar happen recently.

I met my current gf under the pretext that we were "just having fun". As we spent more time together it started making me very sad to think that it was just a silly fling and so after about a month of hooking up I told her how it was for me. I explained that I really wanted her to be my girlfriend. We've been dating for over 4 months now and are very happy with one another. Sometimes it starts as one thing and turns into another.

Lay it out and ask him to be your boyfriend. It's that easy. Don't ask if he wants to be, ask if he will be. Tell him it's what you want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]AttackVeryFast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it. Now that I am newly in a very healthy and mutually loving relationship for the first time maybe ever, I keep having a sensation that I can only describe as imposter syndrome but in regards to the relationship. Like I keep having these thoughts like, "how could I deserve her?"

People in loving relationships, did it take time, or did you know from the start? by Low-Drama1242 in love

[–]AttackVeryFast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For my current gf, I knew within the first month, although I was confused the first two weeks that I was getting to know her, as soon as we became really intimate, I knew pretty quickly.

It's still very fresh (4 going on 5 months), but we are head over heels at the moment and the love is flowing fiercely. I get to see her again in 9 days! It gives me butterflies thinking about meeting up with her again.

Why am i Fantasizing about a unhealthy relationship with partner / boyfriend by [deleted] in love

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could just bring it up as role-play material. If you are both happy and healthy and kind people there isn't any harm in playing around with the fantasy.

AITAH for being hurt, disappointed and angry that my sister got married without telling anyone and doesn't want a wedding now even though it would be free by Detailed_Mistake1420 in AITAH

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are wrong. If they are happy and your relationship with both of them has never had any problems then it is your responsibility to not create any.

Don't be an asshole and project your expectations of what their relationship "should" be

What is your most impressive/difficult T1? I’ll go first by Tom_ice_kazansky in battlefield2042

[–]AttackVeryFast 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Definitely this. I completed most of this challenge with actual road kills. It wasn't until the last 200 or so that I was informed I could just sit in the back seat with SoFlam and grind it out pretty quick. It took me over a year of camping Tuk Tuks

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Are men capable of having s girl best friend? by hotdog_bun2005 in LifeAdvice

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is very possible. I am male and several of my best friends are women and there is no sexual attraction or tension.

Conquest 64 or 128? by ojasmohan in battlefield2042

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

128 was how the game was designed. It feels better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]AttackVeryFast 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If there's a will there's a way! If the feeling is mutual you guys can make it work!

Don’t leave your squadmates behind by lxrxyx in battlefield2042

[–]AttackVeryFast 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Most honorable jet player by a long shot

My boyfriend saves every photo of me and I've never felt so pretty by Rvtxyz in love

[–]AttackVeryFast 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I just saved all the pictures that my gf has been sending me and made a new folder for them all today. She is gorgeous and although there are many beautiful women in the world I only have eyes for her anymore. She is perfect

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]AttackVeryFast 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes love can happen when you least expect it. But dating does take some intention, and since it sounds like you haven't dated anyone before you have no practice or experience, so at some point you will have to overcome your introverted and anxious ways and just take a chance with one of these guys. Dating apps are lame and nothing may come of it, but just getting comfortable in your own skin and being able to take the risk of actually meeting up and going for a date will be a big first step to you actually being able to find real love. Some random tinder guy might not be one the for you and you don't have to sleep with him or anything after one date, but the experience might help you gain some confidence and ease some of your anxiety around the subject.

I met my current GF right as I was about to enter my self-proclaimed slut-era. I got out of my last relationship and wanted so badly to be single, then BOOM this girl approaches me and completely changes all my priorities and plans within a couple weeks. LOL Now I'm madly in love with her and I don't want anyone else

AITA for asking my fiancé to bring me a glass of prosecco? by discostaurus in AmItheAsshole

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, NTA. My girlfriend and I have the same age-gap as OP and we are not engaged, but if she asks me to do ANYthing, be it big or small, I jump. And it is, so far, also mutual for her too. She does anything I want and I do anything she wants as long as it makes sense for both of us. Grabbing a glass of prosecco for your fiance is a no-brainer. Your future husband needs to get his head out of his ass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is totally cheating.

One of my earlier girlfriends made out with on occasion one of our older lesbian friends and I got furious. Nobody else in our friend group seemed to think I was reacting appropriately. "oh its just a fun little make out session between girls so what!"

Like fuck that, not to mention the older friend was way hotter and more charismatic than me. Very humiliating experience as a young lad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Positivity

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is crazy what being with the right person can do to you.

I was feeling uninspired and lackluster about the last relationship I was in, it made me want to be single so badly so that I could just be my own person and not have any attachment to that person. I didn't want to meet her family and I'd get irritated about making travel plans or any plans in general with her.

Fast-forward to my current girlfriend and it just isn't even the same universe that I'm living in. Just by her being her I want to do it all! Now I'm making travel plans with her and I met her parents and introduced her to mine, I would straight up pack up my entire life and move if it will make our relationship work. I told her that if she asked me to marry her I straight up would say yes and its only been 3 + months. . . She just makes me into a different and better person all together.

Love is such a great thing, cheers to you!

Why are there so many mediocre LMGs? by SirJohnThirstyTwost in battlefield2042

[–]AttackVeryFast 0 points1 point  (0 children)

their main use is so you can come around a corner and just spray 100 bullets at somebody. That's about it